Many women have the frustrating experience of going out with a guy on one or a few dates, thinking that things go very well between the two of them, and then having that guy suddenly stop calling, disappear and lose all interest in them. It is probably not a big deal when it happens with one or two guys, but if this has been your experience with men over and over for several years or longer, it is hard to not take this personally and not start believing that there is
something about you that turns men off and makes
those men lose interest in you.

if this happens on often then OF COURSE there must be something wrong with that woman.