As romantic type of guy. After work you get back home and always want your wife laying close to you with her head on your chest while you guys watch the tv. Once in a while you run your hand althrough her body to assure her you care and you are there for her. You noticed she is not really comfortable with that and when you ask she says 'she like to be close to you but doesn't like it when you touch her body'. Pls is this the same with other ladies if she can say this does she really love the guy at all? Be rest assured the guy in question does not have mouth or body odor or a rough hand.

To add to please can any one explain the best and peaceful way to tell your husband, you are not feeling ok or not in perfect mood to have sex at the moment, in a manner he will understand and be OK?

Mutual understanding between a woman and her husband goes a long way in how they relate...

If both of them really understands each other, the husband would know even without being told when to touch her or not. ..






EricRichie

Op have you paid her bride price?

If all things are normal, I believe she is not the very romantic type. However, I would expect such a woman to get used to such touches from her hubby.

If a woman isn't in the mood to be romantic, her body language is enough to tell her husband.

is his finger nail well cut

Is that the way she behaves when you guys were together before marriage??

To add to please can any one explain the best and peaceful way to tell your husband, you are not feeling ok or not in perfect mood to have sex at the moment, in a manner he will understand and be OK? [/quote]

understand what kwa? no way we will understand when baba D is upright.

I av a frnd who is uncomfortanle with touch too. Dnt knw why but she says she dislikes it. she is a gud conversationist tho.

Lilyomi:
I av a frnd who is uncomfortanle with touch too. Dnt knw why but she says she dislikes it. she is a gud conversationist tho.

She must be a snail or a "Touch me not"

@OP the lady needs to see a psychologist. How would you be legally married and wouldn't want to be cuddled or touched.

She could have remained celibate naa!!