Sparrow13:
Only gentle men can do this

MizMyColi:
Impossible is nothing.
Miracles still happen.

To those who really desire this, be ready to be the same to your man.

You can only give/receive a measure of love which you have first given to yourself.

Ordinarily, we'd yinmu at topics like this and shout how impossible it is. Meanwhile in our hearts of hearts, we really desire to be treated that way, but a huge part of us has given up on that.

Well today, I choose to react differently...

I affirm that I deserve to be loved in a manner that's beyond what the OP described.
I set myself free to dream again.
I am full of the creative force of the universe.
Nothing shall be impossible to me.
I, Adannaya, I call it done

Oya, it's your turn, speak!

laplace12:


hmmmm..

Wetin na
Good morning.

VictoriaBee:
*Pitches tent*

Waiting for Nairaland end time men to vent their usual frustration.

MizMyColi:


Wetin na
Good morning.

laplace12:


morning dear..

I was searching for the pm button

Lols.
Seun is the only NLer who doesn't have one.

Look harder

yusaze:
While dream vacations and life milestones are important, it’s the simple things you do that make your wife happy. Show love and respect to your bride every day, and remind her why you were the best choice she’s ever made. Here are 10 basic tips for showing every day love. Remember: Happy wife, happy life.

1. Introduce her with a compliment
Saying something like “I’d like you to meet my beautiful wife,” or “Here’s my better half” goes farther than you may realize. Publicly recognizing her as your cherished partner validates that you love her.

2. Embrace when you see her
At the end of a long day conquering office battles and keeping the kids from climbing walls, you could both use a loving hug. Make a point of showing you missed her and are glad to be reunited. A big kiss doesn’t hurt, either.

3. Ask her how you can help
If this is a new one for you, she may think there’s a catch. With a sincere willingness to give a helping hand, ask how you can lift her burden. This gesture applies to more than yard work, but being in tune with her needs emotionally and spiritually, as well. Sometimes she just needs a listening ear.

4. Let her pick the movie
Or, if you’re playing games, let her choose. She needs to know her opinion counts in your marriage. Taking turns with these simple choices makes it easier to compromise on the bigger choices together.

5. Forgive her fast
She forgot to pack your lunch, or accidentally broke your TV remote. So, she’s human, after all? With all that she does right, let it go when she makes mistakes. After all, you’re no perfection yourself, cupcake!

6. Hold her hand in public
Some women are less inclined to public displays, but when appropriate, reach out and squeeze her hand. With the reassurance you’re proud she’s yours, she’ll walk a little taller, and smile a little bigger.

7. Write her love letters
You don’t have to be Shakespeare; the thought matters most here. Focus on _specific_things you love about her; the wrinkle in her nose when she laughs or how she finds joy in the little things. You can hide it in her makeup bag, under her pillow, or somewhere else she’ll discover it. She’ll be happily surprised and treasure your words for years to come.

8. Open the door for her
Chivalry is not dead. Opening the door is a gentlemanly way to take care of your lady. She likely grew up wanting to be a princess. Be her prince.

9. Carve out time for consistent date night
In an on-the-go digital world, it’s easy to get caught up in the minutia of kids, work, community, extended family and even church responsibilities. Set aside a weekly special night just for the two of you. It doesn’t need to be costly or extravagant. Just make an effort to court her, as you did when you were dating.

10. Let her fly
As her partner, you are in the best position to help her reach her dreams.

Source: http://www.9janewsarena.com/2015/05/10-simple-ways-to-make-your-wife-happy.html

kinglekan:

ROTFL.. LWKMD.

MMotimo:
Too many rules killing the spontaneity in marriages -
He should do this, she should do that
It's not about rules, marry someone who at least likes you a lot (and that you like a lot too) if you can't find one who loves you head over heels
If you can be buddies, your relationship will go that much smoother
Don't get bogged down with dos and don'ts
She must be able to cook, he must be able to cook, she must wash clothes, he must wash clothes and all the other distractions
Marriage should start with friendship and deciding what you can accommodate/tolerate with the right person
In the end, there is little that is non-negotiable

#ditchtherules

MMotimo:
Too many rules killing the spontaneity in marriages -
He should do this, she should do that
It's not about rules, marry someone who at least likes you a lot (and that you like a lot too) if you can't find one who loves you head over heels
If you can be buddies, your relationship will go that much smoother
Don't get bogged down with dos and don'ts
She must be able to cook, he must be able to cook, she must wash clothes, he must wash clothes and all the other distractions
Marriage should start with friendship and deciding what you can accommodate/tolerate with the right person
In the end, there is little that is non-negotiable

#ditchtherules