No 1 and 6 ehn.. I just pray my kids know these anywhere they are (with the Creator)!!!
I hate those with great passion!

I dont want to be a murderer of my own kids!

Meaningless trend how does this change the price of fuel in the country u just paying irrelevant attention to useless things I see this as a normal thinhg in a child u can't compare a child thinking to an adult. Am very sure u kind of jobless go get a job

obeenah40:
This are normal childish behaviors, No big deal,

These are not normal childish behavior dear especially the number 1 , i can beat the hell out of a child cos f that.
Thank God he knows me , he dares not

solzmuller:
Meaningless trend how does this change the price of fuel in the country u just paying irrelevant attention to useless things I see this as a normal thinhg in a child u can't compare a child thinking to an adult. Am very sure u kind of jobless go get a job

Example of a spoilt adult.So sure u must av started dis right from childhood and ur parents must av believed it is normal till u grew up with it.

If wot the OP has written does not concern u ,must u comment?Go get a brain sweetie

The Op Should Have modified the topic dis way "10 signs ur gf is spoilt Lols #justsaying

olaolulazio:
Op, what if the child is autistic?

A child can be austistic and at the same time given proper training .Talking from experience

Ma parent take cain train me if i misbehaved,i go use cain train my children if they misbehave.

That one na for oyibo dem pikin.
For naija...




























Buy two slim cane, twist am join. If d pikin still dey mumu, wire am one for back.















Sure method be dat.

11. watching too much of BEN10 shows sign of evil in him.
12) too much of indomine noodles and drinking bobo.

when parents decide to spoil their own child they will have to bear the aftermath of it..

What happened to flogging the spoilt brat


I do flog or home ground u

That's how most Igbo flattiees children are brought up .very rude ,disrespectful, uncouth, ills mannered ,poorly educated despicable lots.from where the finally become nuisance and menace to society everywhere they go the kinda children who wake up their parents in the morning with a KICK, demanding for food

ruffDiamond:
That's how most Igbo flattiees children are brought up .very rude ,disrespectful, uncouth, ills mannered ,poorly educated despicated lots.from where the finally become nuisance and menace to society everywhere they go the kinda children who wake up their parents in the morning with a KICK, demanding for food

Look at this tool.... Bringing tribalism into this.
This problem cuts across board, and is not peculiar to any tribe

a parent came to fight teachers at a school for giving her SSS3 daughter just 2 strokes of cane following her refusal to participate in one of the school xtra curr. act. imagine... spoilt family

If your child is spoilt, then you need to become firm with him.

donbenedict:
They love indomie

They like food more than book!

Ugosample:

Look at this tool.... Bringing tribalism into this.
This problem cuts across board, and is not peculiar to any tribe

then u be never had much with the type of kids u mentioned in I the post ...that part abt trying to control adult ehn, the flatees kids broke all records in all form of RUDENESS, AND PRIMEVAL BEHAVIOR S,DISGUSTINGLY CRUDE ATTITUDE .respect for others is never part of their upbringing and culture right from infancy!do yr research well ,they come up top of the list .just add b to east and u know the rest

It Is Always Their Way Or No Other Way! http://www.bummyla.com

Op u r entirely correct the problem with most parents is that the make their kids believe that the world is a bed of roses which isn't altogether true.
They allow kids do anything they like and get away with anything no form of correction or discipline and when any outsider like the teacher tries to correct such kid the parent will fight such teacher.
Now tell me what you as a parent expect a child who is in his or her formative years with his mind at tabular Razer to Make of and pick up from such attitude.
Dat is why we have deformed adult With abnormal attitude everywhere











May God help me and my husband to raise our kids well

ruffDiamond:
then u be never had much with the type of kids u mentioned in I the post ...that part abt trying to control adult ehn, the flatees kids broke all records in all form of RUDENESS, AND PRIMEVAL BEHAVIOR S,DISGUSTINGLY CRUDE ATTITUDE .respect for others is never part of their upbringing and culture right from infancy!do yr research well ,they come up top of the list .just add b to east and u know the rest

Keep quite there.
I bet you are Yoruba, so let me educate you.
I'm an igbo person, and our culture is founded on egalitarian foundations. That is imbibed in his/her head from childhood. So every one, both old and young respect each other, as opposed to Yoruba culture that the elders don't respect the young.

You cannot just shout down an Igbo kid or young adult, just because you think you are older than him, especially when he is on his right, neither can you just push Ihim anyhow. Yoruba on the other hand, promotes such thongs.


It is a culture clash. That is all, and that is why Yoruba people don't understand Ibo people.

Ugosample:


Keep quite there.
I bet you are Yoruba, so let me educate you.
I'm an igbo person, and our culture is founded on egalitarian foundations. That is imbibed in his/her head from childhood. So every one, both old and young respect each other, as opposed to Yoruba culture that the elders don't respect the young.

You cannot just shout down an Igbo kid or young adult, just because you think you are older than him, especially when he is on his right, neither can you just push Ihim anyhow. Yoruba on the other hand, promotes such thongs.


It is a culture clash. That is all, and that is why Yoruba people don't understand Ibo people.

I so love u brother for this tanx for letting him know that is y we can never understand each other because we don't respect people's culture a wise man once said the reason why the whites are better than us is because they try to understand a particular culture and y things are done in a particular way while the black man ridicules such culture

Ugosample:


Keep quite there.
I bet you are Yoruba, so let me educate you.
I'm an igbo person, and our culture is founded on egalitarian foundations. That is imbibed in his/her head from childhood. So every one, both old and young respect each other, as opposed to Yoruba culture that the elders don't respect the young.

You cannot just shout down an Igbo kid or young adult, just because you think you are older than him, especially when he is on his right, neither can you just push him anyhow. Yoruba on the other hand, promotes such thongs.


It is a culture clash. That is all, and that is why Yoruba people don't understand Ibo people.

the only sensible post i have read on this thread. people have been talking trash from page one. The entitlement to respect that a certain tribe has is just sick and hypocritical. they thrive on the slave rider ideology.

PLANETMARS:
if I catch d mod wey ban me all this days see wetin I go do am.......#spoilt child

lolx

madjune:
What do you call a child that plays on the computer all day?

u won't understand

spicy244:



A child can be austistic and at the same time given proper training .Talking from experience

I don't think you've handled an autistic child before.

ismokeweed:
I thought spoilt kids are those that write 'Toto is good for boys and girls" in class?

Lolz.....the ones dat write it on toilet walls.

Ugosample:


Keep quite there.
I bet you are Yoruba, so let me educate you.
I'm an igbo person, and our culture is founded on egalitarian foundations. That is imbibed in his/her head from childhood. So every one, both old and young respect each other, as opposed to Yoruba culture that the elders don't respect the young.

You cannot just shout down an Igbo kid or young adult, just because you think you are older than him, especially when he is on his right, neither can you just push Ihim anyhow. Yoruba on the other hand, promotes such thongs.


It is a culture clash. That is all, and that is why Yoruba people don't understand Ibo people.

which right?? Who doesn't know his right? Na only Yoruba u dey talk?MOST TRIBES in Nigeria HATE and DESPISE the Igbo's for that very disgustingly unacceptable loathsome behaviour s!ask an average Hausa man on the Street ,in fact ,ask any tribe u ll get the same answer as mine. all around the world ,RESPECT,next to LOYALTY, isrecognized ,appreciated and rewarded .even one famous Mtn advert says it all: BOW DOWN AND ACHIEVE remember that? Little wonder y'all finding it difficult to produce a President after the respected ZIK it all boiedl down to lack of trust and confidence in the Igbo, a tribe which prides itself and mistakes lack of decorum, being generally disrespectful, haughtiness and uncivilized behaviours to so called bravery and courage and the vain pride they so much love to indulge and delude themselves with ad infinitum as if other are just simpleton, all cos of a very faulty and absolutely wrong orientation and poor upbringing .as for me I CAN NEVER have anything TO DO WITH ANY SUCH PERSON OR PERSONS

ruffDiamond:
That's how most Igbo flattiees children are brought up .very rude ,disrespectful, uncouth, ills mannered ,poorly educated despicable lots.from where the finally become nuisance and menace to society everywhere they go the kinda children who wake up their parents in the morning with a KICK, demanding for food

you see the reason why I say these nigerians hate us.....there always attack us at the slightest provocation and even when they is no provocation at all like this one here.......what is the reason for being tribalistic What is the reason for talking like a fool What is ur justification for attacking the igbo nation May the God of Biafra end your generation!!! Gbam!!! Ewu!!!

Jonathan2787:
parents are the reason why any child can be spoilt, you can't sow something and reap another, that's why I like western parents they don't what Africans do, for instance parents in Africa argue in front of their kids, they fight in their presence, they say hurtful things about each others family so why do you want a child who has heard and seen such things not to do the same. and there's the issue of trait,that's why an elephant can never give birth to an ant. then the constant flogging you are not helping the child because with time he wont be scared of your cane again. if prefer sitting kids down and talking to them, grounding them like western parents do, seizing things they hold dear for awhile,teaching them that simple act of gratefulness, telling them how your favors are privileges not right, enforcing the respect of seniority. I remember my mum preventing us from beating our stubborn last born saying he's a kid an eight years boy so insolent and spoilt he even knows things I don't know yet he's still a kid. letting them enjoy their self at times, instead of saying shawarmq spoils them just get them some so they won't be curious to the point of stealing money to buy it, just like parents who don't allow their girls near guys such girls are the first to get pregnant because they are curious, instead u give them sex education nothing more, make sure they understand who they are and what you won't let them be most of all bring them close to God, love your wife as u love her when you guys started going out. take her out constantly as if you are still dating,kiss her in front of the kids there's nothing wrong with that, make sure the family sits at the end of the day and chat, listen to what each has to say even the youngest has something to say, lack of communication kills a family, be their friend not an estranged person whom they are scared to talk to. I used to be scared of my dad like a plague when I was growing up because he's never around because of politics when I grow up I realised he isn't as scary as I thought its because he didn't give us the impression that he's the listening type. make time for your family.don't put your career first so they won't lack your guidance as a parent.

you emphasised on so many points but i want to address only the point of "WESTERN" pattern of training kids.......av got nothing much to say about that but all am saying is that

"WHEN YOU HAVE A BLACK PROBLEM ,SOLVE IT THE BLACK WAY"

thank you

ruffDiamond:
which right?? Who doesn't know his right? Na only Yoruba u dey talk?MOST TRIBES in Nigeria HATE and DESPISE the Igbo's for that very disgustingly unacceptable loathsome behaviour s!ask an average Hausa man on the Street ,in fact ,ask any tribe u ll get the same answer as mine. all around the world ,RESPECT,next to LOYALTY, isrecognized ,appreciated and rewarded .even one famous Mtn advert says it all: BOW DOWN AND ACHIEVE remember that? Little wonder y'all finding it difficult to produce a President after the respected ZIK it all boiedl down to lack of trust and confidence in the Igbo, a tribe which prides itself and mistakes lack of decorum, being generally disrespectful, haughtiness and uncivilized behaviours to so called bravery and courage and the vain pride they so much love to indulge and delude themselves with ad infinitum as if other are just simpleton, all cos of a very faulty and absolutely wrong orientation and poor upbringing .as for me I CAN NEVER have anything TO DO WITH ANY SUCH PERSON OR PERSONS

its better to be regarded as respectful outside than within your territory

of what use it is that you will bow to the elderly yoruba man that does shit but wouldn't hesitate to persecute another man of same caliber that committed same crime as the yoruba man?...and now that's hypocritical,allow others to tell you that you are respectful not the other way round and you nt achieve this feat if you continue with the method i stated above......


BE CIVILISED FOR ONCE



I HATE BEING A TRIBALIST

obeenah40:
This are normal childish behaviors, No big deal,

craze