Let her keep starving him, it simply paves an outlet for a mistress!!!!!

tpiadotcom:
couple of days ago a male poster insisted he would die if he does not locate a brothel that very night.

so, if lack of sex can kill somebody, its a problem common to all men then.

don't blame women for not having the same problems as you.

oga, speak for yourself abeg and stop generalising, basing even yourself on someone else's experience, who does that? . No wonder you didn't get a single 'like' upon all your epistle.

cilifa:
One can understand when you are still both single and not sure if marriage will happen.

But after tieing the knot and become husband and wife, some women still expect their husband to beg for intimacy or uses sex as a bait to get something from the husband. Many women today still does not initiate sex even when they crave it.
Why then get married?

I think ladies just like been the object of Attraction(or maybe it's just how nature made it), you take dt away from dem or make em feel less important they become unsettled"

like d other day, a Lady I cut off from becos of her pranks called me saying stuff like "You know say Guy no suppose do Yanga for Babe it's viceversa"
Whatever dat means"

But on a serious note not in marriage. ..

Personally, I don't beg a lady for stuff especially if its my right, but seriously if a lady should make me beg once for something and still refuses, she's screwd"

Na she go beg last "Last" !!

Yomieluv:
even fiance does that too, she loves asking me the doables and the non-doables before having my way, I go just dey nod head like agama lizard to have my way.

After having your way did you still oblige to all her doables and undoables

Ewuro4:


Yes I enjoy to hear him whine & beg coz it turns me on.

why should a woman want to hear a person crawl and beg and whine? that's wickedness, lack of genuine feelings, childishness and very low self-esteem. If someone needs to come down for you to feel on top, meen there's a need for a total esteem overhaul. I think I know girls like you. Bless your heart dear

RISKY GAME!

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themodernman:

You are making a grave error thinking that way...its still d same art of seduction that works in a man that works in a woman but different techniques. A woman that is attracted to you sexually is easier to convince than a woman who isn't.
As I said don't get it twisted...."parole" may sound like an unacceptable word but a man who lacks in its experience will definitely encounter problems with his wife. Its the reason you see a woman cheating on her husband with another man despite depriving his man of sex. Its simply because the other man is doing the assignment for the husband which is d art of seduction.
Can you deprive a seductive woman sex because you want her to do something? Likely not! But I'm sure you think a woman can do that cos you're probably not well-informed to think they can be seduced...you think after she gets married & "parole" ends she automatically & magically stops being the woman she was & thats where lots of men miss & end up having their women lose attraction for them.
Lemme explain your point so you can understand better: A woman wey sabi give man the thing will use it to her advantage by depriving him until she gets what she wants then satisfy him afterwards cos that's her only power as you rightly said. But she's a human being just like you with sexual feelings, if you also play your cards right by seducing her too, she'll receive the "" with all pleasure 4getting what she was tryna get in the first place...play your cards right bro!

Guy, just see below post to understand what I'm saying.
You can seduce and have all the sex, but after YEARS of sex with that one person, whether you like it or not.....the novelty wears off. It's not parole tinz. I emboldened the foolishest part of her logic for you.

Princess4eva:
Not the best thing to starve ur hubby of sex bt I do it at times though. I do it to curb his excesses. It works for me, he gets to behave cos he NEVER plays away match nd wont want to stay starved for long. Since denying him gets me what I want, No Stopping!

After this novelty wears off on her end, most female kids like the one above begin to see it as a means to "get her way" in marriage's many differences of opinions. The wife you are talking about (not parole-related), is the one that has understanding and is far too loaded in a full-package way to use something as petty as sex to gain any sort of upper hand over her husband.

Ofcourse there are situations where the guy is no longer trying....but that is not the scenario I am referring to here.

I'm also not talking about the small small yanga they do first prior to gbenching. that one na normal.

I'm referring to the sex nazis like previously posted f00l who doesn't know that she is using her own hand to push her husband into the point of no return. She is there decieving herself thinking she is being smart or a "boss chick".

cilifa:
One can understand when you are still both single and not sure if marriage will happen.

But after tieing the knot and become husband and wife, some women still expect their husband to beg for intimacy or uses sex as a bait to get something from the husband. Many women today still does not initiate sex even when they crave it.
Why then get married?

Because most men only smile to their wives when they want to have sex.

Moana:
ask him the same question. Why is he married?
Since u want to insinuate that sex is the beginning and end of marriage

what are u talking? Today we tell the kids to wait till they get marry before having seex. Tomorrow we still tell them another thing. Which one should be followed?

mechanics:
lolz, by force abi?

no na....we put them clear when we pay that fûcking bride price

Moana:
who said anything abt going down on your kneels... Things like whispering please and biting her ear while she goes running around the house playfully thats the kind of begging im talking abt. Making her feel like she is that teenage girl again and forming small shakara until she is really turned on and ready for action.

Its a matter of bringing excitement to it

Oh ! That?

MrNL:
I personally won't beg my wife for sex,her body is mine and so is mine hers,if she thinks she won't give me sex,no biggie,I will simply get it outside, and I will still act the responsible man I am at home..I won't hide the fact that am cheating from her tho...she better shussh it since she can't give me

Same here.

AfricanApple:
I hate troubles

u will so like this one when u meet him

mechanics:
lolz, but u wil soon marry, its just 4 one to learn.

That's why I'm here to read comments

ekiloui:
1.) Some women have very low libido
2.) Some feel that's how it should be (I.e the husband should always be the one to ask for it)
3.) Some think it makes them more desirable ( the more they hide it the more the man needs it)

The truth though is that as women we have a duty to satisfy our spouse, if he needs it simply give it to him except of course you have a reasonable excuse (e.g your period, fatigue, illness etc). And also you should be able to ask your husband for it too...men also like to feel desired, don't think you're the only one who wants to feel attractive, your husband will feel attractive whenever you ask, so stroke his ego.

If you want to hoard... Prepare for your husband to start playing away match.

I like girls like you. Very open. No need to be shy. Always say it how it should be. Thumbs up.

MrNL:
I personally won't beg my wife for sex,her body is mine and so is mine hers,if she thinks she won't give me sex,no biggie,I will simply get it outside, and I will still act the responsible man I am at home..I won't hide the fact that am cheating from her tho...she better shussh it since she can't give me

wat if she also cheats?

Id any woman starves me.
Id gladly go outside have have the fvcck of my life

Robisi:
wat if she also cheats?

then she has decided to park out..I am not d one denying her sex,its d oda way round so she better not try it

muphasar11:

Am sorry thanks

that's a very good answer to give a dumb azz bro, haahhahaahhaa

cilifa:
One can understand when you are still both single and not sure if marriage will happen.

But after tieing the knot and become husband and wife, some women still expect their husband to beg for intimacy or uses sex as a bait to get something from the husband. Many women today still does not initiate sex even when they crave it.
Why then get married?

I'll allow that only if she's got a very good reason if not, that azz is mine!!!!!!!! and I'm taking it because i know just few minutes she will be enjoying the show or if I ain't time for shii since she doesn't want to do her job I will get a willing lady to do it for her and if she performs better and blow my mind?!?! na new wahala be that ooooo *shedding tears of joy *

this is the issue am facing with my wife and i have made up my mind not to cheat on her.....most times i beg for sex and it killing me

cilifa:
One can understand when you are still both single and not sure if marriage will happen.

But after tieing the knot and become husband and wife, some women still expect their husband to beg for intimacy or uses sex as a bait to get something from the husband. Many women today still does not initiate sex even when they crave it.
Why then get married?

HONESTLY SPEAKIN DE ENJOY $EX BETTER THAN MAN BUT STIL DE ARE THINKIN DE ARE FAVOUR MEN

icedbeatz:


that's a very good answer to give a dumb azz bro, haahhahaahhaa

Smiling

Princess4eva:
Not the best thing to starve ur hubby of sex bt I do it at times though. I do it to curb his excesses. It works for me, he gets to behave cos he NEVER plays away match nd wont want to stay starved for long. Since denying him gets me what I want, No Stopping!

he never plays away match, lol hopefully you are right. you deny him for no reasonable reason but to cut his excesses?! what excesses if I may ask?

LADY IF HE CHILLS OUT WHEN U DO THAT smh 4u Cos
1. he's got a skilled side pvssy
2. he's got few side pvssies
he's not to blame cos you refused to do your matrimonial obligations.

Moana:
ask him the same question. Why is he married?
Since u want to insinuate that sex is the beginning and end of marriage

If the grammar is too much for you I believe the OP can break it down in pidgin English. Is it too much?

Its romantic, not like I don't want it, but I would just enjoy seeing my husband rub his hands all over me n say plssssssssss baby........lol. But Not all the time though.

Ewuro4:


And that is ?

I weep for yall future... Most of you will end up alone in hospice/nursing homes (after hip replacement ) in your last days without any woman to wipe your bums. That is when you'll understand the benefit of swallowing your ego once a while.

Yes I enjoy to hear him whine & beg coz it turns me on.

egocentric s worrying u, u wan to b d boss, y didn't make him beg b4 sex when courtin cos u tot u might loss him den..... Keep it up if he s nt compliantin means ur househelp s really helpin u.

CUS ITS USUALLY ROMANTIC WEN DEY BEG

boluyongp:
why should a woman want to hear a person crawl and beg and whine? that's wickedness, lack of genuine feelings, childishness and very low self-esteem. If someone needs to come down for you to feel on top, meen there's a need for a total esteem overhaul. I think I know girls like you. Bless your heart dear

You don't know a quarter of how womens' scheming works... Men are the most gullible creature to handle , no offence

I'll take the bold^^ in your comment as a compliment. Happy Sunday

hotgunz:
egocentric s worrying u, u wan to b d boss, y didn't make him beg b4 sex when courtin cos u tot u might loss him den..... Keep it up if he s nt compliantin means ur househelp s really helpin u.

Before nko? I am the boss. Complaining about what? He's a big boy and Too bad we don't have a house help I'm very good at cleaning and cooking like a piece of cake. No wahala.

Moana:
ask him the same question. Why is he married?
Since u want to insinuate that sex is the beginning and end of marriage

Funny enuf, you might not believe it but it is.

priscaoge:

That's why I'm here to read comments

lolz, u can also contribute na.

baybeeboi:

no na....we put them clear when we pay that fûcking bride price

na so o.