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Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by winner01(m): 6:29pm On May 16, 2015 |
Feminism. Now, this is likely to ruffle a few feathers among those who have swallowed the devilish lies the feminist movement have propagated over the years, so I want to emphasise right from the start that what I'm about to discuss is not an attack against women any more than feminism has women's liberty at heart. Rather it is a revealing of the true meaning of feminism and its inherent evil. feminism is said to refer to a series of campaigns for reforms on issues such as reproductive rights, domestic violence , maternity leave , equal pay , women's suffrage , sexual harassment , and sexual violence , all of which fall under the label of feminism . feminists have also had to maintain focus on women's die reproductive rights, such as the right to abortion. In terms of language, Feminists are sometimes, though not exclusively, proponents of using non-sexist language , using " Ms. " to refer to both married and unmarried women, for example, or the ironic use of the term "herstory" instead of "history". Feminists are also often proponents of using gender- inclusive language, such as "humanity" or "womankind" instead of "mankind", or "he or she" in place of "he" where the gender is unknown. There is also the criticisms of men's contributions to child care and domestic labour centered around the idea that it is unfair for women to be expected to perform more than half of a household's domestic work and child care when both members of the relationship perform an equal share of work outside the home. The general idea is man-advantage, woman-disadvantage. Feminism deceitfully seems to tackle this issue when in real life, for most “female disadvantages” there is some parallel “male disadvantage”. below is an analogy. 1. Women are under far more risk of sexual violence than men are. Men are under far more risk of being sent to prison. 2. Just as women are expected to stay at home and be mothers, men are expected to go out, even migrate, and be breadwinners. 3. Just as women are oppressed by social ideas of beauty, men are oppressed by social ideas of success. 4.Just as women are oppressed by the idea of chastity, men are judged by how many women they’ve bedded. 5.The male equivalent of sluts is not, as some people think, studs who have lots of sex, but losers who do not have any – both “sluts” and “losers” are considered failures on the mating market. (Incidentally, womaniser is not a nice word.) 6. Words like Dam and Well gendered, but so are creep, dick, bastard and asshole. 7. Assertive women are considered overbearing, and unassertive men are considered weak. 8. violence against women has been highlighted in the media lately. people insist that women have it particularly bad because they face violence on a daily basis. Yet, the vast majority of homicide and assault victims are men. Society allocates more men to careers in the police force, the military and crime, where the violence is the point . The riskiest occupations, like fishing, logging or diving, are largely male. Men are the majority of suicide victims. Rape is rampant in prison, and a non-issue for the public. Men are goaded to fight and considered “less of a man” if they back down. Most of the lives laid down in wars and political struggles are male. Men are also victims of domestic violence, and yet the law doesn’t even recognize this as a possibility in most countries. Even in today’s American army, which has made much of integrating the sexes and putting women into combat, the risks aren’t equal. This year we passed the milestone of 3,000 deaths in Iraq, and of those, 2,938 were men, 62 were women. Almost universally, they live shorter lives. Men are, and always have been, the disposable sex . Clearly men face violence, and it’s clearly a gendered institution. 9. While many argue that men commit more aggressive crimes than women, studies can prove that some women commit these same heinous crimes. Unfortunately, leniency for men seems to have no place in the criminal justice system, especially when it comes to the murdering of a spouse. Over the past several years, some women have been allowed to serve little to no time at all for... Here’s a link showing that women tend to get shorter sentences for similar crimes: http://www.studymode.com/essays/ Gender-Equality-Women Serving-Less-Time-621679.html 10. we are all aware of the numerous day to day priviledges given to women e.g The Indian Government has amended the law to exclude the possibility of female rapists and hardly do you find female rape cases all over the world. NOTE: I’m not claiming that women have it better than men or vice-versa. Asking “who has it worse – men or women?” is like asking “what is more painful – being kicked in the balls or giving birth?” its a dead - end. I’m only using the existing frame of female disadvantages to illustrate male disadvantages. But this merely replaces one question with another: why are feminists exposed to one-sided examples? Despite being against all gender essentialism in theory, nine times out of ten, the activities of self-identified feminists – protests, op- eds, speeches, blog posts, organisation, tweets, essays, legal activism etc. – center around women’s problems. The fact that beauty, a social construct, can drive young girls to unhealthy eating habits gets highlighted – the fact that success, a social construct, can drive young men to withdrawal and depression does not. I’m not denying that the first is a gender issue – I’m insisting that the second is as well. They’re both consequences of individuals failing to live up to some ideal that is partially determined by their gender. Research has shown that several arguments of the feminist activism is an unintelligible shorn of the empirical commitment to the basic thought that ‘women have it worse’. And this only fuels the proof that there is more to feminism philosophy than meets the eye and sadly unsuspecting ladies are dancing to the tune of this movement. |
Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by winner01(m): 6:31pm On May 16, 2015 |
A BIBLICAL APPROACH.
Several books could be written concerning the evils and
destructive forces inherent to feminism. Feminism is anti-God,
anti-marriage, and anti- family. What is feminism? Let’s start
with what feminism isn’t.
It is NOT women’s rights, as many have been deliberately
misled to believe. God created man and woman equal in dignity,
worth, and human rights.
However, God did NOT create man and woman equal in
authority. God clearly mandated that the husband would rule
over his wife (Genesis 3:16, “…and thy desire shall be to thy
husband, and he shall rule over thee” ). This is the dividing line,
the great barrier that separates God-fearing women from the
feminist movement. In a word—AUTHORITY. The godly wife
obeys her husband. No husband is perfect, and the godly
woman understands this. She loves her husband, and is patient
with him. She wills no evil towards him, and does her best to
help him with his life’s work (keeping the house in order while
he’s at work). She is his “help meet” (Genesis 2:18).
Let me help you to understand some of the philosophy that is
behind this movement, by giving you some quotes from the
recognised leaders of the feminist movement:
Gloria Stimenn (sp.) says,
"By the year 2000 we will, I hope, raise our children to believe
in human potential, not God."
Radical feminist leader Sheila Cronam (sp.), who is oft quoted
by the way, says this, "Since marriage constitutes slavery for
women, it is clear that the women's movement must
concentrate on attacking this institution. Freedom for women
cannot be won without the abolition of marriage."
The "Declaration of Feminism" goes back to November of 1971
when they laid out their agenda and this is what it says, "The
end of the institution of marriage is necessary for the liberation
of women; therefore, it is important for us toencourage women
to leave their husbands and not live individually with men. All of
history must be rewritten in terms of oppression of women. We
must go back to ancient female religions like witchcraft!" Mark
that, "We must go back to ancient female religionslike
witchcraft!"
Anne Lori Gaylor (sp.) writing an article called "Feminist
Salvation" in the "Humanist" in 1988 says, "Let's forget about
the mythical Jesus and look for encouragement, solace, and
inspiration from real women. 2,000 years of patriarchal rule
under the shadow of the cross ought to be enough to turn
women towards the feminist salvation of the world."
Dr. Mary Jo Bane, feminist, Assistant Professor of Education at
Welsley College, and the Associate Director of the school's
Centre for Research on Women, writes, "In order to raise
children with equality we must take them away from families
and communally raise them."
And that well known name, Margaret Sanger, the founder of
Planned Parenthood, writing an article called "Women in the
New Race," says this, "The most merciful thing a large family
can do to one of its infant members is to kill it."
Sheila Croonan (sp.) again, writing in the National Organisation
of Women Times, in January of 1988, said, "The simple fact is,
every woman must be willing to be recognised as a lesbian to
be fully feminine!"
"We can't destroy the inequities between men and women until
we destroy marriage" - Ms Robin Morgan
"My current position on marriage is that I am against it. ...
Politically, I am against it because it has been oppressive for
women, and through privileging heterosexuality, oppressive for
lesbians and gay men" - Virginia Braun
and so on. one way or the other, the end result glorifies
lesbianism.,
Sadly again our ladies look up to these people and they
unknowingly commune with the devil by looking up to these set.
A truth is that ladies have always been empowered right from
the days of the bible till date, the deceit of feminism is a lie from
the pit of hell....Take this set into consideration ;
Rebecca, ruth, deborah,esther, tamar, even the wicked Jezebel,
below are other examples of women who changed the world.
(note their eras as contrast to the ideology of the subdued
woman).
Sappho (c 570 BC) One of the first published female writers.
Much of her poetry has been lost but her immense reputation
has remained. Plato referred to Sappho as one of the great 10
poets.
Cleopatra (69 – 30 BC) The last Ptolemaic ruler of Egypt.
Cleopatra sought to defend Egypt from the expanding Roman
Empire. In doing so she formed relationships with two of
Rome’s most powerful leaders Marc Anthony and Julius
Caesar.
Mary Magdalene (4 BC – 40AD) Accounts from the Gospels and
other sources suggest Mary Magdalene was one of Jesus’ most
devoted followers. Mary Magdalene stood near Jesus at his
crucifixion and was the first to see his resurrection.
Boudicca (1st Century AD) Boudicca was an inspirational leader
of the Britons. She led several tribes in revolt against the Roman
occupation. Initially successful her army of 100,000 sacked
Colchester and then London. Her army was later defeated.
Hildegard of Bingen (1098 – 1179) Mystic, author and
composer. Hildegard of Bingen lived a withdrawn life, spending
most of her time behind convent walls. However her writings,
poetry and music were revelatory for the time period. She was
consulted by Popes, Kings and influential people of the time.
Her writings and music have influenced people to this day.
Eleanor of Aquitaine (1122 – 1204) The first Queen of France.
Two of her sons Richard and John went on to become Kings of
England. Educated, beautiful and highly articulate, Eleanor
influenced the politics of western Europe through her alliances
and influence over her sons.
Joan of Arc (1412 – 1431) The patron saint of France, Joan of
Arc inspired a French revolt against the occupation of the
English. An unlikely heroine; at the age of just 17, the diminutive
Joan successfully led the French to victory at Orleans. Her later
trial and martyrdom only heightened her mystique.
Mirabai (1498-1565) Indian mystic and poet. Mirabai was born
into a privileged Hindu family, but she forsook the expectations
of a princess and spent her time as a mystic and devotee of
Krishna. She helped revitalise the tradition of bhakti
(devotional) yoga in India.
St Teresa of Avila (1515 – 1582) Spanish mystic, poet and
Carmelite reformer. St Teresa of Avila lived through the Spanish
inquisition but avoided been placed on trial despite her mystical
revelations. She helped to reform the tradition of Catholicism
and steer the religion away from fanaticism.
Catherine de Medici (1519 – 1589) Born in Florence, Italy,
Catherine was married to the King of France at the age of 14.
She was involved in interminable political machinations seeking
to increase the power of her favoured sons. This led to the
disastrous St Bartholomew’s Day Massacre.
Elizabeth I (1533 – 1603) Queen of England during a time of
great economic and social change, she saw England cemented
as a Protestant country. During her reign she witnessed the
defeat of the Spanish Armada leaving Britain to later become
one of the world’s dominant superpowers.
Catherine the Great (1729 –1796) One of the greatest political
leaders of the Eighteenth Century. Catherine the great was said
to have played an important role in improving the lot of the
Russian serfs. She placed great emphasis on the arts and
helped to cement Russia as one of the dominant countries in
Europe.
Jane Austen (1775 – 1817) – One of the most popular female
authors Jane Austen wrote several novels, which remain highly
popular today. These include “Pride and Prejudice” “Emma” and
“Northanger Abbey”. Jane Austen wrote at a time when female
writers were not so high profile, helping pave the way for future
writers.
Harriet Beecher Stowe (1811 – 1896) A life long anti slavery
campaigner. Her novel “Uncle Tom’s Cabin” was a best seller
and helped to popularise the anti slavery campaign. Abraham
Lincoln would later remark her books were a major factor
behind the American civil war.
Queen Victoria (1819 – 1901) – British Queen. Presiding over
one of the largest empires ever seen, Queen Victoria was the
head of state from 1837-1901.Queen Victoria sought to gain an
influence in British politics whilst remaining aloof from party
politics. She came to symbolise a whole era of Victorian values.
Florence Nightingale (1820 – 1910) British nurse. By serving in
the Crimean war, Florence Nightingale was instrumental in
changing the role and perception of the nursing profession. Her
dedicated service won widespread admiration and led to a
significant improvement in the treatment of wounded soldiers.
Elizabeth Blackwell ( 1821 – 1910) Born in Britain, Blackwell
was the first women to receive a medical degree in America and
the first women to be on the UK medical register. Blackwell
helped to break down social barriers, enabling women to be
accepted as doctors.
Emily Dickinson (1830 – 1886) One of America’s greatest poets
Emily Dickinson lived most of her life in seclusion. Her poems
were published posthumously and received widespread literary
praise for their bold and unconventional style. Her poetic style
left a significant legacy on 20th Century poetry.
Marie Curie (1867 – 1934) – Polish / French scientist. Curie
was the first women to receive the Nobel Prize and the first
person to win the Nobel Prize for two separate categories. Her
first award was for research into radioactivity (Physics 1903).
Her second Nobel prize was for Chemistry in 1911. A few years
later she also helped develop the first X ray machines.
Rosa Luxemburg (1870-1919) Polish / German Marxist
revolutionary, Rosa Luxemburg sought to bring social revolution
to Germany. She wrote fiercely against German imperialism and
for international socialism. In 1919, she was murdered after a
failed attempt to bring about a Communist revolution in
Germany.
Helena Rubinstein (1870 – 1965) American businesswoman.
Rubinstein, formed one of the world’s first cosmetic companies.
Her business enterprise proved immensely successful and later
in life she used her enormous wealth to support charitable
enterprises in the field of education, art and health.
Helen Keller (1880 – 1968) American social activist. At the age
of 19 months Helen became deaf and blind. Overcoming the
frustration of losing both sight and hearing she campaigned
tirelessly on behalf of deaf and blind people.
Coco Chanel (1883-1971) – French fashion designer. One of the
most innovative fashion designers, Coco Chanel was
instrumental in defining feminine style and dress during the 20th
Century. Her ideas were revolutionary; in particular she often
took traditionally male clothes and redesigned them for the
benefit of women.
Eleanor Roosevelt (1884 – 1962) Wife and political aide of
American president F.D.Roosevelt. In her own right Eleanor
made a significant contribution to the field of human rights, a
topic she campaigned upon throughout her life. As head of UN
human rights commission she helped to draft the 1948 UN
declaration of human rights.
Mother Teresa (1910 – 1997) – Albanian nun/ charity work.
Devoting her life to the service of the poor and dispossessed
Mother Teresa became a global icon for selfless service to
others. Through her Missionary of Charities organisation she
personally cared for thousands of sick and dying people in
Calcutta. She was awarded the Nobel Peace prize in 1979.
Dorothy Hodgkin (1910 – 1994) British chemist. Hodgkin was
awarded the Nobel prize for her work on critical discoveries of
the structure of both penicillin and later insulin. These
discoveries led to significant improvements in health care. An
outstanding chemist, Dorothy also devoted a large section of
her life to the peace movement and promoting nuclear
disarmament.
Rosa Parks (1913 – 2005) – American civil rights activist. Rosa
Parks’ refusal to give up her bus seat in Montgomery, Alabama,
indirectly led to some of the most significant civil rights
legislation of American history. She sought to play down her
role in the civil rights struggle but for her peaceful and dignified
campaigning she became one of the most well respected figures
in the civil rights movements.
Queen Elizabeth II (1926 – ) Since ascending to the British
throne in 1952, Elizabeth has served as the second longest
serving British monarch. She has witnessed rapid social and
economic change and has been a unifying influence for Britain
and the Commonwealth.
Indira Gandhi (1917 – 1984) – First female prime minister of
India. She was in power from between 1966-77 and 1980-84.
Accused of authoritarian tendencies she only narrowly avoided
a military coup by agreeing to hold an election at the end of the
“emergency period” of 1977. She was assassinated in 1984 by
her Sikh bodyguards, in response to her storming of the Golden
Temple.
Margaret Thatcher (1925 – 2013) The first female Prime
minister of Great Britain, she governed for over 10 years, putting
emphasis on individual responsibility and a belief in free
markets.
Marilyn Monroe (1926 – 1962) American actress who became
one of the most iconic film legends. Her films were moderately
successful, but her lasting fame came through her photogenic
good looks and aura of glamour and sophistication.
Anne Frank (1929 – 1945) – Dutch / Jewish author. Anne
Frank’s diary is one of the most widely read books in the world.
It reveals the thoughts of a young, yet surprisingly mature 13-
year-old girl, confined to a secret hiding place. “Despite
everything, I believe that people are really good at heart.”
Audrey Hepburn (1929 – 1993) – British actress. Influential
female actor of the 1950s and 60s. Audrey Hepburn defined
feminine glamour and dignity, and was later voted as most
beautiful women of the twentieth century. After her acting career
ended in the mid 1960s, she devoted the remaining period of her
life to humanitarian work with UNICEF.
Germaine Greer (1939 – ) Australian feminist icon of the 1960s
and 1970s, Germaine Greer enjoys raising contentious issues.
In particular her book “The Female Eunuch” was a defining
manifesto for the feminist movement, which proved influential in
the 1960s.
Shirin Ebadi (1947- ) An Iranian lawyer, Ebadi has fought for
human rights in Iran – representing political dissidents and
founding initiatives to promote democracy and human rights.
Awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 2003.
Benazir Bhutto (1953 – 2007) The first female prime minister of
a Muslim country. She helped to move Pakistan from a
dictatorship to democracy becoming Prime Minister in 1988.
She sought to implement social reforms, in particular helping
women and the poor. She was assassinated in 2007.
Diana, Princess of Wales (1961-1997) – British Royal princess
who was noted for her humanitarian charity work. Despite
troubled marriage to Prince Charles, she was popular for her
natural sympathy with the poor and marginalised from society.
J.K.Rowling (1965 – ) British author of the phenomenal best
selling Harry Potter series. The volume of sales was so high, it
has been credited with leading a revival of reading by children.
She wrote the first book as a single mother, struggling to make
ends meet, but is now one of most successful self-made
woman.
Tegla Loroupe (1973 – ) Kenyan athlete. Loroupe held the
women’s marathon world record and won many prestigious
marathons. Since retiring from running, she has devoted herself
to various initiatives promoting peace, education and women’s
rights. In her native Kenya, her Peace Race and Peace
Foundation have been widely praised for helping to end tribal
conflict.
Malala Yousafzai (1997 – ) Pakistani schoolgirl who defied
threats of the Taliban to campaign for the right to education.
note; many of them are not christians, im just trying to expose
the feminist idea that women have been subdued for too long. |
Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by Nobody: 6:39pm On May 16, 2015 |
please, help me tell them o. Women have been accomplishing wonderful things before feminism was even dreamt of. I don't know what drives these people. It's just so confusing. Cc Farano Ishilove Please move this to the . . . culture section. Abi? |
Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by winner01(m): 6:42pm On May 16, 2015 |
Lets consider our very own
QUEEN IDIA - Queen Idia was the mother of Esigie, the Oba
of Benin who ruled from 1504 to 1550. The FESTAC Mask.
Iyoba Idia's visage is the most widely known face of an
African royal woman after the Egyptian Queen.
MRS OLUFUNMILAYO RANSOME-KUTI
QUEEN AMINA OF ZARIA - The most powerful woman
warior in the history of Nigeria
MARGRET EKPO - Foremost activist
MARY ONYALI - Queen of the tracks
HAJIA GAMBO SAWABA
EFUNSATAN ANUWURA
Grace Alele Williams
KUDIRAT ABIOLA
DR. MRS BOLANLE AWE
DR. MRS ADADEVOH
Pastor bimbo odukoya
omotola jolade ekehinde
Gloria bamiloye
rebecca ikpe
Major General Aderonke Kale
Dr. Bene Madunagu
chief. bisi ogunleye
madam tinubu
and the list is endless. These ones ddnt have to be feminists or
mislead young ladies to make their mark and they will be
remembered always.
Feminism is nothing more than plain old rebellion. I not only
stand by that assertion but I want to expand on it because it's a
serious issue confronting the church. Feminism with all of its
assorted features and its unique companionship with
homosexuality is an old, old heresy that is meant to destroy
God's design. It really started in the Garden when Eve, the
original feminist, stepped out from under Adam's authority and
thought that she would act independently and led the whole
race into sin; and thus the first act in Satan's feminist agenda
was successful.
Feminism is a deadly evil, responsible for most abortions,
divorces and lesbianism. This is true especially in American
culture because of all the demonic influence in Hollywood
movies and worldly music today. Feminism is so prevalent that
many churches and Christian families have been infiltrated with
this destructive menace—virtually undetected.
Feminism is very deceitful and subtle. The serpent (Satan,
Revelation 20:2) came to Eve in the Garden of Eden, offering her
liberation; but in reality, Eve became enslaved to sin and ruined
her entire family. Oh, how Satan always pays with counterfeit
money! Sin always takes you further than you wanted to go,
keeps your longer than you planned to stay, and costs you more
than you intended to pay.
Feminists seek equality with authority, just as Lucifer, who said
in Isaiah 14:14: “I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I
WILL BE LIKE THE MOST HIGH.” Feminists want equality of
authority like Lucifer. It is evil. The Bible teaches that a
husband is to “rule over” his wife (Genesis 3:16), and a wife
should possess the “meek and quiet spirit” that 1st Peter 3:4
teaches for Christian women to have...
Society today is becoming increasingly hostile towards anyone
who stands for God, Biblical truth, and genuine justice.
Christians are increasingly being persecuted for exercising their
Bill of Rights. Godly husbands, who control their wives (as 1 st
Timothy 3:4 states, “One that ruleth well his own house…”) are
being labeled as “abusive.” A husband is to RULE his wife and
children. Feminism calls that abuse. Clearly, feminism and the
Word of God are DIAMETRICALLY opposed to each other. The
Devil is working relentlessly to corrupt America with immorality,
divorce, and pornography. Feminism is the fueling factor behind
the lesbian movement in America. Feminism’s dead-end is
lesbianism
Feminism isn’t just a seemingly harmless word that male-
chauvinists toss around; it is a war against the God-fearing
husband who tries to rule his family. Feminism is rebellion!
Divorce is Always a Sin!
I'm sorry if you come from a broken home, but truth must be
said, most people who advocate for eazy marriage dissolution
are products of dysfunctional, broken homes or traumatised
relationships.
Feminism shows no mercy towards a faulty husband, and
results in unforgiving self-righteous divorce. All divorce is a
sin. There are NO Biblical grounds for divorce. The biggest lie in
churches today is that divorce is permissible in cases of
adultery. If that were true, then what about all the other sins
one's spouse can commit... murder, theft, extortion, lust? Jesus
taught in Matthew 5:28 that lust is the same as adultery. If you
believe that lust is a sin, then every wife of a husband who lusts
has grounds for divorce. Clearly, Jesus did not intend for
anyone to divorce, which He makes very clear in Matthew 19:8.
Divorce is always a sin. In Matthew 19:9 Jesus simply taught
that if a man's wife divorces him, then he is the victim, and not
committing adultery by remarriage. She filed. It was her self-
righteousness that dragged the husband into court. By
comparing Scripture with Scripture, it is plain that divorce is
never permissible. The person who files for divorce is sinning,
and has no Biblical grounds for remarriage (to do so is the
horrible sin of adultery, Matthew 5:32). The Apostle Paul is
careful in 1st Corinthians 7:10 to use the word “depart,”
concerning the wife who leaves her husband; but Paul does
NOT mention putting away (divorce). The wife who departs is
clearly commanded not to shack up nor remarry.
Divorce is one’s unwillingness to forgive their spouse! No wife
would ever divorce her husband if she truly loved him—not one!
I don’t care if he beats her, she won’t divorce him (leave, yes;
divorce, no). Say what you will, I don’t recall any disclaimer in
the wedding vows for spousal abuse which would permit a
divorce. And by the way, there are NO Scriptural grounds for
divorce .
Feminist “Christian” Wives
It is tragic! I’ve never seen so many professed “Christian”
women leaving their husbands, and filing for divorce. This is
why I said earlier that feminism has subtly crept into many
Christian homes in America. The Godless court system in
America has made it extremely easy for women to divorce their
husbands, and take him to the cleaners financially. Women are
provided with a free public lawyer, simply by claiming spousal
abuse. The husband has no choice but to go into debt for
$20,000 to hire an attorney (and most husbands still lose).
The wife is provided free housing, food, transportation, and
plenty of destructive heathen advice at any one of thousands of
shelters across America. Where is a husband to go when his
wife disobeys him and refuses to be a wife and a mother? The
wife is automatically viewed and treated as the victim in a
marriage dispute, while the husband is usually demonized by
the entire system. Women are often provided free education, an
apartment, welfare, et cetera—everything she needs to abandon
her husband and move on into the dream world of feminism.
Please don’t misunderstand what I am saying; I’m not against
helping a legitimately battered woman getting on her feet.
However, many of the women claiming spousal abusive are
shiftless, lazy, irresponsible, cut-throat women who simply
exploit the system to leave their husband. They’re looking for
an easy way out. The system is often a “way out” for careless
and irresponsible women who leave their husbands holding the
bag--the job, the mortgage, the kids, the problems, the debts,
etc. Divorce is a horrible sin!
I’ve known several women who just got tired and used “the
system” to escape their problematic marriage. But the husband
cannot do that, as he has nowhere to go—except back to work
for another stressful day at the job. Feminism has provided
wives and mothers with a way to escape responsibility, and hurt
their husband legally. I’m so tired of hearing about “deadbeats”
dads. Do you know why there are hardly any deadbeat mothers?
It’s because the court system goes after the breadwinner—the
father. Did you ever stop to think that many of those fathers who
refuse to pay child-support are doing so in PROTEST—against
an evil system that is trying to FORCE him to provide for his
children ... while his wife shacks up with another man in
adultery?
It’s a matter of principal and a man’s dignity. If a man’s wife is
rebellious against him, and she tries to hurt him further with the
courts, it is not surprising to me that such men would refuse to
cooperate with a Godless court order. In America, a woman is
not expected to obey her husband. So when a man thinks he is
marrying a “Christian” woman who will obey him, and 10 years
down the road she drags him into a heathen court system for a
divorce, he is up a creek without a paddle.
The American court system is Godless, allowing wives to rebel
against their husbands, and then expecting the husband to
comply with court orders made by Godless judges in a rigged
system. Should this be surprising in a court system that allows
the murdering of millions of children through abortions? I think
not.
furtherthermore, what all of these feminist organizations who
contest the 50% divorce rate FAIL to consider, is the fact that
more people are choosing to shack-up together nowadays than
get married at all. From a moral standpoint, this is disgraceful.
It requires more than just a casual willingness, on the part of
Christian wives, to obey their husbands nowadays. It requires
the commitment of a martyr! I will die before I divorce!
Every Christian wife should vow to NEVER divorce her husband!
She may need to leave for a while; but divorce is out of the
question.
I know a born-again man whose “Christian” wife looked him in
the eye, after 18 years of marriage, and said, “I don’t love you
anymore.” He had never heard her say that before in all the
years they were married. He said he cried uncontrollably in the
back of their home. Less than 6-months later she abandoned
him and the kids, and filed for divorce. He was devastated. Do
you think this is acceptable to the Lord? Do you think God
approves of a "Christian" wife filing for divorce? Wasn’t it God in
Hebrews 13:5 who PROMISED that He would “never leave us,
nor forsake us”? Yes, that is exactly what God has promised to
every believer. If Jesus Christ is our Example, and He certainly
should be, then we should honor the very same commitment to
our spouse that God has given to us — I will NEVER leave you,
nor forsake you … no matter what!!!
Don't Allow Feminism to Kill, Steal, and Destroy Your Family
Has feminism crept into your marriage? Are you continually
threatening your husband with divorce? Are you thinking about
it? Feminism is a POISON ladies—a poison of the mind.
Feminism poisons a wife’s mind to believe that she is a victim
who needs to be liberated. Women are more than twice as likely
to file for divorce than men . MOST women today who divorce
their husbands were NOT victims of anything, except their own
worldliness, stubbornness, bad attitudes, selfishness, and sinful
pride.
Every marriage has problems. Jesus was willing to become a
victim for our sins. Jesus allowed Himself to be beaten, spit
upon, mocked, scourged, and crucified. Why is it then that we
are so quick to file for divorce? Instead of looking for greener
pastures, try planting some of your own grass. Don’t allow
feminism to rob you of your marriage. Don’t throw away your
husband. You PROMISED “’til death do us part.” John 10:10,
“The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to
destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might
have it more abundantly.” — Jesus CHRIST
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Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by faith551(m): 6:42pm On May 16, 2015 |
I don't need proof to tell my wife that am the one in authority, she can't help but understand that. Over emphasising the point is just more like giving them an option. I dnt support violence, but two captions can't definitely be in one ship |
Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by passionate88: 7:06pm On May 16, 2015 |
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