OK straight to the point.
I have this friend, more like a brother to me tho, tall, well built, handsome,.......... He's simply the ladies man.
He has this pretty cool girl he loves, her name is always poping up in any conversation he is involved in,but he has other side chicks, (you know the guys thing) and am aware of that.
But recently there's this beautiful girl that comes around, cool,intelligent.... She's an all round beauty. She's also friendly and homely and that attracted me to her, but the closer I am to her the more obsessed I am about her (the platonic obsession tho), and at this point Am really thinking why my friend is doing this to her,she's just so harmless. I know she's just a side chic but she doesn't know that and she's really into my friend.
So my question is should I tell her what's up, cause I know my friend wnt leave his girlfriend for her. Am really compelled cause she doesn't deserve what's coming, but I've been through a lot with my friend and I don't want to risk the relationship.

Thanks for having the patience to read through all this, I need matured advice ASAP pls

In other words...Op wants to snitch on his friend and usurp his friend's position in the girl's heart

And we wonder why people die prematurely in very tragic circumstances

anyway... my advice sha

Ask your friend how he feels about that chic, and tell him you are honestly interested in her, and that if he is just into her for the puna and nothing more serious, he should just chop her and then leave her for you, or better still, concentrate on his other fishes and leave her for you.

You will surprised that he might even personally 'arrange' the chic for you

Speaking from raw experience..... I did it once for a friend... and both of them are now married, but poor wretched me is still single ... You should have seen my face when I got their wedding invitation card

Let the sleeping dog lie

Decide that yourself nigga!
Looks like a recycled story self

your friend's babe is a "no go area" don't try it cos you will regret it. talking from experience

faith551:
OK straight to the point.
I have this friend, more like a brother to me tho, tall, well built, handsome,.......... He's simply the ladies man.
He has this pretty cool girl he loves, her name is always poping up in any conversation he is involved in,but he has other side chicks, (you know the guys thing) and am aware of that.
But recently there's this beautiful girl that comes around, cool,intelligent.... She's an all round beauty. She's also friendly and homely and that attracted me to her, but the closer I am to her the more obsessed I am about her (the platonic obsession tho), and at this point Am really thinking why my friend is doing this to her,she's just so harmless. I know she's just a side chic but she doesn't know that and she's really into my friend.
So my question is should I tell her what's up, cause I know my friend wnt leave his girlfriend for her. Am really compelled cause she doesn't deserve what's coming, but I've been through a lot with my friend and I don't want to risk the relationship.

Thanks for having the patience to read through all this, I need matured advice ASAP pls

Your loyalty lies with your friend not her...

iamodenigbo1:
Let the sleeping dog lie

But when it wakes I'll be the one around.
When she finds out, she will se me as a devil too, damn you need to see this girl, she's just so harmless

publicenemy:


Your loyalty lies with your friend not her...

Brother you know I could be guilty of the side chic thingy, and am aware of the bunch my around my friend, but this girl is so different.
Thanks for the advice tho, I pray God helps me

Shut the hell up... Girls won't appreciate it

agarawu23:
your friend's babe is a "no go area" don't try it cos you will regret it. talking from experience

Am actually thinking of telling my friend to tell the girl what's up

faith551:
OK straight to the point.
I have this friend, more like a brother to me tho, tall, well built, handsome,.......... He's simply the ladies man.
He has this pretty cool girl he loves, her name is always poping up in any conversation he is involved in,but he has other side chicks, (you know the guys thing) and am aware of that.
But recently there's this beautiful girl that comes around, cool,intelligent.... She's an all round beauty. She's also friendly and homely and that attracted me to her, but the closer I am to her the more obsessed I am about her (the platonic obsession tho), and at this point Am really thinking why my friend is doing this to her,she's just so harmless. I know she's just a side chic but she doesn't know that and she's really into my friend.
So my question is should I tell her what's up, cause I know my friend wnt leave his girlfriend for her. Am really compelled cause she doesn't deserve what's coming, but I've been through a lot with my friend and I don't want to risk the relationship.

Thanks for having the patience to read through all this, I need matured advice ASAP pls

She's nt a fool, dnt jus assume she doesn't knw wats goin on, if she hasn't left him for u den u shud knw uve jus been havin a one-sided fantasy... Forget abt it and find urself another girlfriend

faith551:


Brother you know I could be guilty of the side chic thingy, and am aware of the bunch my around my friend, but this girl is so different.
Thanks for the advice tho, I pray God helps me

Hmmnnn... You know nothing aabout women

when helping a lady,you don't put anything at risk,unless ofcourse you know she cares as much about you..

She knows he has other chicks trust me... This is the very reason your father told you to be wary of women.

vizkiz:
come on!
You wanna go behind your pal's back and betray him because of one pussay you are obsessed with

That is just sick nigga! You should not be a little biiittch!

That was harsh u know.
I never said I wanted the girl for myself, between I dnt even date my friends ex, I see them as my sister.

faith551:


Am actually thinking of telling my friend to tell the girl what's up

Loool. Ure askin a lion to tell a sheep dat u(a hyena) wants to feast on his dinner? Dnt b suprised if d lion feasts on u and leaves ur remains for d sheep to scavenge upon

passionate88:
Shut the hell up... Girls won't appreciate it

Imagine it was your sis in her shoes and someone had the chance of giving her a heads up

faith551:


Am actually thinking of telling my friend to tell the girl what's up

I don't think you need that. just leave him with his game

don't break friendship cos of a girl, ladies out there aren't worth it

CountDracula:

Loool. Ure askin a lion to tell a sheep u(a hyena) wants to feast on his dinner?

That's the point, he never back stabbed me, but this girl is innocent, she might probably be a virgin

faith551:


That's the point, he never back stabbed me, but this girl is innocent, she might probably be a virgin

No girl is innocent bro. And uve nt seen her pvssy so u actually hav no proof she's a virgin

agarawu23:
I don't think you need that. just leave him with his game

don't break friendship cos of a girl, ladies out there aren't worth it

OK. Just that am experienced in the game too, and this one looks like she's worth it.
Thanks for the advice tho

CountDracula:

No girl is innocent bro. And uve nt seen her pvssy so u actually hav no proof she's a virgin

Ok

faith551:


Imagine it was your sis in her shoes and someone had the chance of giving her a heads up

I remember when someone told a girl that her guy was cheating on her with her roomie, the babe fought the bf, then told him that it was his friend that told him about his cheating... That thing just brought an end to the friendship... Girls don't reason like we guys do

faith551:


But when it wakes I'll be the one around.
When she finds out, she will se me as a devil too, damn you need to see this girl, she's just so harmless

why didn't she fell for you?

the evil man does.........


Am surprised at the comments here. Yet these guys are the same saying girls aren't loyal.

I know none of the guys who commented would want such thing to happen to their sisters.


Excluding,buygala the rest of you should be ashamed of yourselves


op. I go with buygala's advice. the girl will know her position in his life when he let her go.


its an indirect way of telling her the truth without being guilty.

iamodenigbo1:
why didn't she fell for you?

Dnt know, I got to know her via my friend

CountDracula:

No girl is innocent bro. And uve nt seen her pvssy so u actually hav no proof she's a virgin

wtf!!

no girl is.........


what part of the world are you from?

ghetto?

diddydiva:

wtf!!

no girl is.........


what part of the world are you from?

ghetto?

Ma je kin diju gba eti e... Shey u wan tell me say u innocent ni abi na whish girl u see to wa innocent?

IF I WERE YOU I WILL KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT

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diddydiva:

wtf!!

no girl is.........


what part of the world are you from?

ghetto?

I really need the ladies take on this. I bet you guys like I'll see different. I really need to make up my mind soon