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Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by anselchris(m): 8:52am On May 21, 2015
They have dated for 2years +, he never had sex with her because she was still a virgin which he confirmed by himself and he never complained cos he respects her opinion alot But not until recently when he came back from school (Edo to Anambra) they met to do the normal kissing,smooching and all other things they normally do Except Sex That he noticed that she had been deflowered cos she was so free.
After many many talks and denying she finally admitted that someone wanted to rape her but didn't really do it when he found out she was still a virgin but bedore then the guy had already put his finger forcefully and tour the thing.

Location- A hotel ..... She claimed that they were initially in a bar until the guy begged her to escort him to his room to collect something.

Who the Guy is to her- just a friend as She claims.
The worst part being that her boyfriend has always warned her against "Just Friends".

Now the boyfriend wants to call off the relationship.
Advice and suggestions Needed Urgently.
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by JOEFY: 8:53am On May 21, 2015
Screw you man, nobody cares, take your story to your village

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Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by agarawu23(m): 8:56am On May 21, 2015
that's how ladies behave sad when a guy respect you and stick to your rules (,no sex until after marriages) you will still betray him.

bro, the decision is yours

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Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by Nobody: 8:57am On May 21, 2015
Her jail has been broken cheesy let the guy take her back if her story of being a virgin was true and its hard to be married to a virgin grin
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by Tintinnoty(m): 8:57am On May 21, 2015
and wat do u want me to do, help u scold her?
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by Hazardd(m): 9:01am On May 21, 2015
Interesting story........ Waiting patiently for season 2
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by Mrbigman1(m): 9:17am On May 21, 2015
Oboy, get ur fvck section, when u re tired, tell her that u wanted to date a virgin and move on with ur life, no body loses.

Last I check, fingers dnt tear hymen, it take a lot of energy so na set up.
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by pinkiberry(m): 9:24am On May 21, 2015
i understand this feeling of betrayal but if u stil love her be wit ha. she lost her virginity doesnt make her a lesser person,unles u love ha cos of d virginty
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by Nobody: 11:35am On May 21, 2015
The lies.. the lies. If he wants to leave its o.k. If he can forgive the lies and continue the relationship on a clean note all good its all about what he wants.
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by ayokellany: 1:24pm On May 21, 2015
pinkiberry:
i understand this feeling of betrayal but if u stil love her be wit ha. she lost her virginity doesnt make her a lesser person,unles u love ha cos of d virginty

andromida:
The lies.. the lies. If he wants to leave its o.k. If he can forgive the lies and continue the relationship on a clean note all good its all about what he wants.

Forget the cock n bull story. She cheated and you screaming forgive her. Would you have forgiven the guy if he was the one caught cheating ?
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by olasmith10(m): 1:25pm On May 21, 2015
I think you should dump her ass.cos of the ffg reasons

1. She is a wicked and inconsiderate lady.For u to hold urself for 2 yrs means u respected her feelings and her status as a virgn.she doesn't towards u.

2.u may v trust issues with her if u accept her back..

Don't put love into dis issue o..remove any love for now..cos if u do, u ll make d wrong decision.
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by olasmith10(m): 1:29pm On May 21, 2015
ayokellany:




Forget the cock n bull story. She cheated and you screaming forgive her. Would you have forgiven the guy if he was the one caught cheating ?



don't mind them.what do u expect from a lady before..where did she keep d love before d guy invited her to d bar, told her to come into his hotel room, laid her down, remove d panties and used his fingers....truth is d guy banged her real gud..forget any finger theory...
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by Nobody: 2:25pm On May 21, 2015
ayokellany:




Forget the cock n bull story. She cheated and you screaming forgive her. Would you have forgiven the guy if he was the one caught cheating ?

Yesss with love. cheesy i'll set him free if people want to fly, you have to help them.
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by pinkiberry(m): 3:10pm On May 21, 2015
ayokellany:




Forget the cock n bull story. She cheated and you screaming forgive her. Would you have forgiven the guy if he was the one caught cheating ?
yes i wil 4give.to err is human to forgive is divine
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by xtervaganza(m): 3:59pm On May 21, 2015
pinkiberry:
i understand this feeling of betrayal but if u stil love her be wit ha. she lost her virginity doesnt make her a lesser person,unles u love ha cos of d virginty
see the shower of sh1t raining from you mouth.



A girl denied her gut sex for years only to be enjoying the sex with another guy; isn't that betrayal?
Re: Confused And Shattered Heart, Advice Needed Before He Self Destructs. by pinkiberry(m): 4:28pm On May 21, 2015
xtervaganza:
see the shower of sh1t raining from you mouth.



A girl denied her gut sex for years only to be enjoying the sex with another guy; isn't that betrayal?
I just said I understand the feeling of betrayal pls am sorry if my post upsets u

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