FrancisTony:
Okay, assuming the dude visited his fiancee's place and she served him.

After eating, fiancee's junior sister requests he wash the plate, how would you all feel? or comments on this thread be?

Nairaland men and hypocrisy goes hand in hand.

amokeme:
I don't like doing dishes .. She might be like me

herald9:

After you finish eating, you make to wash the plates... They'll be the one to tell you not to worry...

The girl lacks simple manners bro... Its not everything you must defend...

Sophyrocks:


Nope. Its because you really feel insecure and inferior when ladies dnt do dishes for you. How petty! Your entire manhood and self esteem is tied to what a woman does for you. Shows you are a weakling and not so much as an alpha male some of you pose here! Nairaland, the fantasy world.

Krystalxxx:
Some studies point to the fact that the black woman is regarded as the most undesirable race of women in the world. But some suggest that this is because no other race degrades or openly disgraces their women more than the black race. I think this is true, judging by the posts on nairaland. It is a pity that we do not realize, especially the men, that at the end of the day we are stuck together. No other race would make us one of theirs. The insults heaped on the African woman by African men themselves have given us the title of the least respected women in the world, and what better excuse for other races to disrespect us.

When our men treat our women like rags, outsiders will come to laugh at us as a whole, that's men included. While other countries move to dishwashers and other amenities which enable them to do more useful things in their lives while still taking care of the chores, African men prefer that our women spend the lion's share of their time proving their worth scratching and scrubbing, when we could have a more powerful force of both men and women, powered up educationally and moving the world with their intelligence.

Too bad. Other countries be discussing their next powerful moves and celebrating gargantuan victories.......but Nigerian men and women are still huddled up in their little huts arguing about who will wash the plates

steppin:

Whatever advice or comment you give should also be exactly what you'd do, if you were in the same situation.
As far that house is concerned, she's not a visitor.
She's the fiancee for christ sake! She automatically claims ownership of that kitchen the moment she's there.
The way I see it, that lady is lazy if not, why would she leave her plate for a grown up like her to wash? If the brother was a teenager or someone who's younger, it would have being a different thing.
Whenever I eat at my cousin's place, I do my dishes even though I'm older than the wife.
Most times the woman would ask me not to, but I still do it anyway.
I can decide not to do it and nothing would happen....but I just do it out of courtesy.

khia:



LMAO
You seem to be more fascinated with peni.ses than I am.

RedBenson:


Education and exposure should strictly be meant for men folks. Women should get all their lives spent in the kitchen and keep the home while birthing children.

oloyede252:


lol,the devil is really using you

I quote you because your ridiculous assumption about men on nl,your fantasy world,not because of that shit you wrote up there,

insecure,inferior ,petty,weakling.is what you are,

ode,

firstEVA:
I can't believe an enlightened or supposedly enlightened person will make such a comment, very strange. Redbenson you mean you have this orientation? Wow! WOW!!

RedBenson:


Not really what you take it for. It seems educational opportunity given to women is aiming at making them over-pompous and bloated and it's against the ethics of men...African (Nigerian men particularly). Education is good but dont let the women folks who have the opportunity rub its effects on our faces.

FrancisTony:

Redbenson's post is filled with misogyny, "mere female?", "Ladies that suppose to respect guys".

I didn't support the lady.
I wanted to know his opinion, anyway.
His women-hating is legendary.

2sa2:
This thread made my day, I don't believe women should be deprived of education, the world is changing women support the family nowadays, but shouldn't make them want to unnecessarily rub shoulders with their male counterparts.

Thesonofmark Abi wetin them dey call you, you too funny o, those girls dey fire you, you dey there dey speak grammer

Butt-licker, you need to get your head examined and seek help for your optical impairment while at it. You mean the same girls I browbeat into cowering in retreat ? The very girls who have avoided quoting or mentioning me? You must be high on cheap anti-depressants.

I see you are trying really hard to score brownie points with the rètards. Birds of a feather, I suppose.

TheSonOfMark:

Butt-licker, you need to get your head examined and seek help for your optical impairment while at it. You mean the same girls I browbeat into cowering in retreat ? The very girls who have avoided quoting or mentioning me? You must be high on cheap anti-depressants.

I see you are trying really hard to score brownie points with the rètards. Birds of a feather, I suppose.

TheSonOfMark:

Butt-licker, you need to get your head examined and seek help for your optical impairment while at it. You mean the same girls I browbeat into cowering in retreat ? The very girls who have avoided quoting or mentioning me? You must be high on cheap anti-depressants.

I see you are trying really hard to score brownie points with the rètards. Birds of a feather, I suppose.

freecocoa:
You are so stup1d it hurts, who is avoiding quoting you? You seem to forget you literally begged for the attention that you got on here.

You are a nonentity and the very last person I will blink an eye to quote if I want to, but the truth is, you are a colossal waste of time, mb and space seeing as you are hopelessly retard*d, back in the days when NL was NL, your sorry a$$ will be used to mop the floor, so much that you'd shiver at the sight of some monikers, lekwa ezi o.

How I miss shollypopz and Badosky in times like this, you are but a little fly, you never near.

Awww...'our' scrawny little hag now seeks back-up to save her 'scalded' skin. Bring them on!

Now let me make this as less pelucid as possible to you, shrimp: I get the kicks from suffering retro-cerebral crackheads like your hollow self. I suppose it's my quota to ridding our cyber-sphere of simpletons like yourself who leave trails of their unintelligence in their wake whilst 'criss-crossing' it.

When rétarded midgets are allowed to copulate, they end up birthing vegetables like yourself- humanoids so brain-dead even jellyfishes seem more intelligent in comparision...and jellyfishes have no brains.

firstEVA:
do you believe a women should support her husband financially? For example when he's down she pays the bills, or even make financial contributions for running the home?

TheSonOfMark:

Awww...'our' scrawny little hag now seeks back-up to save her 'scalded' skin. Bring them on!

Now let me make this as less pelucid as possible to you, shrimp: I get the kicks from suffering retro-cerebral crackheads like your hollow self. I suppose it's my quota to ridding our cyber-sphere of simpletons like yourself who leave trails of their unintelligence in their wake whilst 'criss-crossing' it.

When rétarded midgets are allowed to copulate, they end up birthing vegetables like yourself- humanoids so brain-dead even jellyfishes seem more intelligent in comparision...and jellyfishes have no brains.

TheSonOfMark:

Awww...'our' scrawny little hag now seeks back-up to save her 'scalded' skin. Bring them on!

Now let me make this as less pelucid as possible to you, shrimp: I get the kicks from suffering retro-cerebral crackheads like your hollow self. I suppose it's my quota to ridding our cyber-sphere of simpletons like yourself who leave trails of their unintelligence in their wake whilst 'criss-crossing' it.

When rétarded midgets are allowed to copulate, they end up birthing vegetables like yourself- humanoids so brain-dead even jellyfishes seem more intelligent in comparision...and jellyfishes have no brains.

cdamsel:
O MY GOD
And y'all say you came from stable homes?
Is it wrong to treat others the way you would want to be treated irrespective of gender?
It's not about independence or gender equality it's about mutual respect for a fellow human being

RedBenson:


Bros, so many funny things in your post. First, the grammars are so so eeeew, i must tell and secondly, you seem like you want to destroy the bittch completely. Have mercy on her pls.

freecocoa:
How m0r0nic does a person have to be to come up with this?

If only you can leave the self praise for a second and have another shot at attempting to make sense, then maybe you might get somewhere, all you have been doing ever is come up with some gibberish shrouded with some very obviously crammed words, don't you think it tells that you always have to read your supposed insults off a script? You are really dense.

I understand how difficult it is for you to churn out and think up words which aren't shrowded in banality. Good thing is that it comes easy to people like myself.

Instead of mentally masturbating to my words which, as attested by you, are beyond your level of cognizance and ranting, how about calling on your clique of rètards to help you do 'justice'?

Stop being a cry-baby, will you? It's kind of awkward for a hag who's bordering the menopausal age.

DJstrawberry:
...

The Fiancee is wrong in doing that at least sef she should ave washed everything including the kitchen just to show she's a correct wife material!

However the younger bro too is also kinda wrong, there is nothing there at all in washing plate, in fact the fact that he's in his bro house means he should at least do the basic house hold chores just to mask the fact that he is not in his house bt a guest irrelevant of blood or not

The senior brother also apparently doesn't love his brother as much as I do to mine, I can never air our dirty clothes in public, it might be that he resents his bro for evn staying under his roof (maybe the younger has stayed far too long for his liking)

But na the senior bro I sorry 4 most cuz the trait his fiancee is showing now is nt of someone who is responsible enough to keep a family together, just to common wash plate na problem!!!

I can go on n on bt I think its best to stop

TheSonOfMark:

I understand how difficult it is for you to churn out and think up words which aren't shrowded in banality. Good thing is that it comes easy to people like myself.

Instead of mentally masturbating to my words which, as attested by you, are beyond your level of cognizance and ranting, how about calling on your clique of rètards to help you do 'justice'?

Stop being a cry-baby, will you? It's kind of awkward for a hag who's bordering the menopausal age.

RedBenson:


Who wouldnt want a supportive wife? All men want a wife who will support them one way or the other but the issue is, women have taken too much pride to themselves due to educational exposure and that doesnt make men feel their real selves. Men feel like women are trying to put their hands on their (men's) heads.

RedBenson:


Bros, so many funny things in your post. First, the grammars are so so eeeew, i must tell and secondly, you seem like you want to destroy the bittch completely. Have mercy on her pls.

freecocoa:
yet it took you close to 30 minutes to come back with a reply this short and empty to that post of mine? Okay I get it, you had to go to the loo, you are a fecking looser.

How simpleton-like of you ,dolt ,to assume everyone is like yourself , a programmed scumbag, designed to live their lives spewing trash on the internet and who have nothing else going on for them offline. I get it, you subtly explained how miserable your life is.

firstEVA:
you are in the mood for asslicking? that dude has said nothing and you know it. So many lines with no sense.