Earning a child's trust is not by command or the strict actions taken against them but rather showing and practicing some character and non -verbal communication which will send a signal to the child that one can be trusted.

Parents tend to get worried and mix up a lot things all in the name of parenting.once a child 's is earned a parent can be rest assured of getting audience from the child and feedback from the child's activities then ,how do parents earn their child's. trust.Here are some following tips for parents.

1.Practice what you preach.
2.Learn to listen and stay calm:don't overreact all the time and avoid judgmental statements.
3.Telling the truth.
4.Be Reliable:Promises should not be broken.
5.Threats:Should not be often but also done when issued.
6.Appreciation of honesty.
7.Consistency:follow up your way of training.
8.Keep Confidences:Respect the secrets of your child. Don't expose things your child is shy about to the public all in the name of parenting.such as bed wetting.
9.Avoid telling your child off in public.
10.Don't be pushy:Be friendly,calm and open to ideas.
11.Start Small :Tackle and Teach them issues early enough.
12.Apologize.This does not make you a weak or less parent .parents are humane and can make mistakes too.saying "l am sorry" to your child builds and bond relationship with your child.




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Dat part bout I'm sorry thoush, doesn't work in naija @ all. Unless among the butties, not among d kpakoites

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Dat part bout I'm sorry thoush, doesn't work in naija @ all. Unless among the butties, not among d kpakoites

It can work.Saying I am sorry teaches our children how to lam sorry when they are wrong because they have heard dad and mum say it.