You might not want to hear this but
congratulations girl! You had a boyfriend in your
life who thought that his sexual desire was more
important than your wishes and your desires.
Nobody has ‘rights’ over the body of another. We
share our bodies with our partners because we
choose to express our desire for them in that
way. Even within marriage, sex is not a right.
Good for you for getting out of this situation
before it went horribly wrong.
You might not feel fantastic right now. You might
even be heart-broken but take heart. Love and
romantic relationships only flourish between
people who take their partners wishes into
consideration. It seems to be a paradox but the
only way you can fully give yourself to another is
if you know that they respect your rights and the
boundaries you set for that sharing. The more
respect a man has for a woman’s body, the more
she is likely to share it with him freely. If he
abuses that privilege then she can take it away,
as you have.
A man who thinks that a woman’s body is his,
denies her the opportunity to give, and he denies
himself the opportunity to receive. If a woman
turned around and made the same demands on a
man, she too would be denying herself the
opportunity to receive his gift freely.
Stay focused on the fact that you have treated
yourself with respect and high esteem. You will
miss him and remember all the things he does
right because, of course, there was a reason you
were with him and nobody is totally horrible. The
point here is not to demonize him but to choose
better for yourself. You will have to keep making
that choice each time you feel the urge to call
him, or he calls you. You will get through this.

Hmmmm

Ok

So what next?

As long as a woman is willing to be in a marriage relatnshp with a man, it ceases to be a gift. Just that there must be good understanding and consideration. Sex forges intimacy. Its nt a gift.

Even in marriage ? check your bible or Quran well.

Sex is more of a right than a gift. You are a man right? so tell me.. when your wife had you a child.. is it your right? or a gift to you? in the setting of marriage.. Man has the right to have sex with his wife anytime he wants.. it just depend on individual intelligence to know when and when not to ask for it..

Sex is a shared experience that belongs to both parties. It's not a gift that one person owns and can dole out or withhold. It belongs to both parties. They own it together.

But there are times, admittedly, when one partner's libido is greater than the other. In those cases, sex still isn't so much a gift you give up, as it is a salve.

Tunnamania:
Even in marriage ? check your bible or Quran well.

correct

Your body is not yours but belong to your husband and vice versa...in Marriage it is a right even if Na 100 rounds a day. Between, do guys still ask for Sex?

atarapa:
So what next?

No bleep ur babe again

just wen i thought human intelligence couldn't depreciate any further.

wenson:

No bleep ur babe again