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My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by ConfessionsNgr: 7:18pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
I am in terrible pains as I write this. My 3 year old daughter was molested by a neighbor in my compound where I stay. This is a guy that my husband and I have helped severally and I can't just imagine he would do this to us. My husband travels a lot for work and I too work so it's difficult always having to keep an eye on my daughter so I hired a maid to help me look after her whenever I'm not home. I don't know how my maid and this guy connived to do this disgusting act to my 3 year old. I came home and found my daughter crying sick only to investigate and found her bleeding in her private part and it was all swollen. I asked the maid and she told me that the guy came to carry her to his one room apartment to play with her before she heard her scream and rushed to her aid. I started crying and now I have cried my eyes out. I still can't believe that people I help could do this to me. Of course they are both roasting in the police cell now but my major problem now is rehabilitation for my daughter. This happened yesterday and she has been sick since. We have gone to the doctor and gotten drugs for her but the doctor says the psychological trauma will linger on for long. I am so scared and I pray nothing would happen to my only child. I just want to make her happier and to forget about this incidence. Any good advise will be helpful to me now. Source: http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/97/my-3-year-old-was-molested |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
That's y they've also told us to spend more time with our chuildren and not trust them to strangers. Sad case, but Thank God they r now in jail. They guy shud get more punishment, although I thinbk d mauid isn't necessarily an accomplice but was just carelkess |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by Aringarosa(m): 7:35pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
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Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by coogaluta(f): 7:38pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
If I were you, I'll get a gun and kill both of them! I'll then think about what next ![]() ![]() |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by SAMBARRY: 8:20pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Take her to a paediatrician and try and modify your schedules/itinerary so you will have time for her. No one can take better care of her than you. This is when she needs you most now so try and be there for her comfort her and try and make her forget what the pedo did to her I don't know why nigerians keep pretending that pedos don't exist till it happens to them personally. When I say you should watch men who are around your kids closely they will say I've started again EfemenaXY take note ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by SAMBARRY: 8:22pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
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Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by keenn: 8:45pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
The did has been done my friend. She is a kid and probably wount keep such memory to adult hood except when told... We can only try our best, but when disaster struck, and we wound, the best healer is time. Take care |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by veave(f): 10:16pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Jesus!!! |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by Nobody: 6:00am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Lord have mercy! |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by EfemenaXY: 10:04am On Jun 03, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Iya Wura, abeg leave my wrapper jor. Wetin remain to talk again? As far as you're concerned, every male - unborn, young, old, even deceased ones sef - are walking paedophiles. Abi? ![]() |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by SAMBARRY: 10:09am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Madam I DIDN'T SAY SO don't misconstrue my point ![]() leave sentimentalism and sensationalism alone ![]() every man is not a pedo however if the play and closeness is getting too much WATCH OUT. E fit be you ![]() and as per your wrapper is it Swiss or voile lace or apochey wey I go dey hold ![]() EfemenaXY: |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by EfemenaXY: 10:25am On Jun 03, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Senti ko. Sensa ni. ![]() ![]() Na wetin you dey imply na. Even craze man o! Paedophile. Disabled man o! Paedophile. The one wen dem neva born o! Paedophile. The one wen die tey-tey before Christ o! Paedophile.Hungry man o! Paedophile. Angry man o! Paedophile. Suffer head man o! Paedophile. Even Angels Michael and Gabriel o! Paedophiles. Abi? ![]() ![]() ![]() Er my wrapper? Na golden Arabic lace with silver threads from India + diamonds from Russia. Now c'man keep your fingers to yourself jor. Don't commit lookery and touchery. ![]() |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by SAMBARRY: 10:31am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Haaaa EfemenaXY you want to put cocaine inside my pant, God no go gree you ![]() As per your wrapper I didn't know na multi national wrapper. Come and dash me ![]() ![]() EfemenaXY: |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by EfemenaXY: 10:38am On Jun 03, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: ROTFLMAO!!! kulyie! Kulyie!! KULYIE!!! KULYIE!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() Abeg it's only Wednesday morning. Weekend never start. Nor let dem sack moi I take God beg you. ![]() ![]() Later sis. We go jam afterwards. ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by Cherlene(f): 10:45am On Jun 03, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: This is HIDEOUS. I have a three year old as well, MY HEART IS PIERCED reading such TERRIFYING EVENTS. Pray God heal your DAUGHTER, you and those AFFECTED by this experience IJN, amen. Cherlene |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by Veiled010(f): 11:25am On Jun 03, 2015 |
You need to make more time for her.,and pray for God to heal her and make her whole.only Jesus can do that |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by Setaje(f): 11:51am On Jun 03, 2015 |
If not for the way times are hard. I dread living my kids at home wiv maid or anybody. It has almost become impossible to become a working class woman and a good mother. Something must suffer. Op, I don't even no the advise to give. It is well 1 Like |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by jashar(f): 12:35pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: If you are in Lagos, take her to Mirabel Centre Lasu. They deal with rape cases. They also have counsellors that help in rehabilitation. God help us. |
Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by Agrika: 1:31pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
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Re: My 3 Year Old Was Molested. Please Advise by shalommeri(f): 1:34pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
shez 3 yrs old nd nids her mama...she'll onli believe wad u tel her...she'll onli wana b near you and daddy...she'll shut out frm uncles like him...she'll forget it wid time but she wont shut out frm d world of men..she'll still fall in lov...shez young nd it wud heal faster but she may av scary dreams as shez older bt dat wont mean she'll shut out frm men bt she may find it out to believe...to me,i tink she nids daddy mor dan u alto ur role is quite important...she nids u guys by her side mor dan eva nd all d teddies u cud afford |
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