Jamean:
Gardener

This got me laughing!!!!

No mind dem, how old is baba Buhari and mama Aisha? At worst the two of u will become president and wife of the president.

sirjohnson:


Trust me gurl, I aint nearing her pants, am not after that. I have slept with enough girls in my life already. The days I used to be sex freaked are behind me. At most I would kiss her. I just wanna nurture her.

once a sex freak, always a sex freak [quote author=sirjohnson post=34404524]

just date her .. and keep a tight leash on your D .. in two years time she's gonna be Legal .. and no mofo can call you a chad guy .. when she reach 18 nyansh her like tomorrow no de

Yes you're crazy..Simple. How will u brag 2 ur guys dat u're dating an underage 16yrs for d matter?

This is not US, if they catch u doing anything with dat girl, u'll smell jail.

Don't even let d father catch u!

Wait, u want to nurture her and guide her? Story for d Gods!

You better run, cos when things get ugly, d society will frown at u.

Look for a beautiful and mature babe out there, d one u won't come to NL and ask if u 'are crazy or not'

Jail bait.

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

Not a Big Deal at all..... it happens! Twelve years difference no be beans but yours won't be first.

So far you are Ready to wait.... Let her Mature.. Abstain from Any act of indiscipline. Teach her & Nurture her.

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One of my friend is in dat kind of relationship. She has been seeing the guy since she was 15. Now she's 22 & through with her OND. Introduction on the Way.

BTW The guy now 32 made his intentions clear, he let her parent knew what he was up to from the start. And help in bringing the girl up.



So far she loves you and you are not forcing it. Go ahead & make your intentions clear..

Nothing is wrong with that be a Gardner treat her well counsel her well let her knw what life is all about wish u luck, a lot of u here should go nd ask ur dad the age different b/w ur dad nd mumu.

@ OP

There is no need for back 'n forth arguments... if you are so sure of yourself; go and speak to her parents and make sure the relationship is public... no backyard, 'hide 'n seek' things!

opeyemisteph:
Before you finish this guy all ya...Know that we have people who are 12, 13 years older than their wives, this might be one of those in the making. He doesnt want to sleep with her. With his experience he could guide and guard her. Abeg let the poor girl enjoy the love from an experienced dude who doesn't wanna see her pant rather thn those riff raffs who would nyansh her at the slightest opportunity. And besides, a sixteen year old of the 21st century is like a 30 year of the 19th century, those kids know a lot.

bruv there's no big deal dating a young girl, all these parasite saying rubbish are actually perpetrating child abuse underground, with your level of maturity, intelligence and experience you can help save a girl from some stupid unwanted pregnancy and besides who want to marry a girl as the same age as himself in this century of packaging and fake bras, I will rather go for a girl than go for a madam that had finished everything in her stock, age is not a barrier and mind you, you Are not crazy, you have my 101 support

Just think of it this way; if this girl was your little sister and a guy of 28 wants to date her, would you let it happen? If not, then you got your answer. There are other women you can date that are around your age.

stardragon:

so a man of 40yrs cant marry a girl of 28yrs again??

why not? We are talking of 16yrs here and not 28yrs. The girl is still underage. Make the girl grow small abeg.

"I don't want to have sex with her" is what pple ll say when they strt but in the short-run, things go begin change.

I am not against the age difference but the girl's age. I know of many couples with age difference above 15 and they are doing fine.

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

I think it's safe to say, you are at the early stages of pedophilia. you should seriously get some some psychiatric help! i don't blame you, i blame the pedophiles in our senate that made 13 the age of consent. otherwise, the threat of spending 14 years in jail would have been a good deterrent.

besides what experience, maturity, or substance would a girl of 16 bring into a relationship?? seems you a silly sub-matured 28 year old yourself. smh! think about it, if that was your daughter, would you approve of such relationship? i hope you are just seeking attention otherwise.....

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

Oga, do not destroy the girl's life. Let her focus on getting an education.

In saner societies, if you sleep with her, you'd be imprisoned for statutory rape.

StarMogul:
Bros to be honest wif u,I think ur not crazy dis kind of thing happens.Personally my dad is older dan my mom wif 11yrs.They hv a wonderful life full of love nd understanding.But dats becus d love is guniune.If wat u hv said is true,I really don't see any wrong,but I advise caution in handling her,knowing fully well she is still a minor nd still has a childish way of thinking.

IF YOUR MOM was 16, then your dad is a pedophile likewise yourself

son of a rapist father

your feelings aren't wrong.... the age difference is not terrible. just wait till she's 18+.

Some babes be shouting no but be sleeping with chairmen of 20-50 years old difference.

sirjohnson:


Trust me gurl, I aint nearing her pants, am not after that. I have slept with enough girls in my life already. The days I used to be sex freaked are behind me. At most I would kiss her. I just wanna nurture her.

Shut the Bleep up. You will kiss her but you wouldn't sleep with her! what's the difference.

I will advice you to stay away from that girl. You are heading for destruction.

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

A 12yr age difference is not crazy. 24/36, 28/40....would be fine; 12/24, 16/28... Not so much. It would take at least two more years to make it legal and a few more to make it comfortable.

I can understand what a 16yr old girl would want with a 28yr old man; it's exciting for her to discover how her sexuality affects a grown man. It's more exciting than watching a boy drool over you. Basically, it's about power. But from you OP, I sense that you just want to take advantage of the girl's immaturity. It doesn't even necessarily have to be sexual (but you know it will be, sooner rather than later).

No matter how physically mature she seems or how smart she is "for her age", she is still 16 - a Minor. One can't skip stages in personal development so do your self a favor and think back to what it was like for you as a 16yr old. You two are at different stages in your individual lives and I can't imagine that you have a lot in common if you're totally honest.

Do the right thing and stay away from her; by law, she isn't old enough to give you any green lights. And we all know that if you keep spending time with her, you will not be able to resist the urge to commit statutory rape.

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

U are not crazy, however, since u claim u love her, its best u give her time to mature. 4yrs is okay if u ask me. By them, you'll be 32 and she'll be 20yrsold. U may love her, while she may just be infatuated. At the end of the day, it seems you never gave her choices in life. Let her go, give her the chance to see the world, if she comes back to u, she's yours.

I Met my Husband when I was 16 n he was 27. Yep he is 11yrs older dan me. We Got married when I was 22 n almost done with my NYSC. We r happily married with a son n anoda on d wayh. So if he is truly sincere with his motive n if d girl knows what she wants. I see no big deal

Its funny how d supporters tend to compare d era of IGNORANCE of their parents to present days, even some muslims practicing it now hear it hot 4m d society. Stop hiding under ignorance, can u allow ur sister of 16yrs to date a guy of 28? Won't u chase d guy with cutlass?

Sweet 16, I overstand bro; if na U.K or U.S.A now, I for bros no try am o! but this is naija, so long as mummy and daddy don't know...anything can happen and often does enjoy yaself

opeyemisteph:


Common, those kids aint kids anymore, they are grown. They know what love is. Some of them will handle love better than you I swear. He could be a friend and lose her to one agabaya who would disvirgin her, nyansh her like there is no tomorrow. Those kids aint kids.

You do not have to swear

When you have your own little daughter, allow her to date any man because she is no longer a kid.

You ain't crazy dude. Just make sure she's 19years+ before you started having serious relationship with her(I mean adult stuffs). thats my opinion.

You are Yerima

My advice , wait till she turns 18, then if u both are still serious, u can go ahead with whatever...

As long as u both love eachother, i hav no problem wit dat

TAEKWONDO1:
hypocrite

I am not against the age difference but the age of the girl. Many marriages with such age difference or even more have worked out fine.

The girl is just 16. He said he doesn't intend to sex her until she becomes of age but anything can happen in the short run..

Next time ask me questions b4 ya criticize me..will u be happy to see ya 16yr old daughter date a man of 28? If 'yes', Good for you. And if 'No', learn to think b4 commenting and not comment b4 thinking.

Jamean:
Gardener

i be no kill me with laugh

If you truly love her wait 5 or 6 years for her. Give her time to grow and graduate from university while you get a job or if u already have one save money for a future family.

Maintain a strictly platonic relationship!

A friend of mine married her uncles friend. They met when she was 15. He waited for her to finish school and married her. He never touched her....

bros , if you had a 16 yr old sister, will you let her date ? if at all will you let her date a 28yr old man?

U even get liver put the large age difference...abi ur mates/older girls no dey your area??

my guy better go for deliverance