nma24:
for Naija Patient no dey see any bone, d sharp ones go choi d fattest bones na

2dice:
U would my friend .... Not to worry the patient dog get the fattest Bone

2dice:
lmfao .... Love will find Him ...abi u be de bone him dey wait for sef

folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.

nma24:
I doubt... Much Drama

TheSonOfMark:

Relationships are crazy. Completely avoid them and you are crazy.

Being celibate and avoiding the opposite sex isn't an option. They are a necessary evil and a painful good.

2dice:
lol ...drama queen... things ... Thanks for warning my friend off

nma24:
cool

bastien:
No love found no love lost.

Decentdamsel:
. Actually its no love lost,no love found

MissNairaland1:
Talking about love, i never heard of one meeting his/her partner on Nairaland...............................But i have this strong feeling i will meet mine someday...somewhere.....somehow

NgwaManNaija4LF:
Bro, I hope you're not using this tread to hook another girl, well the Igbo girl had just realized that Yiribas can not be trusted and it's better to find a honest dude from Igboland. Take heart bro.

Our girls don't take shit.

folajoseph:


I thought I've seen the dumbest comment so far until I saw this!

Yomieluv:
What do you need help for?
1. To help you bring your. Ex back?
2. To scold your baby mama for not telling you on time she was preggy?
3. Help you Train your twins?
4. To cast out the kleptomaniac spirit from your baby mama?
I don't get it?

Goldenboy007:
Hey bro, first thing you need to realize is your case is normal. We all have our own cross when it comes to our experience in relationships. Actually as it is now, you don't need to be in love to have a woman living in your house , just make sure she is someone you can tolerate. The greatest delusion is to think there is a perfect lady out there. Life is never perfect, you win some you lose some, however giving up is the real failure !

folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.

tpiander:
hm, twin boys from a booty call?

hope you don't produce quintuplets next time.

btw who is responsible for their upkeep? although, at 30, one would expect you to be a little more matured but I guess not. . . . . . . .