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Interesting Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend by Jaycool18(m): 11:57am On Jun 05, 2015
[color=#000099][/color] 13 interesting conversations to have with your
girlfriend
Use these 13 things to talk about with your
girlfriend, and you’ll be able to make her feel closer
to you and increase the intimacy too.
#1 Talk about your future. Talk about your life,
the things you want to do, your future goals and
aspirations and other things along that line. Girls
always like a guy who sees his future and works
towards it. You can be spontaneous, fun and live
for the moment, but as long as you have a focused
life, she’ll be awed by your determination and will
like you more.
It’s an evolution thing. Men have a subconscious
need to protect and hunt, and women need to feel
secure and protect the young ones. It’s what
evolution has taught us to do, and even though the
roles have changed over the years, the things that
attract girls to a guy hasn’t changed yet. [Read:
10 biggest dating turns offs for a girl]
#2 Talk about her interests, her friends and her
family. Ask her about her friends, her family and
their lives, and have long conversations about her
interests and the things she likes to do when she’s
got time on her hands. Talking about your
girlfriend’s interests will help her see that you’re
genuinely interested in knowing everything about her
and her life.
And beyond that, if both of you do share common
hobbies, both of you will be able to bond better
with each other. And if you do meet her friends or
family sometime, you’d know everything about them
which will help you make all the right conversations
with them and charm them in the very first
conversation! [Read: Things to say to a girl you
like while talking to her ]
#3 Talk about her views on life. All of us have our
own individual views about life. But yet, we don’t
share them with everyone in the world. By finding
out more about her views on life, you’ll understand
her better and know more about what she wants
to do in future and what her real goals in life are.
#4 Gossip. Daily gossip is something that’s always
interesting, and she’ll be able to talk for a long time
about things that are happening in her own life.
Ask her about her work and her colleagues and
everything else that goes on during her work hours.
Talking about movies and shows on the television can
be great gossip too. If both of you like the same
movies or shows, both of you will have a lot of
opinions and things to talk about for hours on end.
[Read: 6 naughty texting games to have fun all
night ]
#5 Talk about your secrets. Everyone loves a good
secret. Do you have a few secrets that you don’t
generally tell everyone you meet? Then share that
secret with her. It’ll flatter her and make her see
that you trust her enough to share your deep
secrets with her.
And before you know it, she’ll start sharing her
secrets with you, and become much more intimate
with you.
#6 Your childhood and your past. Childhood
memories are always fun to talk about and to
listen, especially if it involves an embarrassing or
funny incident. Talk about your first crush, your
good looking teacher, the first time you got drunk
or the time you did something silly. Your girlfriend
will definitely have a good laugh and enjoy spending
time with you.
#7 Vacations and date ideas. Talking about dates
and holidays is always a fun time in a relationship.
Most of us spend an entire year dreaming of the
yearly vacation, or spend a whole week planning the
next romantic date. So why not share your ideas
with her?
She’ll love talking about date ideas that interest
her, especially when it comes to new movies,
restaurants, and fun things to do together, be it
planning a vacation together or coming up with
ideas to spend the whole of Saturday together.
#8 Compliments and romance. Compliment your
girlfriend about her dress or something special she
did for you. Every girl feels appreciated and loved
when she hears a genuine compliment from the guy
she likes. Talk to her about how beautiful she looked
on the last date, or how sweet her voice sounds
over the phone. [Read: How to compliment a girl
and make her blush]
Good compliments always lead to better romance
and more romantic conversations. Always remember
to make your girlfriend feel loved and appreciated,
and let her know just how special she is and how
important she is in your life. [Read: 50 really cute
things to say to your girlfriend ]
#9 Her passions. Talk about everyday things that
interest her, be it shopping, cooking, gardening,
blogging or anything else. Your girlfriend will feel
wonderful to see that you’re really interested in
talking about things that are close to her heart.
But always remember to be genuinely interested in
her passions, or you’ll just end up hurting her
feelings.
#10 Naughty conversations. A big part of
relationships is sexual chemistry and naughty
conversations. Talk dirty to her or ask her a few
naughty questions while texting each other or
talking late into the night. She may blush or act
coy, but she’d definitely love the sexual excitement
you’re building in the conversation. [Read: 20
dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet ]
#11 Around the world. Be aware of the world
around you, either by watching the news or reading
the papers, and talk to your girlfriend about things
that seem interesting. You’ll always have new
things to talk about every day, and at the same
time, you’ll also be able to discuss a lot of fun
things that’ll help both of you understand the
world around each other better. But remember to
keep it light and easy, and avoid anything that’ll get
heated up like politics or religion. [Read: How to
have perfect conversations with your girlfriend
when you’re on a date
]
#12 Your life for the day. Generally, it’s the girls
who talk more about their own day while the guys
just listen. Guys never usually go into details unless
they’re really comfortable with their girlfriend or
have something to nag about.
But trust me, the more you go into the little
details about what you were up to that day, the
more options you’ll have to build new conversations
and hear her views about it. [Read: 13 annoying
boyfriend signs and how you can avoid it]
#13 Talk about your fears. Girls love a guy who
can open up and talk about his fears. By talking
about your life’s dreams and your fears, you’ll make
your girlfriend feel closer to you because you’re
revealing your vulnerable side to her.
If something bothers you or something has upset
you, be it your friend or something at work, talk
about it with your girlfriend. She’ll definitely be
interested in it and would love to help you out to
Re: Interesting Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend by franconian: 11:58am On Jun 05, 2015
OP, I nor get babe oooo. I beg borrow me your bae make I take do the experiment. grin
Re: Interesting Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend by Jaycool18(m): 12:09pm On Jun 05, 2015
franconian:
OP, I nor get babe oooo. I beg borrow me your bae make I take do the experiment. grin
oya come take
Re: Interesting Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend by boboLIL(m): 12:30pm On Jun 05, 2015
U de try sha
Re: Interesting Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend by GeneralQuamdeen: 12:31pm On Jun 05, 2015
Talk about like the first time you met and how you chased her, thinq you say to woo her and all other interestinq nostlagic memory. That drives them crazy.

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Re: Interesting Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend by wenson(m): 12:47pm On Jun 05, 2015
Same old story

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