MizMyColi:
OP,
I believe you

MizMyColi:
OP,
I believe you

Granted, you lied to her, but think of it this way...what if she had said YES to the "poor" man and eventually found out he's living in affluence?
Would she be mad still?
In fact, she'd prolly be singing your praises to high heavens.

You did nothing wrong.
Your Cousin asked you not to disclose his wealth status for best reasons, and rightly so.

She's apparently licking her wounds, and you're the only person she can vent her anger and frustration on.

It's her loss.
Let her learn her lessons and do better next time around.
Please stop letting her and any other person for that matter blackmail you emotionally.

olaglamour:

I wish I could give you a hundred likes for this piece. You just spoke my mind.
@Op, do not apologize to her.

McDonalds2014:
My people, I need your advice… I am the one involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me, though I told her before doing that.
But here is the deal between me and him, he made it clear to me never to disclose what he does for a living to her now, but rather I should tell her he is a security man living in Mushin… ( note: he is a rich business man but he is afraid to disclose his identity now, because according to him, he is looking for a lady that will love him for whom he is and not for what he is)…
They met, he told her the same thing, after everything she came to me to know whether it’s true, I told her yes… But she should give him a chance, and try to know him very well… She told me she wasn’t interested, not ready for marriage yet, I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon..
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him and discovered he is a rich business guy… She called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t have lied to her in the first place, knowing fully well we are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie to a friend… Her sisters called me and told me the same thing. But when I tried to explain things, they hung the phone on me..
I am planning to go over to their place today to explain things to her sisters and apologize too, but my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did nothing wrong..
What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong thing?

ronald4lif:
Someone opened a thread about this 2days ago, exactly word to word. And you're here claiming you're the one involve. Smh!

majalisa:
do u have the link pls?

McDonalds2014:
My people, I need your advice… I am the one involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me, though I told her before doing that.
But here is the deal between me and him, he made it clear to me never to disclose what he does for a living to her now, but rather I should tell her he is a security man living in Mushin… ( note: he is a rich business man but he is afraid to disclose his identity now, because according to him, he is looking for a lady that will love him for whom he is and not for what he is)…
They met, he told her the same thing, after everything she came to me to know whether it’s true, I told her yes… But she should give him a chance, and try to know him very well… She told me she wasn’t interested, not ready for marriage yet, I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon..
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him and discovered he is a rich business guy… She called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t have lied to her in the first place, knowing fully well we are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie to a friend… Her sisters called me and told me the same thing. But when I tried to explain things, they hung the phone on me..
I am planning to go over to their place today to explain things to her sisters and apologize too, but my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did nothing wrong..
What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong thing?

Mhizkel:
You owe her no explanation...She is the architect of her own problem..
Some women and their love for money though..

Rexnegro:

Tah no come here sound like say u don't love money when u no be alien but naija girl. Swear with one of ur eye say u no like money make sango fire that ur eye there.