TrishaP:
You did nothing wrong. I think she is just pained now cus she lost her chances whereby trying to blame you for her indecision . It happens!

DickDastardly:

Thats how i married. Told my wife back then i was a bricklayer and she was like ''as long as there is life there is hope''. Only for her to visit me and found out i'm an Arab prince equivalent. Naamean

barcanista:
90% of people blaming the girl in this movie are hypocrite. Seriously, how many people/graduates will agree to get married to a bricklayer in mushin via a 3rd party? How many people will agree to marry an agbero in motor park? This is a very straightforward case. The babe never discriminated him but her choice of marriage wasn't a briklayer or capenter. It's her choice.

The friend and the dude were at fault here. I support the lady demand for apology.


But the film sha

changes1:



meaning she wants an already made man abi? what now happens to the struggling men? mk dem no marry abi konji should kill them?

changes1:
I saw this story online, read it, told my peeps around me... come see argument.
So I brought it here. What do you think??






Ada Okeke shared her true life story online… My
people, I need your advice… I am the one involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas
looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and
we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her.
At last he liked her, collected her phone number
from me, though I told her before doing that.
But here is the deal between me and him, he made
it clear to me never to disclose what he does for a
living to her now, but rather I should tell her he is a
security man living in Mushin… ( note: he is a rich
business man but he is afraid to disclose his
identity now, because according to him, he is
looking for a lady that will love him for whom he is
and not for what he is)…
They met, he told her the same thing, after
everything she came to me to know whether it’s
true, I told her yes… But she should give him a
chance, and try to know him very well… She told
me she wasn’t interested, not ready for marriage
yet, I tried all my best to convince her but to no
avail, I let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride price
last February, they are planning for their traditional
marriage soon..
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him
and discovered he is a rich business guy… She
called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the
insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t have
lied to her in the first place, knowing fully well we
are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie to a
friend… Her sisters called me and told me the same
thing. But when I tried to explain things, they hung
the phone on me..
I am planning to go over to their place today to
explain things to her sisters and apologize too, but
my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did
nothing wrong..
What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong
thing?

dlox147:
You shouldn't apologize to her, especially as you tried your best to persuade her to go ahead...after all she clearly said she was not ready for marriage at that time so why is she all worked up...smh

barcanista:
No sir! Everybody have their choice and taste. Honestly answer these questions, what will be your reaction to see your graduate sister bring home a bricklayer that lives in Ajegunle and introduce him as her fiance? What will be your reaction should your sister bring home an Investment Banker as her fiance? What will be your reaction should your sister tell you she rejected a bricklayer that proposed to her? Pls answer

Let us not be hypocritical here. While the girl has her right to either accept or reject a bricklayer, she does no wrong if in her judgement he doesn't meet her specs. It's about choice bro!

richidinho:
And how is diz political?

My Frnd will you take this Sh.it to romance section before I call on the spirit of HIV to do d needful to u?

Closecall:
That is how I am planing to get married told my girl that am. Poor she left me. I told her am unemployed but I own my own business ceo that I don't have N1000 but am worth N37million naira liqiud and N60million naira fixed asserts some girls are short sighted daft and fools she broke up with me last week and gave me N800 transport not knowing I had N30k in my wallet and N2million in my diamond bank savings account I walked out of her house smiling......[]

lyfe:
I wouldn't be interested too, If I was the lady. Imagine security man in Lagos proposing marriage where all the "rich swagger " guys are in abundance.

This is the reality most guys should embrace. Women want some sort of security and 99% of the women would fail that test.