Well, I would be 26 by 8th of july. "next month". I'm not here to brag, but I have what it takes as far as maturity is concerned. Yes! Graduated two years ago...... Got my self two solid source of income. The rest archivements are minor. Praise be to God almighty for been there. Everybody talks about it. But Mom. Oh dear Mom wount support me. She cried not now, until I'm 31. Jeezzzz.... I remembered conji.. How can I wait. Please am I really young

marriage is one of the few things my parents wont get a say in.











so just because ur parents say no doesnt mean u cant. it is fine to respect ur parents opinion bt Itz ur life, dont let someone live it for you

for your mum to insist you are not matured enough for marriage, definitely you aren't .

You better heed her advice cos marriage is not something you rush into because of conji.

Mods, move this to the family section where he can get better advisers.


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Eragablessen:
Well, I would be 26 by 8th of july. "next month". I'm not here to brag, but I have what it takes as far as maturity is concerned. Yes! Graduated two years ago...... Got my self two solid source of income. The rest archivements are minor. Praise be to God almighty for been there. Everybody talks about it. But Mom. Oh dear Mom wount support me. She cried not now, until I'm 31. Jeezzzz.... I remembered conji.. How can I wait. Please am I really young

If conji is your only issue, discuss it with your mom naa..

You aint too young, let me say, you're ripe but the p is this, what your mum may be seeing is far from what you're seeing. Many a times people marry cos they feel they should be, and that's not a reason, if you feel you should be married cos you're not young and you have money and cos you're matured then you shouldn't think about marriage, yet!

agarawu23:
for your MUM to insist you are not matured enough for marriage, definitely you aren't .

MUM you meant?

Eragablessen:
MUM you meant?

thanks jare, autocorrect things

Bro, listen to your mum. Marriage is much more than sex. At 26 you are not too young but if conji is the problem, then you are.

seemples:


If conji is your only issue, discuss it with your mom naa..

See, after office, its either me and the tele, or me and the kitchen, or me and the phone, as hell as it is, during bed times. I feel lonly, i feel small. I dont wanna mastub* or do the ungodly. But Mom says till five years time. I have been trying to understand that.

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Op,

You are not too young to get married so far you're ready and you claim to be matured.

So far you have the right partner, I think you're good to go, try to make mum see things the way you see them.

She must hv seen sumtin dat made her say so... Try askin her to give u her reasons. She may b protectin u frm sumtin!

Mummy's boy.

Eragablessen:
Well, I would be 26 by 8th of july. "next month". I'm not here to brag, but I have what it takes as far as maturity is concerned. Yes! Graduated two years ago...... Got my self two solid source of income. The rest archivements are minor. Praise be to God almighty for been there. Everybody talks about it. But Mom. Oh dear Mom wount support me. She cried not now, until I'm 31. Jeezzzz.... I remembered conji.. How can I wait. Please am I really young

Does she live with you?

Put her on a monthly pay. She may be thinking that yr getting married may make u neglect her financially especially. After all u just graduated two yrs ago . she hasn't even enjoyed her investment before u brought up iyawo issue.

Eragablessen:
Well, I would be 26 by 8th of july. "next month". I'm not here to brag, but I have what it takes as far as maturity is concerned. Yes! Graduated two years ago...... Got my self two solid source of income. The rest archivements are minor. Praise be to God almighty for been there. Everybody talks about it. But Mom. Oh dear Mom wount support me. She cried not now, until I'm 31. Jeezzzz.... I remembered conji.. How can I wait. Please am I really young

Trst me dearie,for a guy you are still young...mean you well

Eragablessen:
See, after office, its either me and the tele, or me and the kitchen, or me and the phone, as hell as it is, during bed times. I feel lonly, i feel small. I dont wanna mastub* or do the ungodly. But Mom says till five years time. I have been trying to understand that.

Lol@ konji. But marriage entails more than just sex coz you'll get tired of it eventually, probably sooner than you think.

I do understand your point above. Why not try to relate this to your mother let her see it from your perspective?

Btw yatch360 got a very good point especially if you're an only child or son

Jumping into this thread, I read it without looking at the moniker. When I read the part of being too young at 26 and being told to wait till 31, my heart went "what??" And I had to go back.....

Op, the elders say "what a young boy sees standing, the elders see sitting." Ur mom might have a very valid reason for saying this. Maybe u have a character defect, or there's a prophecy concerning you, or she wants you to cater for ur siblings' education. Who knows??. Whatever made u chill for 14 years (since puberty) can make u chill some more (so konji is a small issue)

Are you a virgin? or a dedicated christain.? if conji is your reason,den its not d right reason. listen to ur mom,den let all this single girls with short skirts tell u Nada.

Eragablessen:
Well, I would be 26 by 8th of july. "next month". I'm not here to brag, but I have what it takes as far as maturity is concerned. Yes! Graduated two years ago...... Got my self two solid source of income. The rest archivements are minor. Praise be to God almighty for been there. Everybody talks about it. But Mom. Oh dear Mom wount support me. She cried not now, until I'm 31. Jeezzzz.... I remembered conji.. How can I wait. Please am I really young

Pls what's our business with this?? You don't have family members to ask for advice or what? You're def a kiddo

SirDorianGray:


Pls what's our business with this?? You don't have family members to ask for advice or what? You're def a kiddo

Leave this thread if you feel irritated. Go solve your diseases and thanks for the insults...

Jollyjoy:
Mummy's boy.

You can say that again swidy..

Interesting Topic I must say,well it all Depends on the level of Comfort that you think you have attained even with your current income.my man,let me tell you,you don't need to rush Bro,you still have a lot to achieve why not married yet that you won't when married.Ur muM knows the best for you,that aside,do yoU hav what it takes to have a faMily?it not easy you carring all the responsibility on your head alone @ this stage.beside that,is your GF pressuring you?don't tell me konji like you said is ur primary motive for going into marriage!!!wait a little,explore life more then you are good to Go.

Dafaq are you going into marriage because of sex ?

adebayour26:


Does she live with you?

Nope!! Though we live in same town but diff. Streets. My Mom stays in another town. We've got jobs to keep us by the day. Only few periods of some evening is all we've got. So we both planning on making us come closer to make us share some things together as one but Mom sha...... Mumcy say NO!

MsBliss:
Dafaq are you going into marriage because of sex ?

LoL.... Wanna be responsible to just one. All I need is a wife. Mom says the time aint now. Am tryna reason with that....... Maybe due to my siblings in school, but I dont see that as a barrier. Just dont understand my Mom.

university210:
Interesting Topic I must say,well it all Depends on the level of Comfort that you think you have attained even with your current income.my man,let me tell you,you don't need to rush Bro,you still have a lot to achieve why not married yet that you won't when married.Ur muM knows the best for you,that aside,do yoU hav what it takes to have a faMily?it not easy you carring all the responsibility on your head alone @ this stage.beside that,is your GF pressuring you?don't tell me konji like you said is ur primary motive for going into marriage!!!wait a little,explore life more then you are good to Go.

Common! Did my Mom sent you You sound like her. Buh thanks anyway... And emm, my g/f can't presurize me.... LoL.....

Eragablessen:
LoL.... Wanna be responsible to just one. All I need is a wife. Mom says the time aint now. Am tryna reason with that....... Maybe due to my siblings in school, but I dont see that as a barrier. Just dont understand my Mom.

Simple .......you ask her to give you her reasons .

Listen to Ur mum homes. Marriage is only sweet for the 1st 6 months. You will be lucky if after a year U love her. Then its dissatisfaction all the way. When the kids come God help U. Ure young, explore ur options chop enuff enjoy the moment.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Listen to Ur mum homes. Marriage is only sweet for the 1st 6 months. You will be lucky if after a year U love her. Then its dissatisfaction all the way. When the kids come God help U. Ure young, explore ur options chop enuff enjoy the moment.

Wow...You are obviously married to the wrong woman if your marriage went bad after 6 months.

Ion understand where u rushing to