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Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
There is a chaos going on now in a family whereby a man's mom is not in talking terms with her son's wife because she defended the son when the mother and the son were quarelling about something. "now half of the family said the wife did nothing wrong while the other said the wife should not have intervened. "so did the wife did wrong by supporting the husband? |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by doublewisdom: 4:28pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
I'm with the other half of the family on this one. 2 Likes |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
doublewisdom:what other half? |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
cc:royalboy,lalasticlala |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by KoredeBellosMum(f): 4:35pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
She wz totally wrong... she has no right interferin wif waheva issues d moda nd her son were havin!! Wife or not! 4 Likes |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by doublewisdom: 4:35pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
sweetorgasm:The first half. |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by elantraceey(f): 4:36pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Yes she did wrong , In such issues it is wise for the woman to be on a neutral ground else they will both bring her to the center of their quarrel . 1 Like |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
doublewisdom:k now i get |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
The problem with interfering in mother and son wahala is they will settle with your head. 4 Likes |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
firstEVA:are u writing 4rm experience? |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
sweetorgasm:oyinbo you again? |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Wendy80(f): 4:59pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Omo it's better u remain neutral and be the peacemaker. U can support ur husband in ur closet ie if he's Right. 3 Likes |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
firstEVA:LOL its just a sexy question na |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Wendy80:so she is wrong |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
sweetorgasm:sexy kwa. Well I have experienced it, after my dad and his mom settled their differences, it took a longer time for my grand mother to settle with my mum. |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
firstEVA:hm hm do u mind sharing wat happened with me? |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
sweetorgasm:I am lost, what are you talking about? |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
firstEVA:d alibi |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by raumdeuter: 5:36pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
SHe is wrong |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by SAMBARRY: 5:48pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
That woman na iya agbaya.she should cover her head in shame. Agba tio tole niya yen. instead of her to settle the issh between husband and wife she's taking sides. No wonder the elders say age doesn't depict wisdom. When a supposed grandma. An elder woman for that matter is behaving like an inexperienced woman. Oniya agba oshi, agba rada rada No form of wisdom, no form of discretion of an old woman |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Kimoni: 5:58pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Why is she wrong? Because she is a wife? Does that make her less human? Or beneath everybody else in the family? Na wa ooo 3 Likes |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by MMotimo: 6:06pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: 1 You completely misread/misunderstood the story 2 Attacking someone's MIL or mother is inappropriate, to put it delicately. As for calling her names, that's all kinds of wrong @OP The story is not complete - what did MIL, son and DIL say exactly? What was the argument about? You can't judge without those details. Important to ask the questions before rushing to judgement 2 Likes |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by MMotimo: 6:07pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
sweetorgasm: |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by bukatyne(f): 6:08pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
I am wit the other half that she should not have intervened; She might not have known the genesis of the issue and just knows what they want her to know (depending on the family) She should have been neutral and make peace instead. She should apologize to the MIL and stay out of their family squabbles unless invited and interfere wit caution when invited. 4 Likes |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by ymdo(m): 6:11pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
bukatyne: I share your opinion. Mods, no frontpage please. Some topics on nairaland usually make sense till it is moved to frontpage, then E-diots takeover. 1 Like |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by yomalex(m): 6:14pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
She shouldn't have interfered |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by freecocoa(f): 6:17pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Well, it depends on what the issue is and what was said. However, because of how delicate MIL and DIL relationships are(especially on this side of the world), it's best to not take sides but try to broker peace. |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by bukatyne(f): 6:57pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
ymdo: Lol @ 2nd sentence |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Kimoni:i just wonda |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
dinachi:dat guy is just unbelievable |
Re: Was She Right To Have Defended Her Husband When His Mom Was Quarreling With Him? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:ure so unbelievable 3 Likes |
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