Ujoan:


Please don't ever settle for something you can't tolerate. Everyone has a line where they draw what they can and can't tolerate . . . for some your line may sound silly, to others it may be perfect. But what counts is that you draw the line!

A lot of men don't mind if they marry someone older, to them it's not that be a deal? What about you?

She can be a 9/10 but that 1 that she is not can be equivalent to 5 for you . . .

Same way some women can 'tolerate' if a man is not so rich, as far he's nice and caring . . . others don't can deal with a brash and rude guy, as far as he can pay the bills. If such a woman decided to 'settle' for a not so rich guy because he's 9/10 (and they say money is not everything ), she's bound to live her life in regrets, because him being unable to pay the bills will gradually overshadow his 'niceness' and all she's left with is bitterness and resentment. Then she realizes what she has always known, niceness is not as important as financial stability for her!

So please.

Smart! Thanx

tiger28:
all these small kids on Nairaland nowadays. I can surely tell you that maturity or looks has nothing to do with age. I have seen very young girls age badly and older girls age gracefully. By the way, I got married at 24 when my wife was 29 and we have been married for 22 years with a boy and girl both in Uni. Imagine if I had listened to some IDIOTS like you telling me Shishi back then? ??

Bros I greet you. 24 years marriage no be beans