Sex is worth waiting for, so fellow naira landers be careful.

I don't normally comment of private issues like this, but I will make an exception this time. There are many reason why you may catch the Staphylococcal infection, and your absentee boy friend is the least likely source. This bacteria is commonly found in improperly stored food and unsanitary areas. Unclean and very damp tampons (Pads) can be a very good fertile breeding ground for these little warriors. During your recent menstrual period, did you change your pad frequently?   Considering the hot and humid nature of Naija, and the wet damp Virgina, and a not properly sanitized, area equals to a recipe for distaster. One final note. You should refrain from having unprotected sex in the future. It is not worth you dying from the dread HIV/AIDS. See ways one can catch Staphylococcal infection here.

By the way, make sure you tell your lover boy to test himself and let him know what you have. Ok?

I pity the gal. look well and think fast dont kill yourself for some one who doesnt worth it

Next time, be more careful.

poster,i must compliment u on ur stupidity and foolishness

know why?
cos some of u women r goats,and refuse to read d handwriting on d wall,even when its so damn clear

are u dull, withdrawal in thus 21st century, i can't believe it wat u women do 4 love, its crazy.
the guy is just having fun at ur poor heart's expense so baby u better run from him or else the next time it could be AIDS.

I wonder why girls don't learn.ALWAYS USE A CONDOM.One would have tot all these socialising would ve helped.What if you'd gotten HIV or worse,PLEASE,go for a complete STD test,and if by GOD's Grace you happen to be free.Live a sex free life till you're married.By the way,ditch the guy,he doesn't deserve you.

@topic
everyone has a measure of staph aureus nothing new

i will advise you call him up and tell him what happened and if he denied it, then you can kill him if you like, there is no harm in revenge

@ poster

What a nice Valentine gift u got for ur self.

But does valentine mean u must hv sex?

4rm all u said the boy does not hv an iota of luv 4 u, rather u felt since almost everybody has a boy friend to reckon with let me also hv one.

Anyway no body is above mistakes.

I blv u hv learnt a very big lesson from this and u will now be a teacher to other pple.

There is no big deal in staph only if u take Gud care of urself.

Pls my dear it is not by force to entangle urself with boys who dont deserve u.

Take ur time to choose ur friends and not them chosing u.

The bottom line is that u dont need any one to advice u on wether to leave the boy or not, the choice is urs.

One love sister.

you are even lucky that it is only staph,see guys are very bad just go for HIV test and after that go on with ur life and treat ur self very well.staph is very difficult to treat but try and don't have unprotected sex again HIV is real.had it been that the stupid fool gave you HIV thats means ur dreams is gone men are bad genrally.that fool most be a gold digger

If actualy ur boyfriend gave u that gift. I want u to call him in a special nite and seduce him & return back the Staphylococcus he gave u. U can also put ur blood in a syringe and insert it in ur bf body so he can have more. Mayb giv him gonorrea in addition

@poster

just take heart!!!

God bless you that all you contracted was cheap staph. i think u are just plain dumb, ( no insult meant), i mean someone you claim that dont call u like, even dindnt deem it fit to be with you on val, yet you brought yourself so low to remind him of val and he came begging u for sex and u caved in.where is your woman's worth. comon. u sell urself cheap. i dont care if u been with him since eternity, he aint ur husband silly.(no offence meant)
. if i really spill all of my mind, u would mount a hunt for me. believe me.
WHERE ARE U WITH ALL THE ADS ON TV.
IT BEGINS WITH U.
NEVER HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX.
WEAR RUBBER.
ON AND ON.

G0OD BLESS U IF U NEVER CATCH JONGBO.

Why did u allow him I wonder

@topic did u say gonocacus spp? am outta here,

No one should pity this woman. How can u allow a man who you only communicate via text message and phone to put a naked penis in your virgina. This is how AIDS is spread in Africa!, you should not even be crying about staph infection on this post, If i were you, I would be worried about HIV. I hope you learn from this.

Pls go for medical examination especially HIV I and II , and when next u want to have sex, make sure ur guy use CONDON or ,

am sure u did not see a qualified doctor staphylococcus is NOT considered as a sexually transmitted infection
i Will advice you to go to a proper hospital

U should have read btw the lines.

For him to treat you that way, and u not complaining means u're deriving something u don't want to loose.

At this juncture, I don't think u need any advice.

I mean, for sm1 to give this kind of attitude means u're kinda forcing urself on him.

baby sorry for that eh! it seems wen ever he comes around you begin to wander about his jolo jolo!what happend to you had happened to me.i had to quit before hand.so, take heart and think ahead about getting married! God will answear you.

WHO KNOWS IF YOU ARE NOT THE ONE THAT INFECTED THE POOR GUY.
COS' I DOUBT HOW SUCH INFECTION CAN DICTATE IN JUST 2-3 DAYS.

TRY AND LET THE GUY KNOW AND TREAT HIMSELF AS WELL.
IF U BOTH LOVE EACH THEN U BOTH CAN TREAT YOURSELF AND MOVE ON.

THERE IS SACRIFICE IN LOVE

iluvdeking:

and when next u want to have sex, make sure ur guy use CONDON or ,

use CONDOM please use CONDUCT and abstain ok.

The guy is an ass!! he probably knew(cos he'll be pissing blood too, ) and now decided its cool to share his status quo!! i pray he hasn't given you HIV cos they sometimes work hand in hand, find out, let him get the lashing, and dump his evil ass!!!

WOW, Nigerians never cease to amaze me!!! They've had experience in just about everything even stds. But seriously, i doubt she got staph infection but it's not impossible. I suggest she get a second opinion from another doctor. I pray that it is not staph because staph can be deadly and the bacteria never leaves the blood stream. It's one of the most stubborn bacterias out there. It is very rare that people get staph infection in there private parts, especially women. Imagine a staph infection in the vagina, hew that is very bad.

@Poster

A word is enough for the wise, you have got to be very careful about your lifestyles. Why are you having sex without a condom?? In this crazy age we are in. It doesn't matter what a guy claim to be, tell him to get a condom. PERIOD !!

Dear Friend forget about him he is a player, very serious one think! think!! think!!!

Girlfriend, e be like say yur MUMU level high well well

At this level, na croco-dile-coccus you go catch next with that ur sumtin when d bobo apear again , as u still dey wonder if na love im love you or im just carry you de cool tension

poster,i must compliment u on ur stupidity and foolishness

know why?
cos some of u women r goats,and refuse to read d handwriting on d wall,even when its so damn clear

No be wetin i tok? MUMU GIRL
Very high MQ ie MUMU QUOTIENT!!!!!!!

God, i've said it over n over n over again to the female folks. Any guy that does not show you love does not deserve yours too.
Stop risking your life with that guy. Do you need fellas or baba alawo to tell you you're on the wrong path?
My dear, go diagnose the level of damage, troubleshoot n go on wit ya life. But remember, do no transfer aggression to another man.
Finally, abstain from sex until you're married. Cheers!

How pathetic!, like seriously what in the world did you do to deserve this?

The wages of sin is, infections! You better learn your lesson; sex does not equate love.
The fact that you and the guy are sexmate does not mean he's in love with you. Always use your head girl!

You've heard it from everybody: [color=#990000]Abstain from sex and IF YOU MUST INSIST HE WEARS COMDOM!!!!! [/color]

[color=#990000]I will advise you urgently see a Gynecologist (private hospital or govt hospital depending on your purse) for proper diagnose and subsequent treatment cos of your exposure through unprotected sex.[/color]