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10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 6:35pm On Jun 16, 2015
Seperation/heartbreak is one of the price of fruitless relationships.
In order to avoid trauma attached to it, i will share with you ten ways to avoid heartbreak in relationships below:


1. Not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season. Only few are for a life time. If doesn't work out, don't kill yourself. Discover the purpose and move on.

2. Love is never enough. Understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important.

3. Don't give a man or a woman the totality of your heart before giving the totality of your heart to God. Love that person but put God first.

4. Don't get carried away with beauty or money. If that person's inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either.

5. When the negative signs are more than the positive signs, it is better to withdraw your heart before it gets ''broken''

6. Don't demand trust; Earn it, build it or show it.

7. Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship.

8. Never you compare him or her to someone else.

9. Your relationship should not only be marriage driven; but care, love and concern driven.

10. Don't marry him or her because you saw him or her in church. Many are in church but not in touch with God. It's not WHERE you met, but WHO you meet that counts.

Feel free to add yours....cheesy wink

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Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jun 16, 2015
Oya shakiti bobo.....First to comment

well I don't know what to comment
.....Wetin be the topic sef

Meanwhile the poster below me get problem walahi
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jun 16, 2015
Nice one mhizkel. Did you write this yourself?

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Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jun 16, 2015
That number 5 makes sense

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Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by naijaboiy: 6:47pm On Jun 16, 2015
Such a thread has been created before on this section.

This looks like copy and paste. undecided

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Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 6:47pm On Jun 16, 2015
misssclassy:
Nice one mhizkel. Did you write this yourself?
Yeah..Thanks!
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 6:48pm On Jun 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
Such a thread has been created before on this section.

This looks like copy and paste. undecided
Same topic but different content.
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by GeneralQuamdeen: 6:50pm On Jun 16, 2015
11. Never raise your expectation too high
12. Never expect your partner to love you back or do back to you what you do to him

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Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by DanceVille: 6:51pm On Jun 16, 2015
Nice one miss!
The main point to avoid heartbreak in a relationship is "Always respect each other by saying sorry if you offended your partner"..
Many pple neglected this because of pride nd it's very wrong.
Some R-ship has bin broken becos of this..
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by naijaboiy: 6:51pm On Jun 16, 2015
Mhizkel:

Same topic but different content.
You sure?
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:52pm On Jun 16, 2015
On point.
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by tinuolababy(f): 6:52pm On Jun 16, 2015
Good. Thanks op
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jun 16, 2015
Mhizkel:

Yeah..Thanks!

Why are you lying now? Lying is not good o.

https://www./20140703130233-94785535-how-to-avoid-heartbreak-in-relationship

https://m.facebook.com/AllTrueMen/posts/554811417910615

Anyway it's all good. One of those things.
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 6:54pm On Jun 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
You sure?
You can go through it to confirm.
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Rosemary216(f): 6:55pm On Jun 16, 2015
numba 4 nd 7 z soooooo on point
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by CountDracula(m): 6:55pm On Jun 16, 2015
undecided of all the "ways"(10ways/12ways/6ways...etc) I've seen on NL dis one's worth reading... Mhizkel If I break up wit my gf its ur fault and u must find me a new one!
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 6:56pm On Jun 16, 2015
misssclassy:


Why are you lying now? Lying is not good o.

https://www./20140703130233-94785535-how-to-avoid-heartbreak-in-relationship

https://m.facebook.com/AllTrueMen/posts/554811417910615
Yeah! You can find it everywhere..I gave it to friend of mine who owns a blog..Just decided to put it up here today
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by CountDracula(m): 6:56pm On Jun 16, 2015
misssclassy:


Why are you lying now? Lying is not good o.

https://www./20140703130233-94785535-how-to-avoid-heartbreak-in-relationship

https://m.facebook.com/AllTrueMen/posts/554811417910615

Anyway it's all good. One of those things.
Nice one! I saw wat u did there
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by FTBOY: 6:57pm On Jun 16, 2015
these bitches and their ''anti-HE'' agenda. i wonder if ur gonna fvck urselves
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by FTBOY: 6:59pm On Jun 16, 2015
BUSTED! grin this is how u know girls who do 'expo' at school
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 6:59pm On Jun 16, 2015
CountDracula:
undecided of all the "ways"(10ways/12ways/6ways...etc) I've seen on NL dis one's worth reading... Mhizkel If I break up wit my gf its ur fault and u must find me a new one!
shocked..Don't break up with her o!
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Nobody: 7:00pm On Jun 16, 2015
Mhizkel:

Yeah! You can find it everywhere..I gave it to friend of mine who owns a blog..Just decided to put it up here today

Huh?? Really?

Okay, when was this exactly.
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by naijaboiy: 7:01pm On Jun 16, 2015
Mhizkel:

You can go through it to confirm.
i'm sure i've read such stuff here on NL before.

Don't just have the strength to dig up old threads.
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 7:01pm On Jun 16, 2015
FTBOY:
BUSTED! grin this is how u know girls who do 'expo' at school
Wake up dude! This is computer age..Once your work is out to a person or two, believe it to be everywhere
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by chibwike(m): 7:01pm On Jun 16, 2015
misssclassy:


Why are you lying now? Lying is not good o.

https://www./20140703130233-94785535-how-to-avoid-heartbreak-in-relationship

https://m.facebook.com/AllTrueMen/posts/554811417910615

Anyway it's all good. One of those things.
Now that u ve exposed her....what did you gain...eh
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 7:02pm On Jun 16, 2015
naijaboiy:

i'm sure i've read such stuff here on NL before.

Don't just have the strength to dig up old threads.
Okay
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 7:04pm On Jun 16, 2015
misssclassy:

Huh?? Really?
Okay, when was this exactly.
It's not mandatory for you to believe though...Wait for the other ones coming!
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jun 16, 2015
1,2,3
Makes sense wink nice write up
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Mhizkel(f): 7:05pm On Jun 16, 2015
chibwike:
Now that u ve exposed her....what did you gain...eh
Expose who? Even a friend posted it on facebook yesterday.
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by FTBOY: 7:07pm On Jun 16, 2015
Mhizkel:

Wake up dude! This is computer age..Once your work is out to a person or two, believe it to be everywhere
yeeeeeeeeeeah, but did i read u earlier affirming this piece was urs..ay or nay? wink
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jun 16, 2015
Mhizkel:

It's not mandatory for you to believe though...Wait for the other ones coming!

Of course I believe you. Wait.... You thought I didn't believe you?
Come on girl, I always knew you were intelligent. This was just a confirmation.

Perhaps you should think of starting your own blog since you write this good, don't you think? Instead of selling out your bright ideas.
Re: 10ways To Avoid Heart-break In Relationships. by chibwike(m): 7:12pm On Jun 16, 2015
misssclassy:


Of course I believe you. Wait.... You thought I didn't believe you?
Come on girl, I always knew you were intelligent. This was just a confirmation.

Perhaps you should think of starting your own blog since you write this good, don't you think? Instead of selling out your bright ideas.
Lol...are you being sarcastic

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