Moana:
this one is a full time job ooo

o yes to keep crazy at bay

I've always vowed that I won't be sleeping around. Not because I want my wife to also be faithful. Not because I'll love, trust or won't want to cause my wife any pains. But because I hate joggling two partners. Its not in me at all.

Being a faithful man does not mean your wife won't cheat on you according to what women made us to understand....like.." If you want your wife to be faithful, then you should also be faithfui".
Infact, faithful men suffers the most cos women takes them for granted. These type of men are always gentle, cool and quiet. They are not the party and wild types. When you possess these qualities, your woman will start craving for something wild and end up doing something wrong. I've seen real life situations where good and faithful men where dealt a blow by their wives' infidelitie.
A close friend of mine is a typical example. A good man with good job. Yet his used-to-appear as a good woman did the unthinkable. His pains is the reason why I lost hope in women and feel like women deserves no good man. Love of fun, attention and fake compliments from outsiders is what spins their heads and have them cheating emotionally and before you know it..boom..

bukatyne:


Why wouldn't you care your man is cheating?

Because I have better things doing with my time.

VictoriaBee:

I have never denied my biological makeup.
You should understand that all females are not the same; there are nymphomaniac who love sex.
Will you classify them in my category.
All MEN are not the same too - mutation can also alter gene - it's not about nature.
Same way some male are naturally born effiminate while others developed the behaviour. Same in masculine females.
What I have a grouse with your post, is you saying that women naturally possess low libido whereas, it's not so.
All men don't have equal testestorone.
All women don't have same level of oestrogen.

wonder why u guys mention me constantly on this thread. Easy o

5minsmadness:


I beg your pardon madam!
It has been scientifically proven that the colour RED invokes emotions of excitement, arousal and passion. Hence it is used a lot in fashion, secret societies and in instigating the charging of Bulls by matadors in Spain. The colour RED immediately brings life and fervour to a situation; heck, it is the colour of blood which gives life!

Having said this it is well known that a woman in skimpily clad attire will always quicken the heartbeat of any red blooded man. Vile quarrels and bitter hatred, harsh words spoken and punitive silence, all can be brought to an end by the appearance of a sexily clad member of the female species. It is the one thing that calms a man down other than beer.

Now combine these two together : a skimpily attired woman dressed in nothing but a red bra and matching silk red panties... And you have heaven on earth. All quarrels cease. All in differences become insignificant. For in that moment the woman holds the manbeast in the palm of her hands. In that moment her every wish is his to obey.


Never underestimate the power of the Red bra and pant!

Lmao!!!

Satyriasis [sat″ĭ-ri´ah-sis]
pathologic or exaggerated sexual desire in the male; the corresponding term in the female is nymphomania.

Lol.

Let's not forget some if not most of these cheating cases are psychological...and need some psychiatric intervention.

Hypersexuality: Symptoms of Sexual Addiction
Sexual addiction or hypersexuality is defined as a dysfunctional preoccupation with sexual fantasy, often in combination with the obsessive pursuit of casual or non-intimate sex; pornography; compulsive masturbation; romantic intensity and objectified partner sex for a period of at least six months.

By definition, this adult obsessive pattern of thoughts and behaviors will continue despite:

Attempts made to self-correct problematic sexual behavior
Promises made to self and others toward sexual behavior change
Significant, directly related negative life consequences in life and relationship stability, emotional and physical health concerns, or career and legal problems.
Sexual addiction can be considered a process addiction (as opposed to substance addictions such as drugs and alcohol), similar to gambling, binge eating or compulsive spending. As such, sexual addicts typically spend a much greater amount of time engaged in the pursuit of sex and romance (the process) than in the sexual act itself. They are addicted to the neurochemical and dissociative high produced by their intense sexual fantasy life and ritualistic behavior. This is their addiction.

What Sexual Addiction Is Not

The diagnosis of sexual addiction is not necessarily made if an individual engages in fetishistic or paraphillic sexual arousal patterns (e.g., BDSM, cross-dressing), even if these behaviors lead the individual to keep sexual secrets or feel shame, distress or “out of control.” Unwanted homosexual or bisexual arousal patterns also are not considered sex addiction per se. Sexual addiction is not defined by what or who the individual finds arousing, but rather by self- and other-objectified, repetitive patterns of sexual behavior utilized to stabilize distress and to manage emotional triggers.

In simple terms, most people don’t consistently utilize sexual arousal as a means of “feeling better” when having a bad day. Healthy people reach out to friends and intimate others for support when upset and also demonstrate a greater ability to self-soothe and tolerate emotional stressors than do sexual addicts.

Differential Diagnosis and Comorbidity

Sexual addiction can be viewed as an adaptive attempt to regulate mood and tolerate stressors through the abuse of intensely stimulating sexual fantasy and behavior. It is believed that sexual addiction is a dysfunctional adult response to innate personality, character or emotional regulatory deficits, as well as a reaction to early attachment disorders, abuse and trauma.

In order for the diagnosis of sex addiction to be made, professionals must first rule out concurrent drug abuse, as well as those major mental health disorders that also include hypersexuality as a symptom. Examples of these include bipolar disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder and adult attention deficit disorder, all of which have hypersexual or impulsive sexual behavior as a potential symptom. Some individuals may have both a major mental disorder and sexual addiction, both of which need to be addressed, much as one might be both alcoholic and bipolar.

Why Seek Treatment?

Many sex addicts seek treatment for sexual addiction only after suffering significant consequences to their health, career, finances and relationships. Most men report initially seeking sexual addiction treatment to find relief and help with related negative life consequences such as pending relationship, legal or interpersonal crises, or threats of divorce or abandonment by a spouse or partner. Overt negative consequences related to sexual behavior, such as job loss and arrest, also drive individuals to seek treatment.

A Diagnosis?

While not yet fully acknowledged as a legitimate mental health disorder in the clinical literature (reportedly due to a lack of research study), sexual addiction and hypersexuality nevertheless is becoming identified in the public consciousness as a legitimate neuropsychobiological disorder. This slow shift in consciousness regarding this disorder is largely due to the escalation of technology-driven sexual problems, the growth of international sexual recovery 12-step groups, evolving research study data, as well as the term “sex addiction” being consistently referenced in relationship to the highly publicized problem sexual behaviors of certain major U.S. political, entertainment and sports figures.

http://psychcentral.com/lib/hypersexuality-symptoms-of-sexual-addiction/

5minsmadness:


I beg your pardon madam!
It has been scientifically proven that the colour RED invokes emotions of excitement, arousal and passion. Hence it is used a lot in fashion, secret societies and in instigating the charging of Bulls by matadors in Spain. The colour RED immediately brings life and fervour to a situation; heck, it is the colour of blood which gives life!

Having said this it is well known that a woman in skimpily clad attire will always quicken the heartbeat of any red blooded man. Vile quarrels and bitter hatred, harsh words spoken and punitive silence, all can be brought to an end by the appearance of a sexily clad member of the female species. It is the one thing that calms a man down other than beer.

Now combine these two together : a skimpily attired woman dressed in nothing but a red bra and matching silk red panties... And you have heaven on earth. All quarrels cease. All in differences become insignificant. For in that moment the woman holds the manbeast in the palm of her hands. In that moment her every wish is his to obey.


Never underestimate the power of the Red bra and pant!

Lawd!

You need Jesus, man.

Why would you blame anyone for your lack of discipline.. To d person who said something... women cheat on men that don't cheat... Mind u, not all.. If you're blaming a woman for being responsible for your indiscipline then you should be responsible for her bad meals. The truth of the matter is that, all those boys who are pretending to be men by trying to explain why men cheat are just confused and don't know what they want.. I believe that wherever a man is and probably he gets aroused he should find his wife or control himself. That's why the Bible says.. If u know u can't hold ur urge, get married.. That is why your wife is der... Your wife will be with you after everything but that girl u are sleeping with doesn't give a damn about u.

Add this: Some men don't cheat because of their current financial status!

Cheating costs money people! whether you are keeping a concubine outside or just plain picking up hoes at the clubs... some men will not bother to try any because they just can't cope financially... but if level venture change ehn! you know the rest of the story.

Bebetter:
Add this: Some men don't cheat because of their current financial status!

Cheating costs money people! whether you are keeping a concubine outside or just plain picking up hoes at the clubs... some men will not bother to try any because they just can't cope financially... but if level venture change ehn! you know the rest of the story.

Wicked!

Lust is devil's counterfeit for God's love. Most marriage are built on the later which fades quick and dies soon. This is almost all the reasons for cheating in marriage. What most men felt before they married their wives was last as only those that know God know Love for God is love.

I have married my wife for eight years and I love her more by the day. Her absence is my greatest challenge that most times I imagine how empty life will be if she was no more. God forbid

SAMBARRY:
Fun fool is here again o


Many people here need it

How will your guy urinate naa?

jamace:
How will your guy urinate naa?

pkease change it to how will he urinate. Thank you


there's a pee hole there. Lobatan