Must read for all the ladies out there.

The first question i always ask women is, what exactly doo you want?you see getting what you want really takes knowing what you want. Yyou just need to know what it is you want in a man. sit down,think about the characteristics of the person you want, his personality, looks,manners, the 'must haves' or 'essentials'and those that you can let go of or 'manage'. of course most women dont want an unemployed man without a vision. or one thats not willing to settle down, let alone have children. or a man that doesnt like kids. You need to ask yourself if you're ready for a long-term, short term or no-term.

1- Please be yourself (don't form). do not feel too big or claim to be what you're not.(even if you're ill-tempered or selfish), believe me, there are men who would love and understand you, so BE YOURSELF!
2- Seek out the man you want in the type of places you expect him to hang out. that is, if you want a desmond elliot or a morris chestnut, go to places you expect to see his type.
3- Appearance speaks a million words. you must have heard the saying 'the way you dress is how you'd be addressed' it is true. dress like a housegirl, and okada boys will chase after you. So, if you dress nice, trust me, you'll catch his eye.
4- Aside from appearance, eloquence matters, also, know what to say,
5- Do not fight for attention by being too loud or causing a scene. you could make the first move, but dont come on too strong, sometimes men just love audacious and some feel your courage is sexy.
6- dont act too desperate, go slow, in fact act like you're doing him a favour by talking to him, but do not overdo things.

now that you've gotten him, how do you keeo him?
1- Men reek of masculinity, so embrace his masculinity.
2- very important! most men wouldnt tell you this, but they like being complimented.men blush too. tell him how his smile makes you feel.
3- give him something to retain in his memory about you. you could try doing something spontaneous, when he's out with his friends and he remembers you, that will be among the first things he'll remember about you.
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Food for thought(FFT) :
its easy to say you want this and that in a man, but do you think you are the miss right for that man. do you also possess the qualities to complement what you want in this man.