A friend send me this to share,that She needs an advice. Ada Okeke shared her true life story online… My people, I need your advice… I am the one involved!

My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me, though I told her before doing that.

But here is the deal between me and him, he made it clear to me never to disclose what he does for a living to her now, but rather I should tell her he is a security man living in Mushin… ( note: he is a rich business man but he is afraid to disclose his identity now, because according to him, he is looking for a lady that will love him for whom he is and not for what he is)…

They met, he told her the same thing, after everything she came to me to know whether it’s true, I told her yes… But she should give him a chance, and try to know him very well… She told me she wasn’t interested, not ready for marriage yet, I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go!

Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon..

Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him and discovered he is a rich business guy… She called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t have lied to her in the first place, knowing fully well we are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie to a friend… Her sisters called me and told me the same thing. But when I tried to explain things, they hung the phone on me..

I am planning to go over to their place today to explain things to her sisters and apologize too, but my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did nothing wrong..

What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong thing?

u did nothing wrong! at least she said she is not ready for marriage. it is not as if she said the guy is too poor to marry. that means the gilrl as actually after money, gold digger as they say.

u need to doaway with such friend, they can contaminate.


my piece...

The earlier some girls begin to realise dat money is not love, the better for dem, see how she missed dat opportunity now.
@op, u did nothin wrong joor

You did nothing wrong bro and you should not even be going to explain anything

If you had betrayed your guy to marry a girl who is only looking for maga, you would have been in a bigger shit once he realized that he was deceived.

I would advise you to tell your guy what is happening and make him call the girl (he should still have her number) and tell her what he did

hw many timez i wan see this story? nawao.........

Beg her for weytin?

You did nothing wrong op

these are set of ladies that can't marry a hustling guy. They prefer the already-made guy due to their laziness and selfishness.

Must a guy be wealthy before you date him ?

you don't even owe them any explanation

@Op u did ntin wrung

"Am I wrong?" Is a title of a song.

sandrannna:
"Am I wrong?" Is a title of a song.

Na u sabi

gurls wants someone who can sweep dem off their feet and love dem for who they are...buh wen it comes to us(guys), dey love us base on how heavy our wallet z...f**k y'all @gurls including ma sis nd mama.


bae yhu try wella. Drop yo acct number lemme send yhu hundred...withdraw it and call yo frnd back tel her shez a sucker and she jus got served!!!!



M awt