There’s someone special in your life, and
you want to know whether to
keep the spark alive. Here are 13 things
that indicate a healthy, happy
relationship. If the majority applies to you,
keep him in your life. If you
aren’t feeling the love, don’t be afraid to
make some changes.
1. You’re happy
First things first, if you are unhappy on a
regular basis, get out of there.
Make sure your happiness begins within
yourself. Those who rely on
their significant other for ALL of their
happiness usually don’t make it
very far.
2. You know each other’s families
You don’t have to go to every family
event, but if you’re familiar with his
siblings and parents and have met a few of
them, you’re good to go.
Secret relationships may be fun, but
anything lasting means you’re
joining the family.
3. You are yourself
You are not afraid to tell him secrets, let
him know when you’re in a bad
mood, or be a little goofy. You can be
relaxed and comfortable with the
person you are.
4. You laugh
Maybe he’s not one of the three stooges,
but if you are enjoying yourself
and laughing a little bit each day, things
are going well. Men pride
themselves on their humor, and if his isn’t
working for you, you know
what to do.
5. You don’t have to talk all the time
Silence or pauses aren’t uncomfortable
when you are together, and you
don’t feel awkward. Good relationships
don’t require constant
communication.
6. You communicate
On the flip side of number five, a healthy
relationship is dependent upon
communication. Being open, honest, and
talkative with each other is the
only way you will get to know each other
more. Keep those lines of
communication open. The worst way to
ruin a relationship is to
misunderstand or complicate things.
7. There is little to no drama
If your relationship feeds off the daily
drama, someone is going to crack
and it will not last long. If you find yourself
angry, confused, depressed,
or just fed up, it is definitely not a healthy
relationship to be in.
8. You have balance
If you are spending every waking minute
with this guy, odds are you
have lost a lot of friends. If you are
bringing your friends to every date
night, odds are you and this guy aren’t
serious. Find that balance
between having both of your own lives and
being a part of each other’s.
9. There is spontaneity
If you have fallen into a tedious routine,
face the red flag and realize that
any healthy relationship has an element of
fun to it. That doesn’t mean
every day is a carnival adventure, but
don’t let things get predictably
boring
10. You are learning
A good relationship causes you to think, to
be challenged, and to grow.
If you are not learning or growing, then
maybe he isn’t the one. In my
best relationships, I have figured out more
about the person I am and
the goals I want in my life.
11. You have the same goals
Aside from the happiness factor, this is
perhaps the second biggest
factor in determining a relationship. If you
both want the same things,
share the same ideals, and want the same
results, you will find success
together. If you have no idea what his
goals or desires are, it’s time to
kick up the communication.
12. He makes the effort to talk with and be
around you
Any one-sided relationship will never work.
Both sides need to be
invested and interested in order for this
healthy relationship to flourish. If
you are constantly reaching out first or
waiting for a text message all
day, change something.
13. You feel safe
If you are continually questioning him or
doubting your partner, seek
safety somewhere else. The healthiest
relationships are ones where both
people feel safe, loved, and at home.
Maybe you haven’t found your Prince
Charming yet, or maybe you’re
reconsidering if he really is charming at
all. Don’t over analyze these
thirteen signs. Every relationship is
personal, so don’t be so fast to
leave him if he isn’t exactly perfect today.
Find the best parts of your
partner and figure out if your relationship
has a flourishing future.

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