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Am I Being A Bad Friend? Is This Betrayal? by ConfessionsNgr: 10:51pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Hello friends. Please I will need your advice on how to proceed with this. I have been friends with Freda (not real name) since our secondary school days. She is what you will call beauty and brains. Freda is a very beautiful girl and she has always had guys flocking round her. On my part I am also a pretty girl but I must confess I am not as pretty as Freda sha, which is why most times I have always had to play second fiddle to her when we meet guys for the first time. It always turns out that the one I am interested in is always interested in Freda. Although, this is not a problem for me and I am not jealous about it. I have grown to accept this as normal and most times, Freda and I often joke about it because sometimes it turns out that she turns them down and they will be like, had I known I would have gone for her friend. Recently, we both met a very cute guy. Apart from being cute, this guy is extremely rich. He runs a stream of business that has branches in different countries in Africa so he is well loaded. As usual, it was Freda he was interested in. For reasons which I cannot explain, Freda does not seem to be interested in him. This guy showers Freda with lots of gifts and attention but she is still not interested in him. I have tried to talk to her about it because I honestly do not know why she is turning him down and it is not like she is into any relationship right now. Her only complaint was that the guy is a local guy. As far as I am concerned that excuse is extremely absurd. The guy is just a shy guy who will come across to you as being timid. However, that is not the case because he is well educated and widely traveled. The problem right now is that the guy has shifted his attention from Freda and he has now turned to me. In the process of trying to make things work between him and Freda, we started talking more often and hanging out together more often. He started out by complaining about Freda’s attitude and her arrogance and said if he had known he would have asked me out from the first day. Recently, he came to me and told me that it is me he wants to go out with now and that he is no longer interested in Freda. He said he not only wants to go out with me, but would like to marry me because he has seen that I am a good woman. I won’t lie to you, I will not mind going out with him or getting married to him, but my problem is that Freda would see it as a betrayal on my part. I had told him this when he asked me out but he refuted it that he never had anything to do with Freda as they never really went out so I have no reason to be afraid. Please guys, I need you to tell me how to proceed on this. Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/111/is-this-betrayal |
Re: Am I Being A Bad Friend? Is This Betrayal? by demmy0325(m): 10:53pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Only God knows where this moniker comes from.. ... Back to the topic.. If she really value their friendship.. She shud jst let the guy go... 1 Like |
Re: Am I Being A Bad Friend? Is This Betrayal? by vizkiz: 10:55pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
looks like a script! Didn't read the story btw |
Re: Am I Being A Bad Friend? Is This Betrayal? by AirstarKane(f): 10:56pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
This story is just a replica of nollywood "oremeji" if you can watch d movie d Ansa is dere if not oyo is ur case o but then... receive sense |
Re: Am I Being A Bad Friend? Is This Betrayal? by demmy0325(m): 10:59pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
AirstarKane:.. Nollywood Una don scatter Ur head.. |
Re: Am I Being A Bad Friend? Is This Betrayal? by AirstarKane(f): 11:03pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
awww I was only proffering a solution o because if i don't, who will |
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