There are indicators that you can use to gauge yourself and actually know if you measure up as a confident woman. Here are 8 things confident Nigerian women say NO to:

1. They say NO to being a people-pleaser
In as much as they try to make life better for others and themselves, confident Nigerian women are not swayed by varied opinions. They aim at self awareness and this helps them to pick out what’s best for themselves and society without minding what others may say about their actions. They understand the futility in trying to please everyone and as such focus on what works best for them.

2. They say NO to overlooking their instincts
Against all odds, they are conscious of the dictates of their instincts. Their instincts serve as invaluable guide in the face of overcrowded voices and prompts. It is what keeps them walking against the tide towards their dreams and aspirations. Instinct works for them and they stick to it.

3. They say NO to compromising their principles
When they’ve set out to achieve their goal, then you know some principles are guiding them. Anything that drags them away from adhering to their principles is not worth given an ear to. This is irrespective of the pressure you might subject them to.

4.They say NO to gossip

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