It is true that just one moment of indiscretion can cause you a life time of pain and sorrow. This is exactly what I am facing right now, it's a very serious situation I am going through now. I am a happily married woman with two beautiful kids. I have been married now for the past six years and everything has been fine until two months ago when I ran into my ex boyfriend. Greg(Not real name) was my boyfriend in school but we had broken up when he graduated because when he left school he moved on and we never saw each other again, although I later heard from his friend that he had traveled abroad after service. I met my husband after I graduated and we got married a year later. Two months ago, I got a call from Greg that he was in Nigeria and really needed to see me. I asked him how he got my number he told me that he got it from facebook. I told him that I can’t see him because I am married and have moved on since he left me. He however, told me that he knew I was married and that he has been deported back to Nigeria and that things were a bit tight with him and he urgently needed my help. Against my better judgment, I had gone to see him that afternoon. When I met him, he was looking so emaciated and I honestly felt pity for him. He then went on to tell me how he got into trouble abroad and was sent to jail and subsequently deported after serving his jail term. He told me he needed to rent a place even if it’s just a self contain because he could no longer afford the hotel where he was putting up. I told him to look for a place and if it is not too expensive I can help him with the funds. I really felt pity for him then. That was how I helped him in renting a place. After renting the place, he once again invited me to come and see the place and at least know where he is living. I refused initially because I felt that would be too close for comfort being in the same apartment with him. We had always met in an eatery before now. He begged me and once again, I went against my better judgment. On getting there I found out it was a two room self contain and the place was really nice. He offered a drink and I requested for Malt. I don’t know how Greg did it because the malt drink was corked when he brought it but I later found out that he had drugged the drink and had forcefully had sex with me. I was mad when I woke up and couldn’t believe my eyes. I threatened to report him to the police but he told me that would mean the end of my marriage because my husband will ask me how I got into his apartment. Right now he is blackmailing me that I should give him the sum of Ten million naira because he has the sex tape and he will send it to my husband if I refuse to give him the money. I don’t have that kind of money and I have offered to give him Three million which is all I have in my account, but he has refused to take it. I cannot tell anybody about this and if my husband gets to know that will be the end of my marriage. I am so devastated, please advise me on what to do.

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Hmmm...serious gbege.Firstly ask God for forgiveness of sin and secondly open up to ur husband. The mistake u made was renting an apartment for him in d first place,been an ex con u should know what he's capable of doing.Talk to Ur husband, I pray he forgives u.

I can't fit shout



u have already made d mistake

Rule number one

Don't speak to exes!


U bleeped up wifey...

Don't give him shishi!!

Open up to ur husband, if he finally divorces u jst use 1 million out of 3 million to marry fwesh blood after all u deserved it...

your first mistake was not informing your husband about your ex, secondly you helped to get him accommodation without your husband knowing or helped him with his accommodation issue without your husband consent and knowledge, now to make matters worse you took it upon yourself to go visit the place without a companion or escort of some sort .
your next line of action is to tell your husband the truth about what transpired between both of you even without your consent, I can't even begin to imagine you bargaining 3 million naira and your spouse is not aware, just come clean with your spouse and hope he loves you enough to forgive and overlook your mistakes then both of you can tackle the issue head on

Are you totally sure that the video exists?? that being said, u made a fatal mistake. sadly,such mistakes come with consequences. just come clean with your partner and hope for the best. Besides, what makes u think he won't back later on to ask for more money??

All the best!

I think u should come clean to your husband. It may lead to broken heart and maybe separation, but you will be forever free from your ex's grip. Your husband might even forgive u and all will be well.

Why is she being blamed here?

She was forced against her will to have sex with him. The hungry looking, emaciated bastàrd spiked her drink and ràped her!

She isn't at fault here. The only thing she did wrong was pitying his sorry arsé by trying to help the opportunistic thief.

She should tell her husband what happened, and then report this föol to the police and have him arrested. She should also take herself to the nearest clinic to get checked out for STDs.

Hmmm, as e be say water don pour now but kettle never break. Tell your husband everything. The video will actually vindicate you as you would look drugged anyways. Better tell him and deal with the aszzzhole together. If husband refuse to cooperate...tooooo, sheet happens. If you pay the mooofo, he will be back for more. Nab him and crush his silly wings. I would be too livid to let him walk!

too bad madam, Only God can vindicate you I. this matter o, where is ur location madam?

Emmm, why do I think this story is made up, why hasn't he collected the 3m while insisting on the balance?

egopersonified:
Emmm, why do I think this story is made up, why hasn't he collected the 3m while insisting on the balance?

no mind d op, 4 her mind we believe her cock n bull story

egopersonified:
Emmm, why do I think this story is made up, why hasn't he collected the 3m while insisting on the balance?

Good points.