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| ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
There have been numerous cases where a lady will be in a relationship with a guy and all off a sudden, she will just dump the guy and hook up with another guy, without any cogent explanation as to why she did it. This normally leaves most guys wondering what really happened or where they went wrong. Well, these are some of the reasons why ladies dump a lot of you guys. *She Doesn't Genuinely Love You This is a primary reason why most ladies dump or break up with a lot of guys. The truth is this; If a lady doesn't truly love you, she will never commit herself to a long term relationship with you. At times, ladies tend to enter into relationships with ulterior motives and hidden agendas, and once this motives are fulfilled or accomplished, they would have no need to remain in such relationships. If a woman doesn't love you, it will always be easy for her to dump you if she finds a better partner. *You Are Not Man Enough One thing a lot of guys fail to understand is that a lady can never respect a man that they can control. Ladies are generally attracted to guys that are confident. Guys that are able to take the driving seat in a relationship. A woman always needs a man that will take charge. Someone capable of calling the shots. Someone that is protective and that she can count on to stand up for her and defend her no matter the situation. *You Are Not Good In Bed Let's face it. This is one of the most common reasons why women cheat on and dump most of their boyfriends. Most ladies have sexual needs that need to be constantly met, and if their man is under performing, they tend to look for a more sexually active and more sexually satisfying partner. *You Are Just Too Boring Every relationship needs adventure. It's an essential catalyst for the relationship growth and sustenance. Some guys tend to be too conservative and self reserved, and most ladies hate it. Ladies like guys that are creative and inventive. Someone who they can joke with. Someone who they can talk to, about anything. Someone who can take her out to new interesting places, have fun and try out new things together. Someone who can invent new ways to spice up every area of their relationship. If a guy doesn't meet this criteria, most girls tend to find him boring and not much of fun to be around , and they would gradually begin to lose interest in the relationship. *You Don't know How To Take Care Of Her Every girl needs a guy that can cater for her needs. Someone that can provide some of the basic things she needs as a woman. If a girl finds you to be someone who is unable to take care of her, she will seek for someone better. Especially in this day and age where the needs of humans are increasing at a high rate, notably among the female gender These days, whether you like it or not, every lady wants to look good. They want to dress beautifully and look attractive and presentable. If a lady is dating a guy that slacks in this department, she will look for someone else. Asides monetary needs, most guys also fail to understand the other needs of their girlfriends and these needs are diverse. And if those needs are ignored, most ladies tend to feel abandoned. *You Lack Well Defined Goals If a girl wants to commit to a life long relationship with you, she would have to be sure you have a bright future ahead. This includes you having a blue print and well defined goal for your life and the one both of you are going to share. No girl wants to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't know what he wants. Someone who lacks the ability to plan ahead. Someone who isn't focused, hard working and who doesn't know what he wants in life. *You Don't Spend Quality Time With Her Girls are created in such a way that they always crave attention, and when they don't get it, it becomes a thing of pain. Most guys don't spend enough time with girlfriends. They find it hard to visit, call, or even text. Of course, a lot of this can be blamed on work load, school and all that, but girls really need to be shown that they are important and that their partners care about them , and when this doesn't happen, they look for someone else. *You Don't Listen In most relationships, most guys tend to always want to be the ones with the final say. They always want to make their opinions known without caring about what their partner has to say, and this can be agonizing for most ladies. Girls like guys who would always listen to them and try to understand things from their own perspective. Guys who would value their opinions and respect their thoughts on issues, whether they agree with it or not. *You Are Too Secretive Girls don't like guys who are too secretive. This always makes them paranoid and they always suspect that something else is going on in the relationship that they are not aware of. Ladies prefer guys that are free and open. *Your Are Too Over-Possessive Although ladies like guys that are capable of taking the driving seat in a relationship, they also tend not to like guys that are too controlling, over powering, and over possessive of them. This includes guys that always question their actions, guys that are always too jealous whenever they see them with other guys, and guys that are too conscious of their movements. Ladies see this character as repulsive and it gives them a signal that they are not trusted and they lose interest in the relationship.. You are free to add yours if you want to. Written by Misssclassy 130 Likes 22 Shares |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
... 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Adesiji77: 4:26pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
The reason is not here.....  94 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Goldmaxx(f): 4:27pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
hahaha misssclassy akwa nwam 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by badinfluence: 4:27pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
O wow.. *chews popcorn * she could also have no reason.. * drinks juice* 53 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Turn Mr Left to Mr Right. You refused doing so, you keep looking for Mr Right! That Mr right you are busy looking for, it's someone that made him. Well, you just summed up why all Nairalanders keep bleeping you! O ya continue! 37 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Mhizizzy(f): 4:28pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Nice one dear |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by slytubadth(m): 4:29pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
oh really! 2 Likes |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by chubbygal(f): 4:30pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
All the same!! Just..... |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
 first day wey i no read before commenting i make fp.....   so na like this introvert and others dey do am14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by badinfluence: 4:31pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Mhizizzy:Not nice oo... |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by chubbygal(f): 4:32pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
That Bed part is the most annoying!!!all the same just........ 32 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
The lady is definitely confuse. She'd have known this before embarking to date him. 6 Likes |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Ojochegbe1(m): 4:33pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
oh now i c why my x dump me.............who giv a f**k anyway  4 Likes |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by 2dice(m): 4:33pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Hmmnn...LASTLY:when You are Broke and the other Guy is Loading ... Omo na Porting things 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Slimzjoe(m): 4:34pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
* She Dumps you Because they're Just not Loyal in anyway 18 Likes |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by xynerise: 4:35pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Was that why you dumped him? 1 Like |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Slimzjoe(m): 4:35pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
VictoriaBee: Some People get into Relationships Not Because they already Love each other but because dey believe they Can make it work 6 Likes |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by 2dice(m): 4:35pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
VictoriaBee:No you are wrong ... Most pple fake their character at first |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Slimzjoe:Coming from a Nigerian guy? Lol, loyal kor 1 Like |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by slytubadth(m): 4:37pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
the lady dump d guy for another guy now. the guy nor complain oh buh if d guy way she follow now dump her we nor go hear word for here again. you start seeing topics like guys are heartless. 18 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
And so? What if I have $ will she still leave me? Haaaatchew! 1 Like |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Mhizizzy:  |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by demmy0325(m): 4:40pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
.... ...2 Likes |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
sounds ok but no. 1 doesn't make sense cos i see no reason why a girl should date a guy she dont love...or maybe viewing it this way; she is there for the money & later dump him..that is very difficult cos most girls love money,so when the guy is loaded with cash they perched on it whether there's love or not,as far as the money keeps on coming, thats why most men believed that money control women. over-possessive; yea its so correct...i hate that alot, very good ticket to take off immediatly. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Chibuhealth(f): 4:41pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Who wrote this? Abeg come and collect one bottle of orijin...as in cold one 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by 2dice(m): 4:41pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
VictoriaBee:yeah ... 2 Likes |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by dharay88: 4:43pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
tochie is going crazie, Plz can i get a counter-thread....  |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
VictoriaBee: ...but she might not know the bed aspect of it..1 Like |
| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by forandy(m): 4:45pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
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| Re: ~ Guys: Reasons Why Ladies Dump You For Other Guys ~ by dharay88: 4:46pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Chibuhealth: Mhizizzy: moroñs, wah would u say b⁴. Mtcheeeeew.! 1 Like |
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