Babygal4eva:
a real woman cannot be defined nor put into one category

So are you saying that a real woman is subjective to her mans opinion of her worth or as you simply saying that a real woman cannot be described because they don't exist? Which one?

dinachi:

Google is your friend.

Google did not give me a good answer.
that's why I asked for yours.

to your definition of a real woman.

for starters, she has to recognise that the world we live in is a patriarchal one

she should be seen and not heard

in fact when her husband cheats, instead of quitting her marriage she should work things out.

she has to cook, care for her household and not have a life of her own

when she gets her salary, she should doable for the hubby and give everything to him

after giving birth to the required number of children, she should still be sexy. if she does not, hubby will look outside and say she refused to take care na, she's not the woman I married.

she should be able too cook both international and local dishes since the road to a man's heart is through food.

in the bedroom, she should be a ho and a pro.

last but not the least, she should live her life pleasing a man.


I guess that's what you want to hear.

Teespice:


Google did not give me a good answer.
that's why I asked for yours.

to your definition of a real woman.

for starters, she has to recognise that the world we live in is a patriarchal one

she should be seen and not heard

in fact when her husband cheats, instead of quitting her marriage she should work things out.

she has to cook, care for her household and not have a life of her own

when she gets her salary, she should doable for the hubby and give everything to him

after giving birth to the required number of children, she should still be sexy. if she does not, hubby will look outside and say she refused to take care na, she's not the woman I married.

she should be able too cook both international and local dishes since the road to a man's heart is through food.

in the bedroom, she should be a ho and a pro.

last but not the least, she should live her life pleasing a man.


I guess that's what you want to hear.

Teespice:


Google did not give me a good answer.
that's why I asked for yours.

to your definition of a real woman.

for starters, she has to recognise that the world we live in is a patriarchal one

she should be seen and not heard

in fact when her husband cheats, instead of quitting her marriage she should work things out.

she has to cook, care for her household and not have a life of her own

when she gets her salary, she should doable for the hubby and give everything to him

after giving birth to the required number of children, she should still be sexy. if she does not, hubby will look outside and say she refused to take care na, she's not the woman I married.

she should be able too cook both international and local dishes since the road to a man's heart is through food.

in the bedroom, she should be a ho and a pro.

last but not the least, she should live her life pleasing a man.


I guess that's what you want to hear.

You actually raised some good points there! So by your own definition do you do all these things you enumerated? In other words by your own definition are you a real woman?

lilmax:

hmmm
why are you squeezing your face?
is that not what you wanted to hear?

dinachi:

You actually raised some good points there! So by your own definition do you do all these things you enumerated? In other words by your own definition are you a real woman?

I have no idea.

I only gave you what you wanted to hear.

Teespice:


I have no idea.

I only gave you what you wanted to hear.

But you actually raised some good points there like her being selfless and dedicated to her family and being a ho and pro in the bedroom,then again her maintaining a good shape. Those are excellent points and I assure you a lot of men would not object to those qualities at all!

bukatyne:


And you the 'adult' obviously is also seeking attention

@OP:

Depends on who is asking.

Why would it depend on who is asking?
Do you agree with victoriabee assertion that it depends on the man in the woman's life? I was shocked with that response. I expected a' robust' feminist point of view

This is totally unexpected and shocking to say the least that no woman can give a coherent answer of who a real woman is apart from a few wobbly halfhearted attempts from some ladies here

I am afraid it is becoming glaring that a real woman may not exist at all! Those who are quick to climb the rooftops and bleat from there about the qualities of a real man (feminists)are finding it extremely difficult to come up with the vaguest idea of the real woman concept.

Timbuktou:




How come your definition of a real woman doesn't include knowing how to take care of a man?

Good question!

Dinachi ask and you shall receive.

What's your definition of real woman? Once you know who your real woman is, you will be able to identify her and stick to her when you find her.

Did you really expect someone to come and start listing what makes a real woman and that would be true in all cases?

Why can no woman tell you what a real woman is? Simply because no single woman has the right to define other women based on her parameters. I could try to define a real woman and unconsciously follow characteristics that match my personality (or my perceived personality. Because humans tend to see themselves as better than they really are . Proven psychological fact. But I digress)

can I tell you who a real man is, not really. I can only tell you based on my preferences. In the end, it's not the universal law as my real man maybe another person's douchebag.
Same way a man can list what makes a real woman for him and we'd all be free to disagree with him if it doesn't work for us.

The one answer you seek doesn't exist in general.

dinachi:

So are you saying that a real woman is subjective to her mans opinion of her worth or as you simply saying that a real woman cannot be described because they don't exist? Which one?

I'm saying a real woman cannot be defined using just one adjective, a real woman is a combination of different things put together to make an amazingly remarkably wonderful person. I don't blv I mentioned anything about a man in my statement.

If this doesn't make sense I'm sorry its almost 2am and I'm still working and feeling philosophical

Babygal4eva:
I'm saying a real woman cannot be defined using just one adjective, a real woman is a combination of different things put together to make an amazingly remarkably wonderful person.

Most of other ladies here believes that the concept is subjective(depends) on who is doing the asking. They said the meaning vary from person to person. That means each different person gets to define their own concept of who a real woman is. So we now get it down to the individual level.
What is your own personal definition of a real woman?

cococandy:
Dinachi ask and you shall receive.

I have asked !

cococandy:

What's your definition of real woman? Once you know who your real woman is, you will be able to identify her and stick to her when you find her.

Okay. Every individual defines their own version of the concept? Does this also apply to the concept of who a real man is?

cococandy:
I could try to define a real woman and unconsciously follow characteristics that match my personality (or my perceived personality. Because humans tend to see themselves as better than they really are . Proven psychological fact. But I digress)

Wow! Making sense seriously....So women attempting to define a real man may actually be following characteristics that match their perceived personality.

cococandy:
can I tell you who a real man is, not really.

Feminists una don hear am? Stop trying to give us your universal view of who a real man is! There is no singular answer to that question.

cococandy:
The one answer you seek doesn't exist in general.

OK. Now give us your own cococandy view of who a real woman is. We are waiting!

crackhaus:
A real woman is a feminist who believes patriarchy is evil and responsible for all that's wrong with the world, but still dreams endlessly of how an attractive stronger man would bend her over and fvck her deep in the azz.

A real woman never depends on ANY MAN with her azzzze or makes any man a DEPENDENT because of his BLOKOS!

Amiiiiiiiiin ooooooooh!!!!!