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Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by dinachi(m): 7:00pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Babygal4eva:So are you saying that a real woman is subjective to her mans opinion of her worth or as you simply saying that a real woman cannot be described because they don't exist? Which one? 4 Likes |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by Teespice(f): 7:03pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
dinachi: Google did not give me a good answer. that's why I asked for yours. to your definition of a real woman. for starters, she has to recognise that the world we live in is a patriarchal one she should be seen and not heard in fact when her husband cheats, instead of quitting her marriage she should work things out. she has to cook, care for her household and not have a life of her own when she gets her salary, she should doable for the hubby and give everything to him after giving birth to the required number of children, she should still be sexy. if she does not, hubby will look outside and say she refused to take care na, she's not the woman I married. she should be able too cook both international and local dishes since the road to a man's heart is through food. in the bedroom, she should be a ho and a pro. last but not the least, she should live her life pleasing a man. I guess that's what you want to hear. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by lilmax(m): 7:09pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
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Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by dinachi(m): 7:10pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Teespice:You actually raised some good points there! ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by Teespice(f): 7:12pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
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Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by Teespice(f): 7:13pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
dinachi: I have no idea. I only gave you what you wanted to hear. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by dinachi(m): 7:17pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Teespice:But you actually raised some good points there like her being selfless and dedicated to her family and being a ho and pro in the bedroom,then again her maintaining a good shape. Those are excellent points and I assure you a lot of men would not object to those qualities at all! 3 Likes |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by dinachi(m): 9:20pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
bukatyne:Why would it depend on who is asking? Do you agree with victoriabee assertion that it depends on the man in the woman's life? I was shocked with that response. I expected a' robust' feminist point of view ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by dinachi(m): 9:29pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
This is totally unexpected and shocking to say the least that no woman can give a coherent answer of who a real woman is apart from a few wobbly halfhearted attempts from some ladies here I am afraid it is becoming glaring that a real woman may not exist at all! Those who are quick to climb the rooftops and bleat from there about the qualities of a real man (feminists)are finding it extremely difficult to come up with the vaguest idea of the real woman concept. 6 Likes |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by dinachi(m): 9:36pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Good question! ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by cococandy(f): 10:13pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Dinachi ask and you shall receive. What's your definition of real woman? Once you know who your real woman is, you will be able to identify her and stick to her when you find her. Did you really expect someone to come and start listing what makes a real woman and that would be true in all cases? Why can no woman tell you what a real woman is? Simply because no single woman has the right to define other women based on her parameters. I could try to define a real woman and unconsciously follow characteristics that match my personality (or my perceived personality. Because humans tend to see themselves as better than they really are ![]() can I tell you who a real man is, not really. I can only tell you based on my preferences. In the end, it's not the universal law as my real man maybe another person's douchebag. Same way a man can list what makes a real woman for him and we'd all be free to disagree with him if it doesn't work for us. The one answer you seek doesn't exist in general. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by Babygal4eva(f): 1:28am On Jul 02, 2015 |
dinachi: I'm saying a real woman cannot be defined using just one adjective, a real woman is a combination of different things put together to make an amazingly remarkably wonderful person. I don't blv I mentioned anything about a man in my statement. If this doesn't make sense I'm sorry its almost 2am and I'm still working and feeling philosophical |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by dinachi(m): 6:39am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Babygal4eva:Most of other ladies here believes that the concept is subjective(depends) on who is doing the asking. They said the meaning vary from person to person. That means each different person gets to define their own concept of who a real woman is. So we now get it down to the individual level. What is your own personal definition of a real woman? |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by dinachi(m): 7:07am On Jul 02, 2015 |
cococandy: I have asked ! cococandy:Okay. Every individual defines their own version of the concept? Does this also apply to the concept of who a real man is? cococandy:Wow! Making sense seriously....So women attempting to define a real man may actually be following characteristics that match their perceived personality. cococandy:Feminists una don hear am? Stop trying to give us your universal view of who a real man is! There is no singular answer to that question. cococandy:OK. Now give us your own cococandy view of who a real woman is. We are waiting! ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by dinachi(m): 7:15am On Jul 02, 2015 |
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Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by KanwuliaJara: 8:31am On Jul 02, 2015 |
A real woman never depends on ANY MAN with her azzzze or makes any man a DEPENDENT because of his BLOKOS! ![]() Amiiiiiiiiin ooooooooh!!!!! ![]() 1 Like |
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