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My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated / I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. / Meeting My Fiancée's Parents For The First Time! (2) (3) (4)
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A by duran2059(m): 10:54am On Jul 01, 2015 |
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Re: A by axiliborha(f): 10:54am On Jul 01, 2015 |
First..... well I want to write a big thank you to everyone who I am following and isn't following back....that is how your village people will follow you.....I want to write to all those people who like to comment first...Freemana, Introvert,Vehma......God will make you chop FTC today IJN...incase if this post makes FP, I love you all....Happy New Month, wishing you all the best in life.... 1 Like |
Re: A by bellong: 10:56am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Did you ask her why she wanted to know who you love most? If she is persistent with this, she is a potential bomb waiting to happen. 4 Likes |
Re: A by Cutehector(m): 10:58am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Na jealousy dey worry am... |
Re: A by bellong: 11:00am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Cutehector: You are right |
Re: A by Nobody: 11:00am On Jul 01, 2015 |
what is she expecting before? You have to love ur mum than ur fiance. Just relocate far away from ur parent after ur marriage to curb future occurence. |
Re: A by Cutehector(m): 11:01am On Jul 01, 2015 |
bellong:I modified my comment.. Pls check my original comment again |
Re: A by Cutehector(m): 11:03am On Jul 01, 2015 |
axiliborha:loooool.... No be by force to follow person na... 1 Like |
Re: A by duran2059(m): 11:06am On Jul 01, 2015 |
bellong: Initially that was the first question I asked her, but she said she just wanted to know where she stands. We've not seen since she left but she hasn't brought up the question on phone. She's the type that likes to tell things to your face |
Re: A by axiliborha(f): 11:06am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Cutehector:loool it is by force o.. |
Re: A by duran2059(m): 11:07am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Neyoor: I don't even stay in same state with my family |
Re: A by Cutehector(m): 11:08am On Jul 01, 2015 |
axiliborha:oya folow me and I will follow u bak sharpaly 1 Like |
Re: A by Nobody: 11:10am On Jul 01, 2015 |
axiliborha: When u dey follow wrong people nkor 1 Like |
Re: A by axiliborha(f): 11:11am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Cutehector:never .....I just saw your display picture....that cutlass.....God forbid....you want me to follow you so you will use my head for ramaddam meat abi...... |
Re: A by Cutehector(m): 11:12am On Jul 01, 2015 |
axiliborha:once bitten twice shy huh.... ? |
Re: A by Nobody: 11:14am On Jul 01, 2015 |
duran2059: Better. Just tel her u love her more than ur family, for the fact that she is the one u will spend the rest of ur life with. Just to let peace reign but u knw deep in ur mind that u love ur family most |
Re: A by duran2059(m): 11:16am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Neyoor:Thanks for your reply, I appreciate. |
Re: A by bellong: 11:21am On Jul 01, 2015 |
duran2059: Has she at any time expressed dissatisfaction through body language in how you deal with your family? On your part, are there ways you act to approve your family members while relegating her? Is there any action of yours towards her not satisfactory enough or shows doubt of love? Her question is a pointer to many unspoken thoughts going through her mind. Meanwhile, the answer you gave her is the right answer and the way to go. No love is greater than the other. They all have different place and roles in one's life. Do not let it slide as one of those jokes. Get to the bottom of it. This is one of the stuffs to watch out for in relationships. 1 Like |
Re: A by duran2059(m): 12:36pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
bellong:I get to spend more time with her cause she schools in the state I stay. I left my mom's a long time ago, I saw her last like 4/5 months ago? We only keep tabs by calling / chatting. Sometimes I give her equal money with my mom (but not all the time though). So I don't really get what she's trying to do? |
Re: A by crackhaus: 12:52pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
duran2059:Really? You don't get it yet? What sensible woman asks her fiance whom he loves more between herself and his mother/sister? 7 Likes |
Re: A by bellong: 1:12pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
duran2059: Well, can't say authoritatively what she is trying to do. However, ladies that display such attitude always try whatever they can to sever the man from her parents especially his mother. Like I said earlier, follow it to a logical conclusion. |
Re: A by mystiqueDZ(f): 1:25pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Sorry your bae is IMMATURE.... Give her time to grow up.... 1 Like |
Re: A by CaptainJune: 1:37pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Nonsense. Some ladies are just intolerable. Loving her is not enough; now she wants you to love her above your family as if it would sit well with her if her son should shower greater love and affection on a total stranger than her, the mother, the one who has borne all the suffering of making her son the man he is. I will tell her what she wants to hear, "Darling, I love you with all my heart and I love my family with all my heart. If that's not enough for you, there's nothing I can do, but you can either stay knowing I love you with all my heart or quit this relationship if you can't live with the knowledge that I love my family with all my heart." There's no justification in lying to a lady just to marry her. That's undiluted deception stemming from a low self-esteem. Beware of such person that can easily lie to your face to make you feel good...worse than the bite of a venomous snake. 3 Likes |
Re: A by Stillfire: 3:50pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
duran2059: She asked a very silly question, but for the benefit of doubt and since good relationships thrive on communication, it's best you address the issues. Tell her to give you detailed, cogent reasons why she believes so. Always use your head on issues like this at all times. Your wife would not always be right, neither your mother or sister. Don't let anyone use emotions to sway you to their side. |
Re: A by Yustash001(m): 3:53pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
You are not suppose to... since she's your fiance not your wife.... |
Re: A by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Ask her the same question after you must have answered yes, whether fake or real yes. Imagine what this Lady will do when her status is official in your life. |
Re: A by pretydiva(f): 4:36pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Dat ur fiancee will cause trouble btw u,ur mom n sister in d future if u eventually get married 2 her. U Jst ve 2 b careful 1 Like |
Re: A by Adaezeagu(f): 4:56pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
ajo nwanyi |
Re: A by cococandy(f): 5:05pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
She's a silly girl. 2 Likes |
Re: A by pickabeau1: 5:12pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
duran2059: If I were you, I will stop this in any form. Are u not a student What you've told her is enough.. if she wants to go.. its better for you |
Re: A by freecocoa(f): 5:15pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
OP that your fiancee is an accident waiting to happen, use your tongue to count your teeth. 1 Like |
Re: A by edwife(f): 5:38pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: Lol see question! |
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