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I Need Advice Please. by onoerime: 9:21pm On Jul 01, 2015
I observe that my wife still recieves call from her ex. When I comfronted her.she agreed that the calls is from her ex and happens to be her first date. She swore before me that nothing emotional is attached to them. Please advice me. Should I replace her sim with a new one or just allow the calls to keep coming while I set a watch on her activities. I need advice please.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by ifihearam: 9:24pm On Jul 01, 2015
If you change the sim what happens if they still contact each other on Facebook or other social media? Talk to her and let her know you can't accept it it she will be thrown out if the house abi na she dey feed you?

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Re: I Need Advice Please. by Coolbite(m): 9:24pm On Jul 01, 2015
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Re: I Need Advice Please. by jamex93(m): 9:25pm On Jul 01, 2015
she is your wife

tell her wat u want ....

tell her u don't want d communication to continue, if she no gree report ha to ha mama
Re: I Need Advice Please. by Cutehector(m): 9:27pm On Jul 01, 2015
Pick up d ex'es number, call him and gv him a piece of ur mind

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Re: I Need Advice Please. by libertyfather(m): 9:31pm On Jul 01, 2015
ifihearam:
If you change the sim what happens if they still contact each other on Facebook or other social media? Talk to her and let her know you can't accept it it she will be thrown out if the house abi na she dey feed you?

Clap for this boy grin
Re: I Need Advice Please. by ronald4lif(m): 9:31pm On Jul 01, 2015
Changing her sim will not make any difference, they'd still communicate through other means. You have to tell her she must cease any form of communication she has going with this ex and you must be very strict about it why keeping tab with her moves.

Interrogate her about this ex, and know if he was the one who deflowered her since she says he's her first love. And if he is then something is amiss. They aren't just friends. A woman can't be just friends with an ex, needless to say a man who popped the cherry.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by IamLEGEND1: 9:35pm On Jul 01, 2015
break her phone......


AND HER FACE!!!!!!!
Re: I Need Advice Please. by onoerime: 9:36pm On Jul 01, 2015
ronald4lif:
Changing her sim will not make any difference, they'd still communicate through other means. You have to tell her she must cease any form of communication she has going with this ex and you must be very strict about it why keeping tab with her moves.

Interrogate her about this ex, and know if he was the one who deflowered her since she says he's her first love. And if he is then something is amiss. They aren't just friends. A woman can't be just friends with an ex, needless to say a man who popped the cherry.
he was the one that deflowered her
Re: I Need Advice Please. by ronald4lif(m): 9:47pm On Jul 01, 2015
onoerime:
he was the one that deflowered her

Nsogbu di, there's trouble bro. They are not just friends, no it can't be. The memories of a guy who deflowered a woman is unceasing and eonian so you must address this issue decisively. What are they discussing about if not how they miss each other and reminiscing on good old days. She must cease communicating with him. Perhaps she's the one after the ex. Who knows how long they've been seeing each other. I'd advice you have a paternity test on every kids you both have (or unborn ones) together.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by dulux07(m): 9:49pm On Jul 01, 2015
Most ladies who frequently contact their ex, end up cheatin with them. They tell u, no emotional string attached, dats how it starts.

Discuss with her, n tell her to stop, n study her reaction when u do , if she sees it as a big deal n picks a long quarrel over d issue with u, it only means shes still emotional attached to him.

Jst tell her to choose btw u n her ex, if u chooses u, wch i know she will do, cos u guys r married, tell her to prove it by deletin every form of contact of her ex.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jul 01, 2015
onoerime:
I observe that my wife still recieves call from her ex. When I comfronted her.she agreed that the calls is from her ex and happens to be her first date. She swore before me that nothing emotional is attached to them. Please advice me. Should I replace her sim with a new one or just allow the calls to keep coming while I set a watch on her activities. I need advice please.
Sir.. just tell her that you're not really happy that she's still contacting her ex .. tho she swore,if she really loves you and wants to have a happy family,I'm sure she'll listen to you..simple.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by Slimzjoe(m): 9:54pm On Jul 01, 2015
She's Your wife and Not Your Girlfriend.....call The Ex and Tell him Wtsup undecided
Re: I Need Advice Please. by Slimzjoe(m): 10:00pm On Jul 01, 2015
ronald4lif:


Nsogbu di, there's trouble bro. They are not just friends, no it can't be. The memories of a guy who deflowered a woman is unceasing and eonian so you must address this issue decisively. What are they discussing about if not how they miss each other and reminiscing on good old days. She must cease communicating with him. Perhaps she's the one after the ex. Who knows how long they've been seeing each other. I'd advice you have a paternity test on any kids you both have (or unborn ones) together.

See where Your Mind Don Reach!! shocked
Re: I Need Advice Please. by ronald4lif(m): 10:15pm On Jul 01, 2015
Slimzjoe:


See where Your Mind Don Reach!! shocked

Whenever there are grounds for suspicion, desperate measures should be taken.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by Pheals(f): 10:15pm On Jul 01, 2015
Bro see as this lady and her ex dey play ludo and u are watching ! Chisos!! Get into her tell her u won't accept it ..if she fail to listen next time u caught her calling him collect the phone... Tell that ALAINIRONU ex to be expecting her back,if he won't take her ..he should leave her or u curse him with olugbon no reporting to baba GOD or u come for my pops men he's a highly rank solider officer to locate him.. For him to learn abc by force Or U REPORT Your WIFE TO HER MAMA
Re: I Need Advice Please. by Slimzjoe(m): 10:18pm On Jul 01, 2015
ronald4lif:


Whenever there are grounds for suspicion, desperate measures should be taken.

Man, you're Right!
Re: I Need Advice Please. by happyjuliet(f): 10:19pm On Jul 01, 2015
Op watch ur back ooo ur woman might probably be saying d truth but what abt her Ex, he might have other interior motive....OR u tell ur Wife 2 stop picking his call or block his number shikena.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jul 01, 2015
onoerime:
I observe that my wife still recieves call from her ex. When I comfronted her.she agreed that the calls is from her ex and happens to be her first date. She swore before me that nothing emotional is attached to them. Please advice me. Should I replace her sim with a new one or just allow the calls to keep coming while I set a watch on her activities. I need advice please.



Learn to trust your wife, common call you want change sim.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jul 01, 2015
Oyind17:




Learn to trust your wife, common call you want change sim.

It's not about my trust my sister. When opposite sex spend a lot of time with each other, feelings are bound to crop up. Whether or not they choose to act on it, its a different ball game.

Now we are talking about exes here, first love. Those feelings rarely die and I'm talking first hand experience here, that is if what they had was worthwhile.

The wife should just let sleeping dogs lie and avoid it all together. She might have a clean mind but what about the guy? The Op needs to authoritatively tell his wife to stop every form of communication. It's unhealthy.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by boxer022(m): 9:40am On Jul 02, 2015
The fact that your wife is receiving calls from her ex does not indicate that she is cheating on you. As far as she agreed to marry you and not her ex should make you trust your wife. The fact that she is married to you does not mean that she will make her ex an enemy. She told you that there is nothing emotional attached to their phone conversations so why don't you believe her and forget about changing her sim. It was you that paid her bride price and not him, so calm down and stop thinking negatively.
Re: I Need Advice Please. by perry2020(f): 12:21pm On Jul 02, 2015
My brother she took a vow to forsake all others and stick to you,remind her that
Women are fragile beings,a little show of love and it gets into their head,if u guys have issues and she communicates with him and he is like oo,ur voice is this,she would definitely explain to him,beforeyou know what's up they would want to see and is it possible for them both to be together and not have feelings or try old things out,truth is bitter my brother,she might not have anything to do with him but u dnt know the brother's motive,i advice u talk to her abt it,if she knt stop communication with him them good radiance to bad rubbish.he should prepare to have her.
It's first love feelings we re talking abt here,very dangerous,a man can totally forget who disvirgined him but not a woman,the feeling lasts longer and almost forever.

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Re: I Need Advice Please. by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jul 02, 2015
Its time you should instal call recorder app in her phone without her knwing it. U can easily hide it & access all her phone call conversation anytime u wish to hear it.
I believe it will give you insight of whats happening between your wife and her ex.
Lastly dont forget friendly relationship between single Man & Married Woman may lead to adultery, advice her to abhor illicit friendship.
Goodluck
Re: I Need Advice Please. by onoerime: 1:29pm On Jul 02, 2015
Eco2580:
Its time you should instal call recorder app in her phone without her knwing it. U can easily hide it & access all her phone call conversion anytime u wish to hear it.
I believe it will give you insight of whats happening between your wife and her ex.
Lastly dont forget friendly relationship between single Man & Married Woman may lead to adultery, advice her against to abhor illicit friendship.
Goodluck
is there a way to peep their phone's conversations? How?
Re: I Need Advice Please. by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jul 02, 2015
onoerime:
is there a way to peep their phone's conversations? How?
No u can only listen to their recorded conversion.
Lastly do all u can to deter her from calling or receiving his calls bt if she insist then i may equip you with a buging gadget that can easily call your number whenever she make or receive call so that you can listen to her conversation from anywhere in the world.

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