OMO IBO:

i just hope you dont get used to it. cos this is where most girls get things wrong.
and you better not sit on ur behind and expect things to be the way it is forever.

sistawoman:

Men love a woman is above all else loyal.

They love to be able to brag to thier friends what a good girl you are along with your beauty.

They can feel it like you do when a woman really loves him.

it is in the small things that he will see the love.

Follow the list I gave before and trust me he will know that you appereciate everything he does.

Learn him above all else and you will be able to cater to his needs before he knows he has them.  This he will not forget.

If he likes a glass of wine when he gets home, make sure you are never out.
If he likes to put on his slippers when he gets home make sure they are where he can find them.

Be an asset to his life and compliment his life well.

Get along with his parents (esp. mother) and you are in there like flin.

Please never let him walk all over you or he will start to disrespect you and will never stop doing it.  But if you dont allow him to do that he will respect you and love you for it.

Learn to LEAD FROM BEHIND

MrCrackles:


Oops i ripped a lunatic's nerve!

Treetop20:

she just wants advice on how to appreciate him
how does your reply help?

tope2000:

I'm sensing jealousness from NL men??
i thot women get jealous over stuffs like this

Geetoylaz:

nah actually u didnt. obviovsly,  guys like u tend to hate a lot. cos u're broke. so when n sista finds her self a providing man that u cant match up to, u get all frustrated. i bet my last cent that ur single, not just single, but u've been single for a long ass time.  n when gurls dont go for loosers like u n get swept off thier feet by real blokes, u cant help but blame ur self day after day for being such a fallback.   n thats why when a chick is totally off the market, u feel this sharp pain that forces u to attack her, but since she out of ur reach, u rain insults instead. so hun i've dealt with breakdowns like u in the past n hun i'm not retired yet, so if u think a gurl like me cant get to a guy like u, think again hun, cos i'll break u. hows that i'm i in the ball park??

Treetop20:

what is there to hate about?
maybe your boyfriend has never bought anything for you before?
any sensible man will do what he is doing for her and MORE!

tope2000:

Errrrrrrrrrrrrrr. . . . .i think u shud go back n read, she isnt cussing the poster o

Treetop20:

what is there to hate about?
maybe your boyfriend has never bought anything for you before?
any sensible man will do what he is doing for her and MORE!

Geetoylaz:

nah actually u didnt. obviovsly, guys like u tend to hate a lot. cos u're broke. so when n sista finds her self a providing man that u cant match up to, u get all frustrated. i bet my last cent that ur single, not just single, but u've been single for a long ass time.  n when gurls dont go for loosers like u n get swept off thier feet by real blokes, u cant help but blame ur self day after day for being such a fallback.   n thats why when a chick is totally off the market, u feel this sharp pain that forces u to attack her, but since she out of ur reach, u rain insults instead. so hun i've dealt with breakdowns like u in the past n hun i'm not retired yet, so if u think a gurl like me cant get to a guy like u, think again hun, cos i'll break u. hows that i'm i in the ball park??

Treetop20:

i know who she is cursing
i really don't think her rants make any sense

Treetop20:

i know who she is cursing
i really don't think her rants make any sense

helovesme:

Thank you
May you find a girl that you can shower with care and love and i hope she appreciates you for it as well

IykeD:

ok now i get it but you should have given us the full gist in the original post like him working in Europe cos i don't see why a man working in Niger will be paying you salary in dols even if he is paid in dols.Now i see, it's not only the Nollywood people give us unnecesary "part 2, 3 and 4" versions of their scripts, have such on NL posts too.We don't mind part 3 though, like more details about the various vacations et al.
To the ladies who think we are hating, what's there to hate, we are guys and sensible enough to know when something doesn't sound true/right but i guess she has made a lil bit clarification on her initial post.

Treetop20:

i have a cousin who pays for his girlfriends mortgage( she's in the UK)
from Nigeria. it does happen

tope2000:

Some even buy the house cash down

spoilt:

Ok people, there's something i dont quite get.
When women rant and hate on men we say that they are gold digging, ungrateful, never satisfied women. here we have someone who is apparently satisfied with her man and singing his praises and holes are being picked in her story. Who cares if its true??  At least one of you is doing it right and representing.  
Learn from him boys!!!!

Treetop20:

see her mouth

Treetop20:

i know who she is cursing
i really don't think her rants make any sense