Whose fault is it actually? The GUY who thinks because she often initiates a chat on social interactive platform with him (provided he's not the only one she creates time for), means she's eyeing him OR the LADY who thinks if she initiates a chat with a guy (especially when he's not a stranger), it's a sign she's seeking for "attention" but it's ridiculous this particular thought does not pop up when they need assistance from this same guy - he's only good at rescuing; a simple hello that's not accompanied with SOS seems impossible nowadays.

"Hello" does not mean he/she is asking for a date - capisce!

This misconception that relationship preceeds friendship in the attitudinal disposition from both sexes makes the girl feel the guy must ALWAYS take the lead. For the record, in the spirit of friendship the interest is mainly mutual because it's a choice and not a chase. It's "give and take" and not "wait and take."

This sense of inferiority is also been exhibited in marriages today where the wife will not (not that she cannot) initiate sex with her husband even when her hormones is screaming for IT - you go roll for bed tire.

~Sir Jerry.com

Such is life take ot like that