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Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 9:11pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Godmother: Thanks a lot. |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
You are not the only person who's ever gone through things like this one...but I tell you... It'll certainly get better. 1 Like |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by Godmother(f): 9:29pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
kay29000: You are welcome 1 Like |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by ladyju(f): 9:56pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Pls talk to someone, ur parents or siblings. I have a similar case. I've been depressed for sometime.( not suicidal sha). I'm seeing s psychologist. I think u also need one. |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 10:06pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
ladyju: I have been thinking of that for a while now. I'll carry out some research on it. 1 Like |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by nwarosa: 2:45am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Are you in Nigeria? kay29000: |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by cococandy(f): 4:01am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Since you have the thoughts of your family keeping you from doing it. I won't preach to you. That's enough hindrance right there. I just believe that one day you'll be knocking yourself for ever thinking of it in the first place. |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by Nobody: 5:52am On Jul 07, 2015 |
kay29000: Let me guess. Gambling was involved? |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 6:07am On Jul 07, 2015 |
johnny1980: No. |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 6:08am On Jul 07, 2015 |
nwarosa: Yes. |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by PenAndPaper: 6:16am On Jul 07, 2015 |
kay29000: You need to calm down and figure out what you can do to salvage this situation.. Take a break. Change your number if you can.. Move away for sometime, try and figure out how to get a means to pay them off.. You have to ensure you calculate right this time. |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by Nobody: 6:23am On Jul 07, 2015 |
kay29000:give specifics then. We can take it from there. What fast biz? What biz did you invest initially |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 7:29am On Jul 07, 2015 |
johnny1980: I initially invested in amazon kindle publishing business, by paying writers to write for me and publishing the books in my acct with amazon...this still gives me a passive income of N12,000 monthly. The fast biz is about information marketing. There is a book I wrote (it is advertised in my signature) in 2011 on men's health and have been selling online since. It was my main source of income from 2011-2013. I would pay (in dollars) advertising money to Facebook, and the ad would run by the right side of the website for weeks. It was a very tailored ad so it was very effective. I left it when dollar started rising. I tried it again (cos it used to bring in money SUPER FAST back then), and lost a lot of money. That's about it. |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by trapQ: 7:33am On Jul 07, 2015 |
how much money do you owe? kay29000: |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 8:08am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 8:09am On Jul 07, 2015 |
PenAndPaper: Yea...I definitely have to do that. |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by joywendy(f): 8:16am On Jul 07, 2015 |
trapQ:@bold like seriously how are you solving matters with that statement he says he is an atheist why try to force it down is throat ![]() ![]() I really don't understand christians of nowadays,you want someone to accept what you believe in but fail to accept others beliefs. Very sensible indeed ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by trapQ: 8:32am On Jul 07, 2015 |
excuse me... take a moment to read, comprehend, assimilate and digest stuff before concluding. nowhere in my comment did I try to force him out of his belief. I only stated the obvious. christianity is a religion that teaches free will. and in this day and time, no one imposes anything on others talk more of religion. the op replied me previously, stating that he still doesn't believe. I didn't bother replying because I know religion is never to be forced on anyone. joywendy: |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by joywendy(f): 9:58am On Jul 07, 2015 |
trapQ: What exactly do you want me to read and understand? You don't have to say 'convert to christianity' to mean that you are forcing someone to accept your own belief and ideology. From the very first statement you made about him facing judgement from God(which he doesn't believe in) to the end says it all. If truly you believe that religion shouldn't be imposed on anyone,you wouldn't have posted that post. Why tell him to go read the bible and let God open his eyes? Why try to convince someone who's mind is made up? Is not pointless? Of course it aint pointless to you has long as he throws away his own belief and accepts yours ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by trapQ: 10:24am On Jul 07, 2015 |
there is a difference in trying to "convince" someone about something than actually "forcing" them. when Christians give out hand bills to strangers on the road or when Jehovah's witnesses approach people to speak about Christ- does it mean they are using force? what Christians do is evangelism which means to "spread the gospel" and not force people- NO. like I said before, never in my statement did I deliberately or otherwise in any sense pass try to pass my message across forcefully. No christian in their right sense does that. I only gave him a scripture and it is left to him to oblige or neglect it ( free will). whether or not he chooses to deny his belief for mine doesn't do anything for me. his life, his choice. eg when trying to correct someone who you "know" is getting maybe a math problem wrong and they refuse , do you force them? No. you simply leave them. bye! joywendy: 1 Like |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by trapQ: 10:29am On Jul 07, 2015 |
damn! e big ooo! k. the deeds already done. but remember that when trying to pay off a debt you don't have and you need to borrow, always borrow from the people you know won't give you problems if you're unable to pay back withing the agreed time frame.... possibly family members. don't try avoiding them. that'll make them mad, trust me. just call them and tell them to give you more time. after all they won't kill you. kay29000: |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 10:34am On Jul 07, 2015 |
trapQ: Yea |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by obo389(m): 10:41am On Jul 07, 2015 |
sim37: ![]() God forgive u |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by joywendy(f): 11:34am On Jul 07, 2015 |
@op so sorry for derailing your thread,just gonna answer that dude one more time and I will be off. TrapQ lol,why do you sound so pained? ![]() Really the example you gave does not in anyway correlate with what is going on here. I have my own views on evangelism,which I won't go deep into as it will derail the thread even further. Your last paragraph contradicts what you have been saying,you indirectly just implied that his belief is wrong from the analogy you gave. If someone finds hapiness in what he believes in who are you to say its wrong? Is it because it goes against or contradicts what you have been taught or know? Anyways I will end with this, learn to accept people's belief stop trying to convince others to accept your own beliefs. Good day! 1 Like |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by trapQ: 11:47am On Jul 07, 2015 |
I didn't read that ![]() joywendy: ![]() joywendy: |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by SkinnyDude(m): 10:31pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
i have had suicidal thought countless times... i tried over dossing myself with sleeping tablet , twice! but nothing happened... i vowed never to try it again.. i will be strong for my family, especially my mum... dont want to hurt her... am erasing every negative thought in my mind. no self pity and bad self image.... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by suzzy16(f): 1:38am On Jul 13, 2015 |
kay29000:my dear,u re nt d only one in dis situation,can we relate with each other pls,so I can give u word of hope,suicide is nt the solution to ur problem,u need God most |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by suzzy16(f): 1:40am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Jackeeh:I'm telling ya 1 Like |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 11:45am On Jul 13, 2015 |
SkinnyDude: Thanks for sharing this. |
Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by kay29000(m): 11:53am On Jul 13, 2015 |
suzzy16: Oops! Sorry...no zero at the end. It is 56163832 |
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