My elder brother and I are very close. He is older than me with four years but you will hardly notice. We share the same friends and practically do everything together except women. My mother had just the three of us for my father before she passed on; we have a younger sister whom I am older with just two years. Some years ago while I was still in the university, my brother had this girlfriend he was going out with. Initially I used to like her a lot because she really knows how to cook and take care of the house. Then my elder brother had graduated and had started working. I use to think this girl was really a home girl and a wife material. Not until something happened. I had gone to see my friend off campus on this particular day and while we were in his room gisting, a girl came out from the bathroom with a towel tied round her chest. My friend ask if we could go outside to give his girlfriend time to dress up since he was living in a one room self contain. On a closer look at the girl in question, I found out it was my brother’s girlfriend who he was proposing to marry. I was so shocked and couldn’t hide my emotions by calling out her name. She was so shocked as well to see me. That night she started crying and begging me not to tell my brother. I told her point blank that there was no way I wasn’t going to tell my brother. To be honest she really begged me that day and even packed her things immediately and followed me to my house begging and crying that I should forgive her and that it won’t happen again. But how can I keep that kind of thing from my brother? A girl he was planning to spend the rest of his life with. I told her she should have thought of her actions before doing it and she knows quite well that I was in that school and yet she still left her school and came to look for a boy in my school. Well after sometime when the crying and begging became too much I told her I wasn’t going to tell my brother but between us we both knew I would tell my brother. She left the next day, but what annoyed me most was that after she left, she called me and told me that she has begged me enough but if I still decide to tell my brother, she will deny it and it will be my word against hers and let’s see who my brother is going to believe. I was really angry at this point and I immediately placed a call to my brother and told him everything that has happened, but from the way he responded it was obvious she had already called him to feed him with lies. i became angry with my brother and I told him that if he went ahead to marry that girl I would not be a party to it. Its been three years since all these happened and my brother has refused to leave this girl. She has even resorted to taunting me in the house like, didn’t I tell you? And now last month he announced that they will be getting married in August. I have been trying unsuccessfully to discourage him but all to no avail. I have told him that if he marries that girl I won’t step my feet in his house again, ever. Please I need you to help me is there any way I can stop my brother from marrying this deceptive girl?


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Talk to your brother and let him decide.




Op Pliz try dey summarize all the long story.

hmmm....this is serious.

U fvcked the whole tin up....

Jeez! This is Crazy!

You Probably didn't tell Your brother the Right way ......But, what right thinking Brother won't believe his Sister

Damn! I don't know what to say...

Except, you're not the One getting married....its Your Brother's Life so Let him Live it.

Who cares if you step your feet in his house or not?. It's his choice to make who to marry and who not to. You've already told him about the incident but he insisted on keeping up with the relationship and marry her. As if the girl in question has never double dated before. Aproko mind your business. Nonsense.

Yes oh, your brother must not marry the girl. Better tell me but first of all, make you and your bros open office for her head.

osaslord500:
Talk to your brother and let him decide.





Op Pliz try dey summarize all the long story.

what are you saying, you dint read all right?


he has already decided to marry her come August!

Midehi:
what are you saying, you dint read all right?

he has already decided to marry her come August!

hmm it's really a difficult moment

Not anymore, take heart bro and accept thingz the way it happen, never underestimate the power of kitten again

ronald4lif:
Who cares if you step your feet in his house or not?. It's his choice to make who to marry and who not to. You've already told him about the incident but he insisted on keeping up with the relationship and marry her. As if the girl in question has never double dated before. Aproko mind your business. Nonsense.

yea exactly what i was thinking, most girls double date, its just unfortunate he is the one who caught her, and she pleaded with him, dou its difficult for him to bear seeing her with his elder brother but he has no choice than to let it go off his mind...moreover,it happened 3 yrs ago.

Rubbish. Which girl no dey fornicate?
She was just testing other guys proficiency on the bed, ur brother nvr marry her, Sheee ur brother too wan lie say he nor dey play away match?

there is nothing that can be done except you produce a really great evidence which I dont think you have.
So op, she won the game and u, ur brother are the loser. Live with it.

rheether:
Yes oh, your brother must not marry the girl. Better tell me but first of all, make you and your bros open office for her head.

what kind of office dear?

You shoud have recorded dah beggings and crying then as a prove....i pray dah APC<change> happens in dah life of your brother en go jus clear for her eye.
Another option, i get gun for rent, & if u kill one person, i'll dash you witout returning it!

Eyaaah! Op the wounded Lion

Midehi:

yea exactly what i was thinking, most girls double date, its just unfortunate he is the one who caught her, and she pleaded with him, dou its difficult for him to bear seeing her with his elder brother but he has no choice than to let it go off his mind...moreover,it happened 3 yrs ago.

It's easier for one to profile out others transgression and turn a blind eye to their own blemishes. She herself might have maintain multiple affairs in the past (or still is) but because this one involves her brother then the world should cease existing.

I can bet my balls that she wouldn't have informed the brother's fiancé had she caught him in a compromising position with another lady. She simply want the girl to keep butt-licking her. Make she no go find her own husband. Another nonsense.

Simple just Go to the church when pastor says "If you are not in support of this marriage, come out"
you go out as simple as that

Pls someone shud summarise it, den send it to my email...

I'll comment tomorrow

@honestly, this is a very serious issue. without any apology 4rm anybody, your brother is a complete ass-licker. that girl will kill your brother b4 they both spend 10yrs together. you will soon come back here to announce to us that the lady has killed your brother. if she didnt dare you after begging, its good but the fact that she dares you makes me knw that shes a complete biitch.

ronald4lif:


It's easier for one to profile out others transgression and turn a blind eye to their own blemishes. She herself might have maintain multiple affairs in the past (or still is) but because this one involves her brother then the world should cease existing.

I can bet my balls that she wouldn't have informed the brother's fiancé had she caught him in a compromising position with another lady. She simply want the girl to keep butt-licking her. Make she no go find her own husband. Another nonsense.

oh its she not he? i thought the op is a he, anyway whether he or she, no choice mennn!

softysparky:
Eyaaah! Op the wounded Lion

is dat all u can say? smh

You told your brother, and having heard you he decided to still go on with the relationship. So what else is your problem? It is your brother who will live with her for the rest of his life not you.

You shouldn't cry more than the bereaved. If your brother cannot believe you, his blood over his girlfriend then he deserves that kinda girl.....and if on the other hand he actually believes you but still decided to stick with her, then he still deserves her. Leave them to their life jor.

The girl Don use her panties cook vegetables for the guy chop... Your brother need serious prayer..

naijaboiy:

*cleans eyes*

Oga ronald are you the one that posted this thing?

I don't want to believe so.

Ya, the brother fiance cheated, accepted. She pleaded she shouldn't let her brother know about it but she later did. The brother gave it a deaf ear and insisted on going ahead with the affair and wedding, what then is her business?. One should be blackmailed by their siblings that they will cut all family ties with them if they marry someone they don't like?. I don't think it works that way anymore.

The right and decision on who to marry rest on the shoulders of the man alone as he's the one to live with the wife, their choice. After seeking for relatives consent prior to marriage, they have two choice, it's either they give their blessings or buzz off.

hmmm..