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He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Bilabong(m): 3:13pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
I have been married for more than 20 years to a man I thought I knew and trusted with my entire heart until the day I found out that he has been cheating on me for a decade. The affair with the other woman has even produced two children; a set of twins. To make matters worse, the woman in question turned out to be my best friend I shared everything with, including the challenges in my home. As gullible as I have been , I was privy to her pregnancy and encouraged her in the relationship she said she was in. She told me he was married and that they didn’t plan for children in their relationship and that since she was getting old , she decided to get pregnant not withstanding his objections . During the time she was pregnant with the twins ; she would come to my house and sleep because it was a very trying period for her . I stood by her throughout and even agreed to her suggestions that the naming ceremony for the twins be done in our house to cover her shame as she put it . My husband it was that gave the children the names they answer to till date . Looking back, I feel like the worst fool on earth . I also recall that my mother - in-law was very angry with me for allowing such an event in my home and practically ordered my friend out of the house a day after the ceremony , with a warning never to come to my house again . I was angry with my mother -in- law for her actions but she told me that I would understand one day . Until she died, she refused to talk to my husband and begged me on her death bed never to pack out of my home , no matter what . My sisters - in-law too for reasons I didn’ t know then, refused to have anything to do with my husband and kept warning me against the betrayal of friends . As a matter of fact, it was even the youngest one of them that told me about my husband ’s betrayal . I had gone to celebrate the 10 th birthday of the twins with my friend when she called me to know where I was. When I told her , she could n’ t stop her burst of anger at my refusal to terminate the relationship with my so called friend. It was then she told me that the twins were my husband ’s children and that my friend has been sleeping with my husband all these years. It was as if I was in a dream when I confronted my friend and she confirmed it , saying it was the reason she insisted on the naming ceremony taking place in my home and why she allows the children come as frequently as possible so as to be with their father. She warned me in my interest not to attempt anything or else I won’t live to tell the story . Only God can tell how I drove myself home that day . My husband too didn’ t bother to deny it , but kept begging me to forgive him that he didn’ t know how the relationship started and that he has been trying to get out of it but to no avail . Knowing how vast my friend is when it comes to visiting native doctors and spiritual homes , I knew my husband could be under a spell . It was after this my in-laws explained their attitude to me and why they kept warning me to terminate my relationship with her . When my husband went to her to end the relationship , she came to my house to threaten him that since he has decided to stay with me, both of us will never enjoy the marriage again . That very night , my husband started bedwetting . First it was just in the night but it has graduated to day time . I don ’ t know what to do anymore as we have tried all the hospitals . The more medications he takes , the worse he gets . The real problem now is that following the suggestions of my eldest sister -in-law we took him to one of the prayer mountains, where it was revealed that my friend was behind the problem . But the solution they proffered is the reason I ’m writing you . According to them, she and my husband during sex took an oath never to leave each other and that bedwetting would be the lot of the one who walks away . According to the prophet, I should go and beg her to forgive my husband and pretend to permit them to continue with the relationship to enable my husband use the same means break the curse with the anointing oil they would prepare for him and return her curse back to her . Two other pastors have told me the same thing and I have also seen it in my dreams. After seeing it in my dream , I went to her to beg her to forgive me , she beat me and drove me out of her house with a stern warning never to attempt coming to her place again . This is why I need your help. How do I get her to even listen to me. Coined from : Daily Independent
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Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
1st of all, it isn't like the mother of the twins placed a curse on the husband rather he broke a covenant which consequence are tied to. Having said that, it's clear already where the battle is emanating from and a supposed solution has been proposed, i'm afraid to say that that could be the only possible way out, so i suggest you people do what you are told to do... |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by kolatobs(m): 3:15pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
NA WA OOO I BELIEVE ITS NOT UNTIL YOUR HUSBAND GOES THROUGH THAT PROCESS JUST TRUST GOD AND KEEP PRAYING NOT ONLY YOU BUT WITH YOUR HUSBAND,. |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Jaycool18(m): 3:16pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
u need prayers |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by demmy0325(m): 3:18pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Bilabong(m): 3:23pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by carzola(m): 3:27pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Bilabong:Blah Blah Blah, SAME OLD SH!T JUST A DIFFERENT OP.
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Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by lilmaaxfidel: 3:28pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
made up story |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Papasmal(m): 3:29pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
How unfortunate if ur story is real. Only prayer can get u and ur husband out da mess. Afterall our lord is ominipotent. He has power over all things,keep believing ur problem will be solve. He that knelt before God will stand before ani beign |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by youngsky: 3:31pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
This is a very tough story and a very tough question, you need to gather your pastors and your fellow christian friends to pray hard with you, There is no power, no situation that almighty God can't solve, what you need now is prayers. I pray that God will help you through those problem you are facing. Cc: lalasticlala ishilove |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by IamLEGEND1: 3:37pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Diz is serious... #IsuggestYouBuyOneTrailerOfPampers |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Bilabong:yeah it doesn't, forgive my space-booking mentality. will modify ASAP. |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
well, stories like this are difficult to easily get remedy except God's intervention. meanwhile, from your post you've meet men of God who have told you the source of your husband problem but with no remedy.... what you've to know is; God doesn't take permission to set any one free. so therefore, you need to go for higher anoiting for GOD'S intervention. |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
well, stories like this are difficult to easily get remedy except God's intervention. meanwhile, from your post you've meet men of God who have told you the source of your husband problem but with no remedy.... what you've to know is; God doesn't take permission to set any one free. so therefore, you need take your husband for higher anoiting for GOD'S intervention. |
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by ada40: 4:56pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
@Op, if this your story is true, then this thread will help: https://www.nairaland.com/2414762/spiritual-warfare-deliverance-casting-out |
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