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He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Bilabong(m): 3:13pm On Jul 07, 2015
I have been married for more than 20
years to a man I thought I knew and
trusted with my entire heart until the
day I found out that he has been
cheating on me for a decade. The affair
with the other woman has even
produced two children; a set of twins.
To make matters worse, the woman in
question turned out to be my best
friend I shared everything with,
including the challenges in my home.
As gullible as I have been , I was privy to
her pregnancy and encouraged her in the
relationship she said she was in. She told
me he was married and that they didn’t
plan for children in their relationship and
that since she was getting old , she
decided to get pregnant not withstanding
his objections .
During the time she was pregnant with the
twins ; she would come to my house and
sleep because it was a very trying period
for her . I stood by her throughout and
even agreed to her suggestions that the
naming ceremony for the twins be done in
our house to cover her shame as she put
it . My husband it was that gave the
children the names they answer to till
date .
Looking back, I feel like the worst fool on
earth . I also recall that my mother - in-law
was very angry with me for allowing such
an event in my home and practically
ordered my friend out of the house a day
after the ceremony , with a warning never
to come to my house again . I was angry
with my mother -in- law for her actions but
she told me that I would understand one
day .
Until she died, she refused to talk to my
husband and begged me on her death bed
never to pack out of my home , no matter
what .
My sisters - in-law too for reasons I didn’ t
know then, refused to have anything to do
with my husband and kept warning me
against the betrayal of friends .
As a matter of fact, it was even the
youngest one of them that told me about
my husband ’s betrayal .
I had gone to celebrate the 10 th birthday of
the twins with my friend when she called
me to know where I was. When I told her ,
she could n’ t stop her burst of anger at my
refusal to terminate the relationship with
my so called friend. It was then she told
me that the twins were my husband ’s
children and that my friend has been
sleeping with my husband all these years.
It was as if I was in a dream when I
confronted my friend and she confirmed it ,
saying it was the reason she insisted on
the naming ceremony taking place in my
home and why she allows the children
come as frequently as possible so as to
be with their father.
She warned me in my interest not to
attempt anything or else I won’t live to tell
the story .
Only God can tell how I drove myself
home that day . My husband too didn’ t
bother to deny it , but kept begging me to
forgive him that he didn’ t know how the
relationship started and that he has been
trying to get out of it but to no avail .
Knowing how vast my friend is when it
comes to visiting native doctors and
spiritual homes , I knew my husband could
be under a spell .
It was after this my in-laws explained
their attitude to me and why they kept
warning me to terminate my relationship
with her .
When my husband went to her to end the
relationship , she came to my house to
threaten him that since he has decided to
stay with me, both of us will never enjoy
the marriage again .
That very night , my husband started
bedwetting . First it was just in the night
but it has graduated to day time . I don ’ t
know what to do anymore as we have tried
all the hospitals . The more medications he
takes , the worse he gets .
The real problem now is that following the
suggestions of my eldest sister -in-law we
took him to one of the prayer mountains,
where it was revealed that my friend was
behind the problem . But the solution they
proffered is the reason I ’m writing you .
According to them, she and my husband
during sex took an oath never to leave
each other and that bedwetting would be
the lot of the one who walks away .
According to the prophet, I should go and
beg her to forgive my husband and pretend
to permit them to continue with the
relationship to enable my husband use the
same means break the curse with the
anointing oil they would prepare for him
and return her curse back to her .
Two other pastors have told me the same
thing and I have also seen it in my
dreams.
After seeing it in my dream , I went to her
to beg her to forgive me , she beat me and
drove me out of her house with a stern
warning never to attempt coming to her
place again .
This is why I need your help. How do I get
her to even listen to me.
Coined from : Daily Independent

Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jul 07, 2015
1st of all, it isn't like the mother of the twins placed a curse on the husband rather he broke a covenant which consequence are tied to. Having said that, it's clear already where the battle is emanating from and a supposed solution has been proposed, i'm afraid to say that that could be the only possible way out, so i suggest you people do what you are told to do...
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by kolatobs(m): 3:15pm On Jul 07, 2015
NA WA OOO I BELIEVE ITS NOT UNTIL YOUR HUSBAND GOES THROUGH THAT PROCESS


JUST TRUST GOD AND KEEP PRAYING NOT ONLY YOU BUT WITH YOUR HUSBAND,.
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Jaycool18(m): 3:16pm On Jul 07, 2015
u need prayers
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by demmy0325(m): 3:18pm On Jul 07, 2015
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Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Bilabong(m): 3:23pm On Jul 07, 2015
Dharniel:
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demmy0325:
..
Making real Comments doesn't hurt.
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by carzola(m): 3:27pm On Jul 07, 2015
Bilabong:
I have been married for more than 20
years to a man I thought I knew and
trusted with my entire heart until the
day I found out that he has been
cheating on me for a decade. The affair
with the other woman has even
produced two children; a set of twins.
To make matters worse, the woman in
question turned out to be my best
friend I shared everything with,
including the challenges in my home.
As gullible as I have been , I was privy to
her pregnancy and encouraged her in the
relationship she said she was in. She told
me he was married and that they didn’t
plan for children in their relationship and
that since she was getting old , she
decided to get pregnant not withstanding
his objections .
During the time she was pregnant with the
twins ; she would come to my house and
sleep because it was a very trying period
for her . I stood by her throughout and
even agreed to her suggestions that the
naming ceremony for the twins be done in
our house to cover her shame as she put
it . My husband it was that gave the
children the names they answer to till
date .
Looking back, I feel like the worst fool on
earth . I also recall that my mother - in-law
was very angry with me for allowing such
an event in my home and practically
ordered my friend out of the house a day
after the ceremony , with a warning never
to come to my house again . I was angry
with my mother -in- law for her actions but
she told me that I would understand one
day .
Until she died, she refused to talk to my
husband and begged me on her death bed
never to pack out of my home , no matter
what .
My sisters - in-law too for reasons I didn’ t
know then, refused to have anything to do
with my husband and kept warning me
against the betrayal of friends .
As a matter of fact, it was even the
youngest one of them that told me about
my husband ’s betrayal .
I had gone to celebrate the 10 th birthday of
the twins with my friend when she called
me to know where I was. When I told her ,
she could n’ t stop her burst of anger at my
refusal to terminate the relationship with
my so called friend. It was then she told
me that the twins were my husband ’s
children and that my friend has been
sleeping with my husband all these years.
It was as if I was in a dream when I
confronted my friend and she confirmed it ,
saying it was the reason she insisted on
the naming ceremony taking place in my
home and why she allows the children
come as frequently as possible so as to
be with their father.
She warned me in my interest not to
attempt anything or else I won’t live to tell
the story .
Only God can tell how I drove myself
home that day . My husband too didn’ t
bother to deny it , but kept begging me to
forgive him that he didn’ t know how the
relationship started and that he has been
trying to get out of it but to no avail .
Knowing how vast my friend is when it
comes to visiting native doctors and
spiritual homes , I knew my husband could
be under a spell .
It was after this my in-laws explained
their attitude to me and why they kept
warning me to terminate my relationship
with her .
When my husband went to her to end the
relationship , she came to my house to
threaten him that since he has decided to
stay with me, both of us will never enjoy
the marriage again .
That very night , my husband started
bedwetting . First it was just in the night
but it has graduated to day time . I don ’ t
know what to do anymore as we have tried
all the hospitals . The more medications he
takes , the worse he gets .
The real problem now is that following the
suggestions of my eldest sister -in-law we
took him to one of the prayer mountains,
where it was revealed that my friend was
behind the problem . But the solution they
proffered is the reason I ’m writing you .
According to them, she and my husband
during sex took an oath never to leave
each other and that bedwetting would be
the lot of the one who walks away .
According to the prophet, I should go and
beg her to forgive my husband and pretend
to permit them to continue with the
relationship to enable my husband use the
same means break the curse with the
anointing oil they would prepare for him
and return her curse back to her .
Two other pastors have told me the same
thing and I have also seen it in my
dreams.
After seeing it in my dream , I went to her
to beg her to forgive me , she beat me and
drove me out of her house with a stern
warning never to attempt coming to her
place again .
This is why I need your help. How do I get
her to even listen to me.
Coined from : Daily Independent
Blah Blah Blah, SAME OLD SH!T JUST A DIFFERENT OP.

Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by lilmaaxfidel: 3:28pm On Jul 07, 2015
made up story undecided
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Papasmal(m): 3:29pm On Jul 07, 2015
How unfortunate if ur story is real.

Only prayer can get u and ur husband out da mess.
Afterall our lord is ominipotent.
He has power over all things,keep believing ur problem will be solve.
He that knelt before God will stand before ani beign
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by youngsky: 3:31pm On Jul 07, 2015
This is a very tough story and a very tough question, you need to gather your pastors and your fellow christian friends to pray hard with you, There is no power, no situation that almighty God can't solve, what you need now is prayers. I pray that God will help you through those problem you are facing.
Cc: lalasticlala ishilove
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by IamLEGEND1: 3:37pm On Jul 07, 2015
Diz is serious...
#IsuggestYouBuyOneTrailerOfPampers
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jul 07, 2015
Bilabong:


Making real Comments doesn't hurt.
yeah it doesn't, forgive my space-booking mentality. will modify ASAP.
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jul 07, 2015
well, stories like this are difficult to easily get remedy except God's intervention.

meanwhile, from your post you've meet men of God who have told you the source of your husband problem but with no remedy....

what you've to know is; God doesn't take permission to set any one free.

so therefore, you need to go for higher anoiting for GOD'S intervention.
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jul 07, 2015
well, stories like this are difficult to easily get remedy except God's intervention.

meanwhile, from your post you've meet men of God who have told you the source of your husband problem but with no remedy....

what you've to know is; God doesn't take permission to set any one free.

so therefore, you need take your husband for higher anoiting for GOD'S intervention.
Re: He Started Bed Wetting After He Broke Up (must Read) by ada40: 4:56pm On Jul 07, 2015
@Op, if this your story is true, then this thread will help:

https://www.nairaland.com/2414762/spiritual-warfare-deliverance-casting-out

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