hawk05:
I dey come make I finish making eba

faith551:
Op the point is that disrespecting you has nothing to do with the pet names she calls, unless u are ten years older than her, have u asked yourself if u have ever putted up a behaviour that could have reduced your worth in her presence? Sometimes we do little things that turn around to reduce the esteemed height people place us.
As a matter of fact u hitting or confronting her will worsen the issue, all you need to do is reposition yourself, talk less, smile less unless when needed, always be serious with your work, dnt gossip, be polite to everyone and at thesame times tackle issues with seriousness, u might end up rebuilding that figure she ones saw in u, good luck and always remember, you don't force people to respect you, you earn it

wahles:
No two ways about it# if you want your respect keep the distance, if work brings you together dont smile too much #

sseunth:
First of all, you didn't bring mr frm heaven....


You earn your respect the way u relate with her and other people around u...

Successdude:
Funy how things pawn out sometimes. yesterday(friday) i called to a corner. i asked her who i was to her, she said, 'i hav bin a gud friend. nice to her,dis n dat.....'AND my response was(almost in a whisper did i speak),'im telin u ds as a friend,'i said. 'i never knew u b4 until u came here.people may think wer dating or something n cos of dat sum friends turned to enemies(it actualy happend though), BUT you knw wat,u arnt my galfwnd and i hv no plans watsoeva to even mk u one and i kind of believ same with u'(she just dey fixed to the ground and i continued) 'even if u date the whole guys in this town, i dnt care one bit. and pls dnt get me wrong u ar a friend, okay? so if u are relating with me, pls do so as just jane not as jane who is my galfrnd,okay?' i looked at her face a while and smiled(small o).I stood up n walked sum strides bt She just stood thr like a tree. Next she askd i shuld hlp ha wit my phone dt she wnts 2 kal her line. I did.She dialed d digits in exces. her concentration got lost. END

Gurgle:


abeg

oga what does this one mean

did you settle the quarrel or what

Successdude:
hopefully settled. gud she got it into her head, am nt afta ha.

Jenams:
i am a morafoka

Gurgle:


ok. so are you friends with her again?

it sounds like she was worried that people will start gossiping about her having witnessed your closeness

Successdude:
yeah, friends buh u knw wat hapens to frienship when one bgins to feel inxultd.
AND
yes she might b woried abt sumtin. actualy one of my friends who was also a colleague seemd to b jealous. and she startd treatin her hashly, seein me as an enemy and al dat. though i knew she kinda liked me buh i kept tryin to pretend i didnt knw it. well, i didnt intend to write to this point in my earliar post but then i have now. You seem to undastand d whole thin.

yilly:
at first, I will Hv to reprimand u for selling ur respect for sweet names. u unintentionally did it. if u are her boss, call her to order!

Successdude:
not her boss. Wel, I knew those sweet names wuld get to sumtin else so i actualy didnt fal 4 dt. bt i wuld just smile or let her play wit my palm n dts al.i kinda think wat sold my respct was perhaps because i joked wit her most times.(and didnt heed my mind's warning not to.) Initialy, i tot i was tryin to b of same flow wit 'a female' basd on d past experience i hav had with d oposite xx: they would say am mean, dnt respnd to greeting, always frwnin and ds n dat. (usualy i dnt keep a friendly luk; always keepin a soldier face kindof, and worst or best of all im an INTROVERT.) so my tryin to adjust to suit females cost me dat. But nw i hav pickd myself already. Thnks.