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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Legacy4christ(m): 9:37pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
De husband is d head, his decision is gud n shuld b aceptable, d wive have a hiden agenda dats y, cos anytin cm wen litle issues occure dat need setlement between husband n wife, de wife ll take it to anoda level beliving that if they divorce she ll stand a beter chance to gain n especially now dat she know that prince is well to do and the only son in that mater, imagin amaka wit igbo sense, my prince b a man. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by bashydemy(m): 9:40pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
refreshrate:The last time i check the man is the head of the house, So if prince say he did not believe in court marriage will he be forced to do it? Amaka Should becareful or else she is about to loose 5yrs of her life. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freecocoa(f): 9:40pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Ikiriye:Lets forget Europe for a minute and concentrate on Nigeria as the same thing doesn't happen here, even what you call women being favoured is open for debate but not today. Marriage here doesn't favour women as you are trying to say, instead the man gets away with almost anything. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Ikiriye(m): 9:50pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
freecocoa: How can we forget Europe when everything our women are doing is European.fake nails,fake ass,fake hair,fake eye lash and the list goes on.if she is rich and the guy is poor she might not consider court option.we are beginning to have hybrid women in our society so we men need to be careful.men watch your wives when they start keeping so many friends for she will most likely be corrupted when you talk she heads to court to take that your sweet house.not acceptable. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Princephelar(m): 9:53pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freecocoa(f): 9:55pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Ikiriye:May double standards not kill my Naija brothers o. The men don't use anything European ofcourse. How do you know she won't agree to a court wedding if she's rich? As usual blame the women, men are saints. Why do I even bother, goodnight jare. 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by efemenaslectura: 10:03pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Haaa typical African man.i see ![]() Mr no woman can talk to me ![]() speaking of sissies i prefer them to the so called macho guys sissies are very malleable and easy to shape in the way you can easily control and feel comfortable with .a direct opposite of the mr macho guy ![]() cyprus000: |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by bashydemy(m): 10:08pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
freecocoa:They dated for 5 long years and she dint still trust the guy? Come off it girl. I hate that word court marriage, In my family we don't believe in that.. Why sign a bondage for myself where i cannot have a say and she will threaten me with certificate.. Make Prince let her lots of girl are on the street, By the time she spend another 5yrs dating another guy her head go straight. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by obeagu1(m): 10:25pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
I was in d same delimma just few months back but I stock 2my guns...no tym jare |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by harry509: 10:25pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
suggyspic:well since they av dated for 5yrs and now they Rr abt 2 go on wit their marriage. I tink d lady shud obey prince by allown d traditional weddn 2 take place. And if she refuse traditional weddn, prince shud let 4lo her hrt. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freecocoa(f): 10:28pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
bashydemy:I see. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Simple the magistrate shd be present at the traditional wedding with necessary documents ![]() Ask adam and eve dey no berra |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by profinmasscom(m): 11:12pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Prince = wealthy guy. Amaka = unknown. Relationship = 5 years. Abortion = 5 times Court marriage = Amaka Traditional marriage = Prince Possibility of pregnancy after marriage = not too sure. Trusted by Prince = 5% Reason for untrustworthy = she may kill him and sell all his properties. Trusted by Amaka = 5% Reason for untrustworthy = he may get a second wife if she could not produce a child as a result of constant abortion. Possibility of both of then getting married = 35% Reason = lack of trust and ulterior motive among both of them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Toks2008(m): 11:17pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
suggyspic: A man who truly loves his lady and has no hidden agenda will gladly do a registry marrage. 3 Likes |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by cyprus000: 11:23pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
efemenaslectura: [size=13pt][b] Yes, I am an african and a proud one at that. Infact I am a cave man with a retro tendency,but more logical and advanced in thinking than you zombified brainwashed peeps,whose sixth sense have been hegemonically infested by the imperialist,with no mind of your own and live the life of emperialist just to please them. It is a pity that you peeps still wallow in the swamp of ignorance and sees anything from the emperialist as progressive and your's has retrogressive. That's the peak of mental slavery. There is no way a counterfeit can be better than an original. Quit being a copycat and have a mind of your own. I have dated 4 white ladies and in no way,did they try to dictate life for me.I didn't even give room for such nonesense. It is the way you present yourself,will you be taken. Infact,my present GF is a brazilian and was a budhhist.i am the one who converted her to christainity. So anytime I see you peeps use whites has reference,I begin to wonder if it's same white I know or from pluto ![]() And about the embolded,it's good that you have your boundry,I only pity those "sissy" men you are planning to make your subjects. It's not my business anyway ![]() [/b][/size] |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by roob: 11:32pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Bro., you no book die! |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by roob: 11:36pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
edwife: Fear women....hehehehehehe |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by ronald4lif(m): 11:40pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 12:38am On Jul 11, 2015 |
freecocoa: What if he divorces her before remarrying? |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by NobleG1(m): 4:38am On Jul 11, 2015 |
suggyspic: 1. The lady wants a legal marriage certified by court, in case of a divorce in future. Court will protect her interest in regards to divorce settlement. Traditional (cultural) and Church (religious) marriages are not legally certified by court but accepted in the sociaty. That's why Embassies required a marriage document issued by the court. It's an intelligent move on her part. She wants a protection under the law and probably doesn't trust the guy 100%. 2. I guess she didn't inform the guy earlier about this court stuff. She may be a manipulative type. She waited until it would be hard (Marriage preparation is 80% ready) for the guy to back down. Or at the last minute, someone advised her to do it. Having an outsider dictate what happens to your marriage is bad. 3. Now she wants the poor guy to 'prove' his love for her by doing what she wants. Does she mean the guy has not proved his love for her during their 5-year courtship? If she's in doubt about it, why is she willing to marry him now? She'll always play this game on the guy whenever she wants him to do anything. Not good. 4. Having this type of major issue before marriage is not good, it should make anyone rethink. 5. If she was richer than the guy, she won't remember court marriage. She may be a little more interested in the guy's wealth. I have no problem with court marriage, in fact, it's the best protection a married person has in Nigeria and abroad. For the fact that Nigerians are not used to court marriage (I did it after 7 years marriage, only to get my wive's visa), the lady should have discussed this earlier with her man, not now the marriage preparation is 80% finished. It has now become suspicious. The guy's parents may not want him to oblige. In summary, the poor guy is about to marry trouble. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by izzieman: 5:59am On Jul 11, 2015 |
Whether you are a man or a woman it is a good idea to undertake a court wedding. It protects both of you in many ways. One scenario in each case. Man - If you are well to do and God forbid, you die accidentally, your family cannot go and throw your wife out and say they own all your property. If you have kids, it is even worse. People can come and claim all your property then leave your wife and kids to suffer. Woman - Above scenario plus the man cannot just throw you out and hope you do not have rights in whatever you have built together as a couple. A housewife married to a Billionaire is a contributor too even if the man is the only one with physical income. I do not know how Nigeria Law works on Common Law Marriage but most countries that operate the British Common Law are considered married after living together for one year so this may be a moot point if these two have lived together for more than a year in their 5 year relationship. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by fanex: 6:29am On Jul 11, 2015 |
That moment when clowns date. suggyspic: |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by DrGroove(f): 6:31am On Jul 11, 2015 |
they should do both traditional and couRt. Court marriage doesn't cost much. to me,TM n court is the entire marriage Church wedding is just for show n formality and a lying opportunity where Pastor forces people to take vows they don't keep to. But if both parties can't reach an agreement,they should go their separate ways.its not by force for them to marry! I support Amaka's decision for court maRriage(although it shouldn't come first).Men are scared of it cos of what the court will do when they start displaying thier usual bad character towards the woman |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by refreshrate: 7:02am On Jul 11, 2015 |
bashydemy: Dem never marry. So which house? At this stage if she leaves they will say she jilted. After marriage (whichever one) dem go say they are divorced if the man is the head in this case how come it's the girls place they do the conclusion of process? Till they are married in some way, the man is head of himself. Think am |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by refreshrate: 7:09am On Jul 11, 2015 |
make we get am Prince already has another woman he's either married to has engaged in some way. court is cheaper than traditional court has more weight in case of f÷ck ups ...please which guy would like to spend more money on a one day event like wedding when he has an option bikonu? see all wedding photos women are always happier than the men; it's cos of all the money they guy has spent. Prince is hiding something. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by cococandy(f): 7:32am On Jul 11, 2015 |
angelz: Exactly. Any guy who has problems making his marriage to you binding is suspect. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by bobojoshua(m): 8:09am On Jul 11, 2015 |
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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by bobojoshua(m): 8:11am On Jul 11, 2015 |
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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by tonquendo4u(m): 8:15am On Jul 11, 2015 |
In African tradition,traditional marriage is paramount.If u aint married traditionally,u aint married and u won't know until something comes up in d village.D babe clamouring 4 court wedding,does se plan to divorce him? |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 8:39am On Jul 11, 2015 |
halfrica: i feel like kissing you, kissing you, kissing you!!!!!!! Take a big hug from me, would you!!!! Not everyone like that thing called church, mosque or court marriage. If 'security' is the problem and you feel signing a certificate would solve the insecurity problem (and i wonder how my signing dotted line on a marriage certificate can make you feel more secured), why then don't we try to get the marriage certificate signed during the traditional marriage? Afterall, that's all you care about and not the venue for the wedding! |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 8:43am On Jul 11, 2015 |
Toks2008: i disagree completely! Two people who are truely in love with each other would not even be bothered if they are married or not!!! |
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