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Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 10:54pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
Can someone lie to you, keep secrets from you and still love you? Think hard before you answer it, think about your past and present relationship. Have you wronged someone you cared about and what's your excuse? |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sauron1: 10:56pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix: U don't say everything, do you?? We all have our darkest secrets locked up somewhere in our domes. Blimey. . . . .I don't even tell God everything. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Nobody: 10:58pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
I think so |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 10:58pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
I ask because you hear people say they are looking for a truthful, honest lover but we all are human and we lie, cheat and all that stuff, so I began to wonder if I should just look for a good liar (if that makes any sense). |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sauron1: 11:00pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix: Look for a good liar then. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 11:01pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~: I bet you are a good liar lol |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sauron1: 11:02pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix: Hiding facts away from a loved one is not LYING. If i see 10 things and i say 2. . . . .It does not make me a liar. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 11:03pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~:True. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 11:05pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
But is hiding the truth any better? |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sauron1: 11:07pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix: Sometimes a babe will not want to say she's had 6 abortions in the past 12 months. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 11:10pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~: Or a guy not telling his woman that he is the reason why she can't have a child . . . I see what you're saying but many times, in the end, the truth always comes out rather unpleasantly. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sauron1: 11:19pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix: I'd rather it comes out itself than me opening ma gob to spew heresy. Let things play out is just about the right thing to do. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by JJYOU: 11:23pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix:mmmmmmm very true. it is better to be truthful always. however, i wont tell the mrs what i know will hurt or cause her pain. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by glorina: 11:28pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~: I disagree Ask me why |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 11:29pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~: So she's there driving herself insane, going from doctor to doctor, thinking something's wrong with her and he's chilling waiting for it to play out. Seems pretty mean. I think for somewhat irrelevant stuff like where you were last night, you can do that and have no major consequences when the truth, that you spent all night at my place instead of spending it with her, comes out. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sauron1: 11:32pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
glorina: I won't ask you. . . . . DaPhoenix: Nope. . . . We would be going from doctor to doctor . . . The world has moved on. . . . . . .a man n his wife take tests together these days. Let the doctor find me out himself. . . . .It makes things a lil bit better. My GP is a professional. They are better at breaking such horrible news. I wouldn't want a cat like you to claw ma face outta anger. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sissy3(f): 11:37pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix: lie , secret n love shouldn't even b in the same sentence sef cox i believe that when u love someone dearly u should b bold enough to open up to the person if the person likes u equally enough then he/she will b less judgmental cox eventually depending, the truth will always come out. then it will b how can u say u love me and still dnt trust/love me enough to tell me ur secrets? |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by JJYOU: 11:38pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix:agent provocateur. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 11:38pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~: The doctor will be like "Sauron, I thought we've been through this before." And I will put on my black belt. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by glorina: 11:39pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~: The answer is obvious anyways. . .hehehe |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Moonstone(f): 11:40pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
Someone can lie to you and keep stuff from you and keep telling himself that he loves you but he doesn't know that he doesn't love you. I can't stand people that lie to me at all. I find it a lot of fun though when I discover that he was lying to me during the relationship AFTER we have broken up. For me, it's a relief to know that my instincts were very right. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 11:41pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sissy~: It depends on what you are opening up to and how relevant it is to your lover. JJYOU: I'm just telling the truth, love |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sauron1: 11:42pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
glorina: There is no obvious answer here. DaPhoenix: Nah. . . . .The doc will be professional. I woulda called him to play act when i am with you. As far as we r concerned, the ailment is a new discovery. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by IronButt(f): 11:45pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
hmmm, it's hard to answer,, yes, i lie sometimes too but i still love him , so it is possible |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by glorina: 11:47pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~: The more you look the clearer you see. You just need to open your eyes first . . . |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 11:47pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
Moonstone: But sometimes, he could be hiding something to spare your feelings or because he is scared of losing you. Gosh, I don't even know what side I'm on. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sauron1: 11:48pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
glorina: The more you look, the less you see. U have to lie at one point or the other to be diplomatic. Thatz the world we live in. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by DaPhoenix(f): 11:50pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~: lol In that case, we are going to find a doctor out-of-town. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Moonstone(f): 11:50pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix:I was going to say that too but what could he be hiding to spare my feelings? That he cheated on me with some girl? If I find that out, i will raise hell with him. That he lied about something before we started dating? I will kill him. I would rather a man be a man and step up. If you're going to do something wrong like getting drunk and waking up on some other girl, you might as well be a man and bear the consequences. If he was scared of losing me, he would tell me before I find out because NOTHING is hidden on this earth. Somehow, lies come back to haunt you most times. |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by tope2000(f): 11:52pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
Lies shudnt be in same sentence with love but i think every1 shud be allow to keep somethings to themselves |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by Sauron1: 11:53pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
DaPhoenix: I only use ma personal GP. He knows me more than i know meself so doctor out-of-town is a no-no. DaPhoenix, confess now. . . . .do u have any kurukere ailment?? |
Re: Lies, Secrets & Love by doyin13(m): 11:55pm On Mar 07, 2009 |
~Sauron~: hehehe. . .he knows you more than you know yourself. He must be an exorcist. |
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