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| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by UduWudu: 12:20pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
@spikedcylinder The way you are relentlessly determined to tear down her self esteem is ridiculous.Unfortunately youre right. But its her choice, not mine  Woman, who doesnt care for self appearance, - isn't it loathsome ? |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Udu Wudu: Nope. What’s loathsome is that you have absolutely no respect for your lady. And for pete’s sakes who are you to complain about how attractive she is and not. Guys like you take out their low self esteem on the unfortunate girl beside them. The last thing you should be bothered about in a woman is the way she dresses. If she keep herself clean and doesn’t dress indecently why are you giving yourself headache? Or maybe somewhere in your twisted mind you think her dressing fashionably is a way to boost your own obviously low image. OMG! The things we ladies have to put up with in the name of ‘MEN’  |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by spikedcylinder: 12:38pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Thankfully, the girl posted pictures of herself so its obvious Mr Udu Wudu is talking crap. |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by unfaded(m): 12:52pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
saw the chic's picture, really no guy would want his girl dressing indecently, although, he would'tmind looking down some other guy's girl's blouse |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by minute(f): 12:56pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
What a delightful little moronic story If he keeps belittling you like this,you might want to break up with him |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by UduWudu: 1:01pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Ujujoan: OMG! Its so tragic Here another one  Lady, if you dont care about your appearance and how you are dressed, then I donc care at all! If you do not respect yourself, then I dont respect you at all! If you dont want to be a woman, then tell me, what do you expect from men? to leave you alone? Here you are - youre left  |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Udu Wudu: Trust me honey, I love the way I dress and it’s not just because I feel comfortable in them, it’s because they happen to be the very best. But isn’t it a bit troubling that a guy that has little or no input in my life will wake up one morning and decide to tell me that he doesn’t like the way I dress? Of all the things to worry about!! Where is the love then? You are supposed to love her for who she is, not for who you want her to be. It’s also wrong of you to burden her with your own insecurities because I saw her pictures and her dressing is okay! Face it dear, putting her down is not going to make you more of a man.  |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by UduWudu: 1:28pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Ujujoan: Trust you sweety, no doubt you know how to dress well  But even talking about is funny  You shouldnt need to be told about how to dress to be attractive for your BF dont you think so? "to love her as she is" - blablabla I dont want my GF to look ugly - appearance is important to me! If I'm complaining, it means ive got reasons. When shes undressed shes perfect! When shes dressed, plz take me away from here |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by IronButt(f): 1:37pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
i dont want to make the Drama of this whole sh*t, but i 'm going to post my pictures. if you are blind, it is not my problem. your big problem is your low-selfesteem. you just don't deserve me and deal with it. i am totaly satisfied with my appearance (it gave me god and i am happy that i am healthy ) and i really don't give a sh*t what r u thinking about me.      |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by StellaN3(f): 1:38pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
the way u know that will be ok in ur sight in the sight of ur patnar try to put it on |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Udu Wudu: That my point exactly . . . appearance is important to you because you have a small mind. You know she’s beautiful inside but you are worried because of what people will say when they see you with a girl you think is not well dressed. If you are so sure she’s beautiful, why are you worried about how she dresses? |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by sheyee(m): 1:55pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Ur BF is absolutely right to complain about the way u dress, U guys are not just going out for the fun of it but to work on each other weakeness/shortcoming Dont fight him because of dressing, looks immature |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
na wa o! |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by UduWudu: 2:33pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Ujujoan: Agree, except one thing: I dont care at all what others will think. I personnaly do not like. even if only two of us were in the world, I would complain  P.S. Isn't she cute? I adore her, but I cant bear myself well, when she willfuly dresses like a real witch  |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by UduWudu: 2:50pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
And whats the worst and what I cant adapt to is that she doesnt pay attention to her appearance she doesnt want to look nice, she doesnt care, tell me, is it normal? honestly plz |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by mania2009(m): 3:05pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
@Iron Butt you really look quite cute you mind if we get to know each other mind not that,  don't ever let him bring you down. People with low self esteem are sometimes also sadistic as it appears to be in the case of your ex-BF. He is down the pit of hell and wants someone to be with. you happen to be the unfortunate but available person to drag down with himself. Be grateful the relationship finally hit the rock. I bet he feels bitter in the heart except that he will never admit it any way how do we really get to know each other better, a pretty gurl like u deserve a nice and caring guy like me.  In any case, that sadist does not deserve you |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by UduWudu: 3:12pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
@mania2009 Tnx a lot man All females support her and accuse me of this shit Thought I could rely on Nigerian guys, realy dissaponted Wish you had the same shit in the future |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by Keegan: 3:29pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
[/Should I change for him or should I keep upsetting him?] |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by busygirl(f): 3:50pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
is it just me because i don't see anything wrong with the way the poster dresses  |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by denony(m): 3:56pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
chei this forum don turn to family problem solving ooooo i want to know cos' i get my own complain. But i hope all the bad mouth people (basket mouth) wey dey here no go tell me my world Pls, i beg make una no yab or redirect my complaint, una hear? |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by jaguda(m): 4:09pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
@Iron butt, i am wondering, is ur man a black man, african? sure say dis girl go get ready replacements for here, for me, the guy no serious. make e go sharialand. |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by Ascents(m): 4:16pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Look l don't think there's anything wrong with your dressing; your boyfriend is just being insecure, and doesn't know how to handle it, a lady as matured as you're should be allowed to the best way comfortable for herself; and never to dress the way another person wants. Besides if you dress like another person who is gonna dress like u? what l mean is if u live another person's life who's gonna live your's. You've gotta figure out a way to sseparatethe real men whose ggattheir inner game and security issues intact from the wuss boys who don't know how to keep a real lady. if he can't handle that, send your pix to me, let me check you out if you half as hot as the pix before! [flash=200,200][/flash] |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by Ascents(m): 4:30pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Look girl, l think ur BF is just being insecure about loosing you to other boys and he doesn't know how to handle that. Besides if u dress the way u are not comfortable with then you are just not going to be confident of yourself around people and that will lead to other weird things like following the crowd to gain approval. What l'm trying to say is you should find a way to figure out the real men whose gat their inner game and security issues handled from the needy, insecure wuss bags who ain't gat no game. real men like me are very hard to find but, you're just too good for him, yeah leave him, leave him and find a hard guy like me in yo area! and don't be thinking 'bout dat wuss bag no more |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by fesse(f): 4:51pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Your dressing is cute babe, unless your guy has started looking outside and looking for a way of break-up. Even my boss in the office can't stop me of wearing jeans to work. That's why i hate banking work, always in/on suit. I only dress officially only on mondays and tuesdays, jeans have other days. My b/f is used to it so he buys them. |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by yme1(f): 4:53pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
ah ah make we drop this thread now |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by UduWudu: 5:01pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
This is already turning into madness an comedy @iron butt Why dont you take on those jeans, boots and shirt, take a picture and post here? Lets show to the whole Nigerian world where we started from this arguement P.S. Havent seen you so well dressed since April, honestly. Sure they would like your fashion |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by IronButt(f): 5:18pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
@Udu Wudu hey, boy, leave me alone plz. you are sick, check your mental health. |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by DaPhoenix(f): 5:20pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
And so it begins. . . . just so you both know, many of us are NOT interested in your little soap opera. We saw it coming ages ago so go ahead and keep your little rerun to yourselves. |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by IronButt(f): 5:21pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
pls. close this topic, or delete it! |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
IronButt: Why Tired of having a fight with your BF in a public forum? |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by UduWudu: 5:25pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
me var avadmyofi she martla avadmyofo? leave me alone rom ambob, xo, ai nigeriis gavlit gekontaqtebi |
| Re: Is My Boyfriend Right To Complain About The Way I Dress? by MrCrackles(m): 5:27pm On Mar 10, 2009 |
Na wa ooo! |
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