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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jul 15, 2015
HIGHESTPOPORI:
You go sabi give BJ,ur Husband would be lucky
Oh ye devil, get behind me.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Timijo(m): 9:01pm On Jul 15, 2015
oseod:
.

Woman, I understand your predicament...
Not every woman is comfortable giving blowjôbs, marriage shouldn't always be about what the man wants....marriage is more about understanding


To Every woman bashing op here angry angry

If your husband told you to lick/suck his anus (some men have some weird sexual fantasies......true!!!)
Or hand fisting your anus or pų$$y
Or better still whip u like a goat when having šex with u (50 shades of gray style)

Would you agree just to save your marriage!!!!
Would you!!!!!!

Liberally bias crowd ass-lickers angry angry

Shame on all of you....

Just because blowjobş have become a generally accepted sex style(or whatever) doesn't mean everbody is okay with it

BTW I see nothing wrong in blowjobš

But the woman doesn't feel comfortable with it....shey its now her fault ni?

The man can go outside to get blôwjőbș since his wife didnt give him
The woman can also go outside to find love since her husband is denying her nau? No be so?

Woman

Best thing is to talk to your husband to know the limits of your sexuality
(The ones you or him can accept and the ones you can't,

And also to know the principles you are willing to compromise....then work on this, and you can still have a great sexual relationship together, even better than those who give blôwjobś)

Many marriages that collapsed, the wives were good at sucking cucumber
this is the best reply so far. God bless you for giving this great counsel to the woman.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jul 15, 2015
Pamelayoung:


I really don't get it, shldn't they ve talked it over during their courtship

That was where they got it all wrong....I believe their courtship was devoid of anything "sex" so they didn't bring up this topic at all.....

I feel, the man was at fault.....he was not confident enough to express himself sexually during courtship....
....I mean........I don't think he started watching porn after marriage, meaning he probably had those fantasies during courtship...

He was probably afraid to express his sexuality because his wife is a "strong christian woman" or very conservative......he was afraid of how she would react, or how she would look at him...
"She would probably look at me as a bad boy, or ungodly"

He failed to realise that this issue would still crop up sometime in the marriage.....
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jul 15, 2015
Well done, everyone should live their principles; you should live yours and your husband should live his...if you refuse to pleasure your husband because of your principles, then your husband should seek his pleasure else where as a matter of principle too...principle jam principle what a boring woman
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 9:03pm On Jul 15, 2015
I hope self-righteousness does not kill you. I also hope over-Jesusism does not harm your marriage. Anyway,you are missing.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Sierusvirus(m): 9:05pm On Jul 15, 2015
"чou don't want mouthaction b/c чou speak in tongues which чou don't like ( чou saw porn films he has n still told чou y he was watching dem to satisfy чou to avoid чou complaining he is not performing) and he is not interested in making love to чou cos чou want to get pregnant" watch porn with him 2 so he will develop d interest to hve sex with чou and get pregnnt. He wants mouthaction and чou want sex both comes under sex. Чou can't tell me чou haven't watched or masturbated b4 in ur life or r чou a virgin? both of чou r victims of both stop pretending. I rest my case
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jul 15, 2015
Chanteh:


If you are religious enough you will know it's not wise to ask naira landers for an advice on this kind of issue
SMH

Op I love mouth action die o, but lemme tell you something. of all the comments and wicked advice Nairaland Oloshos and He-goats have been advising you, listen to only this gal Chanteh opinion I quoted. Never ever bring your problem to Nairaland and seek for advices.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by being(m): 9:05pm On Jul 15, 2015
Since u r a Christian, d best solution is a Christian one. For d porn part, u can pray for him and discuss with him. For d mouth action part, it still boils down to u asking dt his heart b changed
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jul 15, 2015
EggovinMma:



Awwwwwwwwwww!
Celi Whaaaaaaaaaat $$$$$#@&*$?t!
It's good though to first take a loooooong break sometimes.



But right now chick,*dancing and singing fela's "Me and you no dey for the same category"around around the room .
Believe me nne, na since this year oooo, I don tire abeg no be competition and beside no award to win but I dey pity my next ******zips mouth jooor****
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by saintol(m): 9:06pm On Jul 15, 2015
Your husband is like... going... going... just hoping you won't have something like... gone!!! By that time, you go come dey cry like ' egbere wey dem collect hin mat'. Abi you be Badoo ni?
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by benjaminiyke(m): 9:08pm On Jul 15, 2015
XuteSleeks:


I think she is telling the truth. Here's another truth...the only way he's gon be saved from it is by deliverance. There is a spirit behind porn.
Secondly, whether you give in to his mouth action plea or not he will still cheat on you not cos he doesn't love you; in fact he might be deeply in love with you but like I said it is a spirit and the actual sin is not just in watching it but what it drives one to do.
Summary: Intensify your prayers that he will one day seek deliverance and be a loving wife despite all. It might encourage his conscience to judge him.
Crap....why you all recommending deliverance for people who indulge in Porn,Masturbation,Pre-marital Sex,lesbianism etc....90% of humans indulge in one sexual act or the other which does not glorify God. So are you going to deliver everyone on earth from sexual immorality? JESUS died for we "IMPERFECT HUMANS" and our sins have been forgiven even before we commit them, his exceeding GRACE/unmerited favour abounds with us as long as we believe his our lord and personal savior. The only thing we need to do is to trust in God and pour our heart to him knowing he will help us break free from that addiction,you can not do it by yourself and you don't need any deliverance. What you need is to trust God and ask him for divine help. Thanks

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by adaxxy: 9:13pm On Jul 15, 2015
No be everybody like mouthaction as for me I no like mouth action and I dont like to be given head make no catch mouth cancer or vigi...na infection. P.E.R.I.OD
Must we give mouth action undecided ruubish.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Gurgle(f): 9:17pm On Jul 15, 2015
I'm sorry to sound crass but

You have used your mouth for many other sins, many of which you probably cant even remember

This one is not a sin, since you are married to the chap

I implore you to reconsider lest you disturb your young marriage for no good reason

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by nganjiwa2014(m): 9:20pm On Jul 15, 2015
EroticAngelina:
Like seriously!!!! FVCKING QUIT THE 'HOLY' ACT!! angry

He is nt asking u to do something bad. u guys are married. u should learn to please ur husband and stop pretending.
If u keep this 'I am too holy to do that' act, sex will become boring for u guys and he will start looking outsyd.

Buh if ur not comfortable with giving ur husband mouth action, no problem.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jul 15, 2015
softysparky:

Believe me nne, na since this year oooo, I don tire abeg no be competition and beside no award to win but I dey pity my next ******zips mouth jooor****


shocked.
You strong o.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by timnarogcy1(f): 9:21pm On Jul 15, 2015
God bless you sister in d lord, am also a born again christian born and baptised in the spirit of the Lord Jesus! You know what? Please send me your husbands number let me help u talk to him, but only if he hava money then I promise u will never see him again, yin go see correct BJ. Mtcheeeeeeew mumu!
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jul 15, 2015
Wait na
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by meccuno: 9:23pm On Jul 15, 2015
Mumu woman........
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by emperorzz(m): 9:24pm On Jul 15, 2015
Drinkwater:
What a tall tale
nigga ! i'v been short.. grin
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by harry509: 9:24pm On Jul 15, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:



Posted anonymously on

http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/140/i-cant-believe-my-husband-is-asking-me-for-this
lolz dis is vry 4uni. We afrikan's we pretend a lot and take christainity 2 far. Madam learn 2 love ur husband vry well ooh, b4 satan ntroduce him 2 a sexy lady outside. U kw wat dat means if he dos dat.































He meant begin 2 dump ur ASS wen it cum's 2 sex thing. I mean fcvkin tins.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by anumide(f): 9:26pm On Jul 15, 2015
oseod:
.

Woman, I understand your predicament...
Not every woman is comfortable giving mouthaction, marriage shouldn't always be about what the man wants....marriage is more about understanding


To Every woman bashing op here angry angry

If your husband told you to lick/suck his anus (some men have some weird sexual fantasies......true!!!)
Or hand fisting your anus or vaginus
Or better still whip u like a goat when having šex with u (50 shades of gray style)

Would you agree just to save your marriage!!!!
Would you!!!!!!

Liberally bias crowd ass-lickers angry angry


Note
Those fetishes I posted above might be a big deal to some of you, but is not a big deal to some other women (e.g, porn actresses)

Same thing here, mouthaction doesn't sound a big deal to some of you, but is a big deal to some other women

We all have some principles or doctrines we aren't willing to compromise,
So why attack the woman?

Shame on all of you....

Just because mouthaction have become a generally accepted sex style(or whatever) doesn't mean everbody is okay with it

BTW I see nothing wrong in mouthaction

But the woman doesn't feel comfortable with it....shey its now her fault ni?

The man can go outside to get mouthaction since his wife didnt give him
The woman can also go outside to find love since her husband is denying her nau? No be so?

Woman

Best thing is to talk to your husband to know the limits of your sexuality
(The ones you or him can accept and the ones you can't,

And also to know the principles you are willing to compromise....then work on this, and you can still have a great sexual relationship together, even better than those who give mouthaction)

Many marriages that collapsed, the wives were good at sucking cucumber
shocked
oseod:
.

Woman, I understand your predicament...
Not every woman is comfortable giving mouthaction, marriage shouldn't always be about what the man wants....marriage is more about understanding


To Every woman bashing op here angry angry

If your husband told you to lick/suck his anus (some men have some weird sexual fantasies......true!!!)
Or hand fisting your anus or vaginus
Or better still whip u like a goat when having šex with u (50 shades of gray style)

Would you agree just to save your marriage!!!!
Would you!!!!!!

Liberally bias crowd ass-lickers angry angry


Note
Those fetishes I posted above might be a big deal to some of you, but is not a big deal to some other women (e.g, porn actresses)

Same thing here, mouthaction doesn't sound a big deal to some of you, but is a big deal to some other women

We all have some principles or doctrines we aren't willing to compromise,
So why attack the woman?

Shame on all of you....

Just because mouthaction have become a generally accepted sex style(or whatever) doesn't mean everbody is okay with it

BTW I see nothing wrong in mouthaction

But the woman doesn't feel comfortable with it....shey its now her fault ni?

The man can go outside to get mouthaction since his wife didnt give him
The woman can also go outside to find love since her husband is denying her nau? No be so?

Woman

Best thing is to talk to your husband to know the limits of your sexuality
(The ones you or him can accept and the ones you can't,

And also to know the principles you are willing to compromise....then work on this, and you can still have a great sexual relationship together, even better than those who give mouthaction)

Many marriages that collapsed, the wives were good at sucking cucumber
OMG!!!!
This is classic. I wish I can give you a big hug right now
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by emperorzz(m): 9:28pm On Jul 15, 2015
So u talk all dis loooooong story make pple for tell u say u don dey mad...me, I no go worry. Ee clear say u go soon carry the part two of the story come disturb us again for here...make I tell u sorry in advance
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by otipoju(m): 9:30pm On Jul 15, 2015
Even Jesus said to give unto Ceaser what is Ceasers and to God what is God's.

I hope you dont kiss at all as well.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by janco: 9:31pm On Jul 15, 2015
Give to Caesar what is Caesar's.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Jmechanism(m): 9:32pm On Jul 15, 2015
benjaminiyke:
Crap....why you all recommending deliverance for people who indulge in Porn,Masturbation,Pre-marital Sex,lesbianism etc....90% of humans indulge in one sexual act or the other which does not glorify God. So are you going to deliver everyone on earth from sexual immorality? JESUS died for we "IMPERFECT HUMANS" and our sins have been forgiven even before we commit them, his exceeding GRACE/unmerited favour abounds with us as long as we believe his our lord and personal savior. The only thing we need to do is to trust in God and pour our heart to him knowing he will help us break free from that addiction,you can not do it by yourself and you don't need any deliverance. What you need is to trust God and ask him for divine help. Thanks
THIS IS WER U MISS IT. SHOULD WILL CONTINUE TO SIN ND LET GRACE ABIDE. GOD FORBID. ROMAN 6 VS 1 ND 2.NO YE 2DA WHOM U YEILD URSELF TO SELVE. ROMAN 6 VS 15 ND 16.SORRY TO SAY. SAY D TRUTH IN LOVE, WAGES OF SIN IS BOTH PHYSICAL ND SPIRITUAL DEATH. ROMAN 6 VS 23.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by shegxi(m): 9:37pm On Jul 15, 2015
Religion and government is d biggest organised fraud of dis century............
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jul 15, 2015
timnarogcy1:
God bless you sister in d lord, am also a born again christian born and baptised in the spirit of the Lord Jesus! You know what? Please send me your husbands number let me help u talk to him, but only if he hava money then I promise u will never see him again, yin go see correct BJ. Mtcheeeeeeew mumu!
lol...... crazy somebody
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by dunamis007(m): 9:37pm On Jul 15, 2015
falconey:

Hmmm since you are both strong in the spirit as you pointed out, why not reason with him in the spiritual way. With few quotes from the bible it should subdue his enthusiasm about mouthaction.

Advice to you : perhaps you should try something new to spice up your mating with him. New styles and all.

Right or wrong if I were a woman, I would do it.
To me is not wrong since you are married, is Fresh to fresh and Spirit to spirit
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jul 15, 2015
I'm sure u haven't tried kissing him with your holy mouth because it's only used for prayers
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Olivialight(f): 9:42pm On Jul 15, 2015
I think the plenty church thingy made you have some kinda expectation from him, it prevented you people from having even discussions on the intimacy matter that is why u people didn't at least agree if it will go down well with both of you or not. And d way everyone is shouting about it like B.J is a must do thing,not everyone like that so is a matter of choice and how much u want to compromise. The thought of it is awkward but I believe it will ease with time. My dear try and reach him half way since you are married to him,maybe he should show you how by doing the B.J to u first maybe it will be able to change your mind. Good luck

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by blesoh(f): 9:42pm On Jul 15, 2015
Chai iyami! Madam give him anyhw he want it,infact invent ur own position sef join,pls leave spking in tongues in this matter.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by SOLARPOWER1(f): 9:45pm On Jul 15, 2015
oseod:
.

Woman, I understand your predicament...
Not every woman is comfortable giving mouthaction, marriage shouldn't always be about what the man wants....marriage is more about understanding


To Every woman bashing op here angry angry

If your husband told you to lick/suck his anus (some men have some weird sexual fantasies......true!!!)
Or hand fisting your anus or vaginus
Or better still whip u like a goat when having šex with u (50 shades of gray style)

Would you agree just to save your marriage!!!!
Would you!!!!!!

Liberally bias crowd ass-lickers angry angry


Note
Those fetishes I posted above might be a big deal to some of you, but is not a big deal to some other women (e.g, porn actresses)

Same thing here, mouthaction doesn't sound a big deal to some of you, but is a big deal to some other women

We all have some principles or doctrines we aren't willing to compromise,
So why attack the woman?

Shame on all of you....

Just because mouthaction have become a generally accepted sex style(or whatever) doesn't mean everbody is okay with it

BTW I see nothing wrong in mouthaction

But the woman doesn't feel comfortable with it....shey its now her fault ni?

The man can go outside to get mouthaction since his wife didnt give him
The woman can also go outside to find love since her husband is denying her nau? No be so?

Woman

Best thing is to talk to your husband to know the limits of your sexuality
(The ones you or him can accept and the ones you can't,

And also to know the principles you are willing to compromise....then work on this, and you can still have a great sexual relationship together, even better than those who give mouthaction)

Many marriages that collapsed, the wives were good at sucking cucumber


@oseod may God bless you for coming to the rescue of the poster. The truth is : the husband is acting like a big baby who is not sensitive to d emotional and psychological needs of his wife

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