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| When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kilokeys(m): 5:32pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Being a jerk and a brutally honest guy.. Someone should tell if i am overreacting. Was talking with my bae two days ago. And i sensed she wasn't okay. I tried all i could to make her talk.. And i was offended by her reply... "i dont wanna talk abt it".. Tsk tsk... |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kinglekan: 5:34pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Well give her some space, she would come around and talk about it. Babes been switching moods like tampons since the dragon age.  2 Likes |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
She didn't want to lie to you because that thing wasn't something she could tell you. 2 Likes |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by XavierBlue(m): 5:36pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Accept my condolences op. XavierBlue 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Nobody: 5:38pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kilokeys: She obviously doesn't want to talk about what's worrying her. Maybe it's something that doesn't concern you, or something she is ashamed to tell you. Don't force her, just give her space, in time she will come around. Trust me, it's nothing to worry yourself over. 3 Likes |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Nobody: 5:39pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
lol |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by ilotriouzAY(m): 5:43pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Oro ta ni ki baba ma gbo,baba ni o pada pari e |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kilokeys(m): 5:47pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
misssclassy: u know for we guys... when we decide to give our relationship all we've got . we do so. i cant think of anything i wouldnt tell her. cos its silly asking her how she feels and hearing her say ''fine''. when i know there is something she hasnt said |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Cutehector(m): 5:52pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Wen I told her I don't wanna talk about it.. She stoppd talkn to me for months... I guess she got pissed Am I wicked ladies? Should I have talked to her about it? |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kilokeys(m): 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Cutehector: i dey craze wella o.. she no sabi... if i start my own drama .. she go run. i am trying to be at my best behaviour, be a gentleman, zero-cheating and all its like we are on a ''pause''. |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Cutehector(m): 5:58pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kilokeys:sometimes wen u try to be d good guy, u just get played..... I wonder why a gurl who is so close to u wil say "I dnt wana talk abt it" who does she wana tel it to before.. I tot a bf and gf supose to confide in each oda 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kilokeys(m): 5:58pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kinglekan: patience shey? i fitnt o my head wan tear.. cos i have tot of the worst, and i have the capacity to forgive/understand the worst. |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kilokeys(m): 5:59pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Cutehector:my brother e tire me o. if u ask me , na who i go ask? i am like , '' so what are we really doing''? |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Sleekyshuga(f): 6:05pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kilokeys:My Kilo is troubled ..I believe whatever it is would be sorted out. Just bear with her.. She may have her reason(s) for not voicing out yet (maybe, cos she wouldn't want to lie to you). I do it sometimes to boo.. It's natural with ladies but whenever I come around, I find myself telling him the problem without him asking me.. Don't put your mind on anything negative.. Just stay positive, and do something for yourself to kill the thinking, stress, etc.. At the end, it may really be nothing ..1 Like |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Sleekyshuga(f): 6:06pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kilokeys:Give her little space  ..Why your blood dey hot like this? She'll tell you.. Don't force it from her. |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Juxtified(m): 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kilokeys:You better leave her alone. If you force her to talk, then be ready to listen and do what she says. Its a trap 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Sleekyshuga(f): 6:10pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Cutehector:Calm down na.. No need for the assumptions yet.. Everyone has got a different personality, and a manner at which they approach things.. Things you can easily take in, another may not at the same speed.. Let's encourage him.. If she truly loves him, she WILL let him in on whatever the problem is.. Just a little time wouldn't hurt.. |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by naijaboiy: 6:12pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Then you let her be with the problem alone. Girls and their silly emotional problems. When you don't disturb them now they'll say you don't care. Abeg move on,,if she's ready she'll open up.  |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kilokeys(m): 6:13pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga: so u are saying lovers can nver be hundred percent open to each other all the time |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kilokeys(m): 6:18pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
naijaboiy: i could be very nonchalant ill be perceived as insensitive hmm i just dont think its fair to open up to ur patner only when u wanna.. its so uncool |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kinglekan: 6:20pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kilokeys: Bros calm down oo, nor allow the babe increase your bp oo. It could just be something that happened and really upset her and she hasn't brought herself to be able to talk about it. Just don't get irked by her refusal to talk to you about it now. When she is in the right mood she would definitely talk to you about it. The fact that she acknowledges that there is something wrong means she wants you to know. 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by naijaboiy: 6:22pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kilokeys:But at least you've asked. Not like you didn't. Bro,,you also deserve to be happy. You shouldn't force her to tell you what's on her mind. Girls know their own problem and you can't understand them. If she says she doesn't want to talk about it you let the issue die down and move on like nothing happened. But she shouldn't come back later trying to blackmail you emotionally by saying you didn't care. |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by kinglekan: 6:22pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga: Exactly |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Sleekyshuga(f): 6:24pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kilokeys:You are getting it all wrong cos you are over working yourself.. This attitude, is it a new one? Or that's the way she has been? Have you done anything to stop it? Did you encourage her to tell you the problem or you wanted it forced outta her mouth? You should know your girlie better than me.. Different traits for different people.. Maybe, you haven't given her enough assurance, hence, her fear(s).. This has nothing to do with openness yet.. All I am saying is, give her a little time.. If she loves you, she will tell you... 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Sleekyshuga(f): 6:25pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kinglekan:Seriously, he is taking it too far.. Most times, when you ignore a lady, she will be at her best.. |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by jnrbayano(m): 6:25pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kilokeys: You have not overreacted by trying to find out what bothers her. She hasn't committed a crime by saying, "I don't wanna talk about it". It will be a crime against you if: 1) You are the subject of what she doesn't wanna talk about and yet she is adamant. 2) She can confide in another person (that is neither a relation nor a close associate which you know of their platonic rapport before now) this same thing she doesn't wanna talk about. Etc... She may need time to open up whatever. Have you considered that also? 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by naijaboiy: 6:25pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:That's the annoying thing. |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Sleekyshuga(f): 6:27pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Hahahahaha... But that's the truth.. At the end, it may be nothing sensible... We like drama too much jare  .. |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
tunnamania11: so true, if I don't want to lie I stay mute |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by naijaboiy: 6:29pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:I know. Na una be Queens for that aspect.  |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Cutehector:what was "It"  |
| Re: When She Says, "I Don't Want To Talk About It" by Sleekyshuga(f): 6:34pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
naijaboiy:**winks** |
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