Every man or woman has a bad and ugly side. When you get married, just consider it that you are getting married to the latent, hidden, bad side/character of your loving, sweetheart, darling, sugar-in-your-tea spouse, NOT the good side only, so that when the bad side finally surfaces, because it will definitely surface, no matter how long, then you say, ''heck, bad side, I got married to you. I have been expecting you ever since. Let us move on'' This way, your marriage will not be shaken to the foundation towards divorce, because you have given room for this shock. Marriage is for better, for worse, otherwise you do not have any business/reason to go into it. simply stay single.