'Testing' does more damage than good. Everyone has their flaws. You need to love the good things about your partner 1st so you can overlook their imperfections. If your hell-bent on feeding your pessimism concerning the relationship, then you'll find what your looking for.

Most girls will invite their very sexy friend over to 'test' him. We are talking a 2-week relationship where he doesn't even know her last name. He has nothing to fight for yet. The way he'll eye-fvck the friend, she won't sleep that night.

Yes

No

Yeap

Not necessary, just love your partner the way our great grand parents did.

It's not worth it...what goes around comes around.

starlingslimnet:
You sound like a morongenoric impostor

Bro no offence, but I have tried searching for the meaning of that word but couldn't find anything....

Testing doesn't work.I prefer to do a research about her activities.Both past and present. It had worked fine for me.It's only for those who can control their emotions.

that y I do tell my girl that if she ever test me I will intentionally fail everytime cos am smart as to read her motive to know beforehand that am being tested

Immediately I saw ur headline, my mind went to...'This dude wants to test virginity again?'

Always hv it at d back of ur mind that people change & U cant make conclusion about an individual with what u seeing now.

Trust remains a double edged sword
She must pass series of my test before I could

In fact, this topic links to a post I read today about checking your partner's phone behind their back. What's the deal? That is the basis of mistrust in relationships. Read the post here - http://thenakedconvos.com/meme-files-inspectyour-gadget/

Only test! Na microphone? This op get time 4 testing testing 1,2,3! Or maybe na exam or jamb?

Depending on situations there is no need to 'actually' test one's partner. Habbits have a way of telling us all we need to know. In some cases though when someone seems too good to be true or a hidden warning at the back of the mind keeps ringing, a good look from the person's external surroundings like friends and family might fill in the gap.

Above all it is better to look well before jumping in. If the partner vexes about being checked up a simple reply of "I want to trust you fully without having to look over my shoulder and before I take this leap I need to be sure." A sensible person would be appreciative of this. A silly person would take offence.

You don't need to test people, people will always prove themselves.

Trust...is transient,every1 is capable of making mistakes,no1 knows 2mrw,find sme1 worth d stress n do d best u can 2enjoy it...

Dennygirl:
I no go test am nt becos i trust him bt 4 dat tricky feeling that the outcome wouldnt be favourable,abeg i no nid headdic.k.

that is what you need, just contact me if you get the drill

No! When you test someone without their consent, they are most likely to fail.

But I see nothing bad with some random subconscious test.

I don't need to be tested to be trusted.
I will just let you know am not to be trusted.
Foreal I can't be trusted with Fanny.

And if you still want to go ahead and test me...Please don't test me with the likes of Rolly83, Softysparky,ShayneHarvey or MissCastle. Will definitely not pass the test. I can assure you on that.

What's the point testing a FannySwindler.
Testing is not a tool for Trusting.
By the way never trust nobody. Just accept people the way they are or move on. No be by force.

Twaci:
Trust is an important factor in every relationship. With trust comes commitment and loyalty. But from the experiences I hear now and then, I understand that though we claim to trust our partners, we tend to test them. To see if their love is true.

Some tests with little things like, "I will tell him am sick to see his reaction....". While others go extreme, say like, asking their friends or strangers to try their partners, to see if they would fall.

Now I have to say that some these tests actually turn out good as they help the 'testing partner' know if the 'tested' is worth their time and affection. But I have also noticed that majority of these tests lead to breakup. For example, the 'tested' might fail or the 'tested' may pass but will be disappointed in the 'testee' or..... A lot of things can go wrong.

Enough of my opinions. What do u think? Do we TRUST or TEST before we love?

CC: lalasticlala

YOU DON'T TEST YOUR PARTNER, YOU ONLY STUDY HIM OR HER TO KNOW THE TYPE OF CHARACTER YOU NEEDED FROM HIM.

LOVE IS NOT ALL ABOUT TESTING THIS AND TESTING THAT. THAT'S FOOLISHNESS

SHALL, WHO I AM TO GIVE ANY NAIJA WOMEN ADVICE, WHEN YOU ARE ABOUT 30-35 YOU WILL UNDERSTAND HOW THINGS WORK.

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naijaboiy:
[b]Yes we'll test ourselves.





















We'll both undergo Blood tests,,genotype,,Hiv and other sexually related infections test .

That's the only way i'll be able to trust that I can go skin to skin without any problem.

Any other test is considered unnecessary and irrelevant,,therefore I proclaim it null and void!

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Taylor86:
my GF should test me at her peril


thunder wan come fire my GF she carry girl wey fine pass her test

wen i no dey craze?

b4 my very eyes dem remove water-proof from gala

Rev. father should be ready to receive my confession

LolllllsSss!!!! BADOOOOOO!Badest Guy Ever Liveth

Test at your peril.. Try using your best friend as the test person and watch her advance it with him. Hehe

Twaci:
Trust is an important factor in every relationship. With trust comes commitment and loyalty. But from the experiences I hear now and then, I understand that though we claim to trust our partners, we tend to test them. To see if their love is true.

Some tests with little things like, "I will tell him am sick to see his reaction....". While others go extreme, say like, asking their friends or strangers to try their partners, to see if they would fall.

Now I have to say that some these tests actually turn out good as they help the 'testing partner' know if the 'tested' is worth their time and affection. But I have also noticed that majority of these tests lead to breakup. For example, the 'tested' might fail or the 'tested' may pass but will be disappointed in the 'testee' or..... A lot of things can go wrong.

Enough of my opinions. What do u think? Do we TRUST or TEST before we love?

CC: lalasticlala

Hw have u been switx? We really need 2 talk " 08135031951"

BANGERLEE1:
It will help in some cases but I think its has more disadvantages!

care to explain?

Why does this topic/question keep getting re-tested

How do you test someone without tellin the person he or she is being tested, until you receive a negative outcome. If they pass you don't tell em they are being tested, only if they fail. You dey write exam without knowing you dey write exam? Love is not rational so test is a waste of time. Just have to trust with caution and hope with faith.

Not bad,but no perfection in humanity. You shouldnt expect 100 percent perfection from him or her. I think 70 percent is ok.

Test ke

Abi just Believe.

How many of them do u want to tes[/color]t

Both sexes are very wise now,some will fall and some will get caught in the web

Let's pray n believe. O[color=#990000]