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9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by zyzx1(m): 2:31pm On Jul 17, 2015
In most cases, funny women are under-
appreciated.

Most men hide from funny women out of
insecurity, or the fear of being overshadowed – but
that’s not as much reflective of good-humored
women, as it is weak men.

Appreciate a woman for her ability to spark a laugh
– or even a smile – during those times when you
wouldn’t be doing so, otherwise. Life doesn’t have
to be that serious, folks, despite the fact that most
people enjoy making it appear this way.

I mean, the majority of the sh*t I say – or write, for
that matter – is so tongue in cheek that you’d be
shocked I could even pronounce words correctly.
For this reason, I’m not intimidated by funny
women; in fact, I’m constantly looking for someone
like me to — I don’t know — sit around and laugh
at life with.

Looks fade, trends come and go. Who’s “cool”
today, probably won’t be “cool,” tomorrow. A sense
of humor, on the other hand, has no expiration date.

By finding a girl who you appreciate for her
personality, you’ll provide a layer of attraction that
won’t fluctuate from month to month – or
Instagram filter to Instagram filter, just the same.

There’s nothing sexier than a funny girl because –
of all the personality traits you could look for in a
girl – why wouldn’t you strive for the one that keeps
you smiling the most?

That’s how I feel, anyway. Here are nine reasons
why you should always date the girl who can make
you laugh.

9. She’s intelligent

When you meet a witty girl, it’s hard not to
recognize how smart she is behind her big smile.
When a woman has the ability to make you laugh
consistently, it’s not by accident, trust me – it’s
deliberate – and I’m sure she’s well aware of the
power she has, at times, over you.

She knows how to critique things without being
offensive; she understands the right and wrong
times to make light of situations, and you could
never confuse her sense of humor for
impoliteness.

She forces you to think, and the ability to provoke
thought – even through humor – proves that she’s
aware of things, and not just another close-minded
product of our generation. It’s almost impossible to
grow bored of a girl who forces you to think.

8. She doesn’t need designer heels to be attractive

There are some girls who live and die by their
physical appearance. While, sure, you might throw
them eyes from across the room – often, when you
finally find the balls to approach to them – you
realize they were more desirable to look at than to
speak to.

It’s almost impossible to invest any long-term
emotion into women like that, especially when
considering the delicacy of our physical
appearances.

Regardless of what they’re wearing, or what filter
they choose to drown out their Instagram photos,
women with senses of humor always will capture
your attention – whenever they feel like it.

7. She’s real

Nowadays, so many women are obsessed with
pushing this false impression of who they are. They
do things for “the Gram,” and forget that “the
Gram” isn’t real f*cking life – it’s a social media
platform – and regardless of how many “likes” they
receive on there, they rarely translate into real-
world adoration.

That sh*t is fake. Do you really think 100+ people
especially “like” the fact that someone else is lying
poolside at the Fontainebleu? The way I see it, if
that’s the only way a girl can feel appreciated, she
needs to throw her iPhone in the deep end – and
do some thinking.

Funny women are genuine and other genuine
people will always recognize that. This is why witty
girls will always have tons of friends, yes, real…
human… friends. People who show their affection,
not by double tapping their phone screen, but by
choosing to spend their time with them.

6. She’s confident

There really aren’t too many shy comedians, are
there? At least not too many successful ones, at any
rate. Anyone who’s ever tried telling a joke at a
dinner party has probably felt a glimmer of
pressure, before having a go at it. But, that’s the
nature of the business.

A good sense of humor shows courage in social situations – and confidence in oneself. Funny women typically know they’re funny,and their ability to use that as a tool of attraction has always been sexy, in my mind.

Many men are intimidated by funny women,
instead electing to date chicks who simply laugh at
their own jokes – and don’t step on their comedic
toes. That’s isn’t any fault of the woman who can
make people laugh, it just shows how unconfident
a lot of dudes are.

5. She will take control of the conversation

Sometimes, as a guy, you’ll want the woman to take
the wheel and steer your conversational vehicles,
so to speak. Girls who are funny are usually able to
dictate conversational directions, by adding
sarcasm or touches of light-heartedness to given
scenarios.

When she makes a little wisecrack, you’ll recognize
it, and respond back with something of your own.
When she laughs at something, you’ll probably feel
the impulse to do the same.

Funny girls will take a lot of pressure off you
because things don’t always have to be so serious.
Maybe she’s fine without that wakeup text every
morning, at 7:45 on the dot, as long as you can
share a laugh or two by lunchtime.

4. She’ll make you work

When a woman flexes her sense of humor,
naturally, it will compel you to do the same. If she
says something witty, you’re not going to want to be
outdone, in the sincerest of fashions.

Finding a funny girl, if you consider yourself to be a
funny guy, is honestly a beautiful thing. As she
makes you laugh, you’ll catch yourself trying to
“one up” her. Yet, to accomplish this, you’re really
only trying to make her laugh – and laugh with
more vigor than you did, yourself.

It drives you to think before you speak and actually
devote some attention to detail into the words you
say (or type, over text). She will make you work
harder – and you’ll appreciate that down the road.

3. Wordplay leads to pre-intimacy

If you start out hanging out with a girl who’s funny,
free of any real expectations or plans for the next
phase of things – just give it some time. Chemistry
starts on a conversational level, first, and then
leads to the bedroom.

Women who can make you laugh will instantly grab
a leg up from a social standpoint, as you’ll likely
want to spend your time around someone from
whom you can derive some aspect of pleasure.

I’ve always found wordplay to be sexy, which I
suppose is fitting considering I work with words for
eight hours each day. When a girl can two-step with
me from a verbal standpoint, it just leads my mind
to thoughts of other ways we would be compatible,
as well.

2. She’ll tear your guard down

Funny women will allow you to be yourself
because, well, they’re probably just being
themselves too. That’s the best part about funny
people – they find humor in even the most
mundane things, which never necessitates too
much effort in return.

Most funny women won’t feel obligated to receive
any expensive gifts – and they’ve probably already
learned that nothing material, whatsoever, is
required for happiness

You’ll never have to be someone else, other than
yourself, to elicit a smile from her – and that
provides a peace of mind that cannot be duplicated
through any other character trait. As long as you’re
present in your relationship with her, I guarantee
that she’ll be able to find something to smile about.

1. Grudges don’t ever end up lasting too long

You could literally be fuming with your girl – but, if
she’s funny – it will never last long. It’s the best
when she knows how mad you are, too, and still
finds a way to make you smile. The ability to do this
will constantly keep you in check, from a bigger
picture standpoint.

Most of the time, arguments are about petty
bullsh*t, things that you’ll probably forget in a few
week’s time – yet can linger for months. Sometimes
you just need a girl who can make you laugh, and
shake it off (cue Taylor Swift voice) before it evolves
into something entirely avoidable.

It’s hard to stay mad at a girl, when you know deep
down that you’d rather be in bed laughing with her.
When you find a girl like this, hold on to her,
because not only will she make a great girlfriend –
but she’ll also be your best friend, too.

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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by toluine56(m): 2:32pm On Jul 17, 2015
It shouldnt be overdone though cos on the flipside, she's likely to be an unserious person.

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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jul 17, 2015
Another list lipsrsealed
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by cherylsmith(f): 2:32pm On Jul 17, 2015
Summary please!
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Andyblaze: 2:36pm On Jul 17, 2015

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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 17, 2015
There are funny girls around?

I thought Jennifer Lawrence was the only funny girl in the entire world.

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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by scentmarlc(m): 2:39pm On Jul 17, 2015
toluine56:
It shouldnt be overdone though cos on the flipside, she's likely to be an unserious person.




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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by scentmarlc(m): 2:40pm On Jul 17, 2015
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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by LEvuls(m): 2:53pm On Jul 17, 2015
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just remembered female comedian princess.... she too don undecided
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by MsBliss(f): 6:38pm On Jul 17, 2015
True talk

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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Remilekun101: 6:50pm On Jul 17, 2015
at the end.. You would still break up
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by babyfaceafrica: 7:38pm On Jul 17, 2015
toluine56:
It shouldnt be overdone though cos on the flipside, she's likely to be an unserious person.
very true....!!..I need a wife..nt a comedian!!
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jul 17, 2015
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