Marriage counsellors normally advise that partners know themselves before tying the nuptial knot. This period of observation is called courtship – when partners get to know more about themselves. However, people are of the opinion that no matter how long a courtship is, partners seldom get to know everything about themselves. In the light of this, SATURDAY PUNCH asked some people what their actions will be if they find out after wedding that their spouses belong to a cult group or an armed robbery gang