For every guy having a girlfriend is more or less a status symbol. They think that carrying a relationship in college in quite cool and funky. But besides this thinking, they get to ignore the problems which are always come along with relationship. Carrying a relation is not at all easy it has both pros and cons. But the dark side of the link ups is always avoided by the youngsters. This article will take you to the dark side of having a relationship and thus through this article you will get to know the disadvantage to having a relationship. So here we have the list of top 10 disadvantages of having a girlfriend. And one should consider these disadvantages also while he is planning to get into a relationship.

10. DISTRACTION
Having a girlfriend is a big time attraction. You will always busy in impressing her in one way or the other and that will result in distraction from your studies. College is a place from where your career starts. College is the first step towards your career and in this if you are going to pay your attention more towards other non productive activities, then it’s a great loss to your career. Not only this if you had a fight with your girlfriend then your whole day will be spoiled because of your bad mood and then if you have a particular time table regarding studies then it will be totally disturbed.


9. RISK OF BAD REPUTATION AT BREAK UP
If you have a link up then there is also a probability of having breakup. It always happen that guys tend to go through or continue with a bad relationship because they have a risk of reputation at breakup. College all together is a new place for you, where you had a formal meet with everyone. You are no more a kid so now even a single mistake of yours can risk your reputation at stake. It’s really hard to make a good reputation and it takes seconds to destroy it. So if your partner is loud and upset from you because of breakup then may be in obsession she can create many fake rumours regarding in order to take revenge or something.

8. PATIENCE
A lot of patience is required if you are in a relationship with the girl. And usually guys do not have the level of required patience at this age. Since it needs a lot of patience in handling a girl and guys do not have the patience which is required. So because of this imbalance it always results in an unsuccessful relationship. And an unsuccessful relationship makes the mind of the guy more distracted.

7. SELF-BURDEN
When a guy has a girlfriend in college he is said to be over- burdened. At college level a guy already has so many responsibilities and carrying all those responsibilities along with a relationship create a mess. So it is better not to carry a burden of any redundant relationship which makes you over-burdened.

6. INFATUATIONS
College link ups are just a complete set of infatuation. They seem to be real but they not real. In college level youngsters consider their infatuations as love and get in a relationship. Youngsters think that the infatuations through which they are going through is true love and so they start dreaming about their future with their partner. And when these future dreams which are quite mesmerizing to them break they get shattered.
5. POSSESSIVENESS
Possessiveness is the most basic and major problem which is faced by a couple in a relationship. Possessiveness can be from either the sides. No matter from which side it is, the mishaps happen. Possessiveness is something when your companion considers you to be his own property an when anyone comes towards you they react to it. Because of possessiveness you cannot make friends who can help you. If you have a girlfriend then your girlfriend will put you in restrictions like not talking to another girl and many more, just because she considers you her personal property and because of this you tend to lose your current friends who were a great support to you.

4. FREEDOM
Having a girlfriend is also a big time compromise with your freedom. If you are relationship then it may happen that your girlfriend will try to your mother. There by restricting you to do all such things which are related to your own freedom and your own space like late night parties etc.

3. MONEY ISSUES
It is obvious and a very common fact which says that a boyfriend save for his girlfriend during college years every student get a pocket money from their parents to accomplish their general necessities. So for a college student it becomes an issue to spend on his girlfriend with an optimum amount of pocket money. Here just to save money for his girlfriend he cuts off his basic necessities and start saving for his girlfriend. In this case he tends to ignore himself therefore degrading his own personality just to see his companion happy. Since it is very difficult to manage in small amount pocket money the guy has to suffer a lot in saving money very month there by compromising with his own demand.

2. MENTAL PRESSURE
Having a girl friend in college might be a status symbol for a guy but along with the status symbol it is a real mental pressure too. In a relationship both the individuals have high expectations from each other and if one flunk to reach the required standard of expectations which his partner has expected then misunderstandings occur. So to avoid misunderstanding keeping a correct track of expectations is necessary which is again a headache for an individual. These kinds of situations create mental pressure on a guy and make him more irritated and distracted as well. And if you are not in any relationship then you can obviously save yourself from such kind of mental pressure.

1. CAREER
The opportunities for career at this time of a youngster are at peak. Due to the relationship burden at this level youngsters tend to ignore the carrier. And because of which they miss their career opportunities which were a compulsion for their bright future. They keep their relation at priority which leads to the degradation of their career. They don’t realize the importance of their career at this time but when they complete their college with degraded grades which were the result of their prior relationship, at that time they realize their mistake when they aren’t left with any other option. Today girls always tend to choose a guy who is successful enough. The time during the college should be genuinely spent on the career opportunities rather than carrying the responsibilities of a short term relationships.
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Story of a guy who couldn't get a girlfriend in college

any relationship that is a burden is simply not good. student or not

donholy28:
Story of a guy who couldn't get a girlfriend in college

who couldn't? am in 200 lv bro

Crappy crap.

Damn Truth..Thanks