Bob@joe:

Drop the crab buddy. I no go fit love the one I no fit love is just like that. And also you dont need or have enough edu/licence to advise this lady here becos from ur conversations you dont seems to know what your point is. you cant talk to him about it and get full detail people lie remember the simple shit is use hint to learn what people thinks. the so called guy dont want to loose the present girl because a bird at hand is worth 1 million in the forest. but as soon as he gets the 1 million the 1 becomes usely that is at best. Aslo you cant go around winning ppls at just like that. remember more genius are need to make love that to lead the united states. "no prove that he is cheating on you, " GROW UP DUDE, GROW UP,

~davidylan:

Tonye-t is right, many people here crying "dump his ass" have never experienced REAL LOVE before . . . its VERY HARD to just lose overnight. No matter how the relationship with his ex ended, there is still something about her that he still cherishes and you dont measure up to.
There is a reason communication lines are important in a relationship, pour ur heart out to him and let him do same to you. It may be you need to work just that bit harder to be the best woman he's ever been with.

Walking away is the easy way out, it would simply reinforce the belief that he would have been better off with his ex anyway.

amebo no1.:

you dey mind them [b]dump his ass my ass ,[/b]they never wanna look at it in two ways

amebo no1.:

there is no blind love here,like i said the man is not maltreating her,or beating her up,gives her d attention she needs,he is caring i could go on and on and on

amebo no1.:

dump my ass simply means :leave him ,and u r not the only person encouraging her to leave him

there is no blind love here,like i said the man is not maltreating her,or beating her up,gives her d attention she needs,he is caring i could go on and on and on

telling her to run away is not d best,d thingy here is telling her to str8n things out with the dude,and not running away like some soft puppy

if she loves him and he loves her,then she should work her way into his heart

running away,like seriously what if she runs away from him and he happens to be her missing rib,how do u think shes going to end up?you think thats the best?

i will not encourage her to run away until she has spoken to the guy,communication is important if not alot of wives will run away from their marriages at d slightest doubt or sthg

topup:

Obviously you would stay in a relationship where the other person has told you he loves someone else. .

That much is clear.

amebo no1.:

@ebonysilk

comunication?hahahahhahahahahah now i know u r new in the gamelet me tell you sthg

amebo no1.:

no they have not even started communicating yet,cos if they have started she would have sat him down and really talked about their relationship,where its leading to,what she feels when he mentions his ex,what he feels for her now?

amebo no1.:

my dear that is d best part of communication

amebo no1.:

why do u think they say dat "its in the bedroom a man and a woman gets to share alot of things dat makes things right"

amebo no1.:

so if your partner tells you he loves you and then hurts you one day,infact keeps hurting you un intentionally,im sure you wont bother tellinh him,afterall we communcate everyday and he's said he loves me a lot of times

amebo no1.:

if you dont talk to him,and tell him how you feel,how will he know that hes hurting you?how will he change to make you happy

amebo no1.:

sweetie dont use dat heels and flat shoes as examples cos we r talking about matured pple here,i mean human beings and not "sopido's or or sandals"

Ebony-Silk:

First of all, why would I sit around and let him hurt me?

amebo no1.:

@ebony

pple get tired of talking?no wonder d divorce rate keeps increasing,no wonder we have single mothers wt kids and no father

no wonder pple end up jumping into false conclusions,cos they"d rather be a coward than an outspoken person.

amebo no1.:

u see why i said u r so new in the game,let experienced pple talk abeg

amebo no1.:

there r diff ways of hurting smone,begging him to make d bed when he wakes up(since u leave d house b4 him) and him never doing it and even help scatter d house more,or tellin him to wear his ring always and him refusing cos he hates wearing jewellries or watsoever,might hurt smone,so there r diff ways of hurting smone it does not necessarily means cheating or beating,it was an example,and ofcourse you can divorce him if he still refuses to make d bed or wear his ring,u always have an option and dats divorce,so relax and take a chill pill

chamotex:

The topic is too long for me to read. Can someone pls summarize?

amebo no1.:

they have an open relationship,i dont,so my husbnad wouldnt even say it,be it open or closed relationship

amebo no1.:


pple get attracted dont they,if he still has feelings for his ex,wetin come concern me,what i should be concerned about is what his true feelings for me are,watching hs actions and behaviour will surely help me out

alot of pple have fallen inlove i mean truly inlove b4, its going to be hard forgetting dat person,cos once in a while their names will surely pop up,now d mistake pple make is thinking its love,since their names still comes to mind,and smtimes it isnt

my ex's name still pops up in my mind,and smtimes i end up smiling when i remember d crazy things we did togeda,but do i still want him back,no way

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davidylan:

Every male will still have residual feelings for their ex. Doesnt mean we'll hump them tomorrow. There's always something in a woman that attracted you in the first place that you never forget. If you both broke up by mutual consent it makes things even worse.
You cant erase it no matter how hard you try, the fact that the guy is with you shld end the story. Work on making urself the girl he will do anything to keep. Finito. No more argument.

chamotex:

The topic is too long for me to read. Can someone pls summarize?

davidylan:

Every male will still have residual feelings for their ex. Doesnt mean we'll hump them tomorrow. There's always something in a woman that attracted you in the first place that you never forget. If you both broke up by mutual consent it makes things even worse.
You cant erase it no matter how hard you try, the fact that the guy is with you shld end the story. Work on making urself the girl he will do anything to keep. Finito. No more argument.

Ebony-Silk:

Poster thinks her bf will leaver her for his ex whom he still loves.

Danke wants her to stick with him, I think otherwise.

amebo no1.:

thank you,dont we all think of our ex,like smone we loved in d past?but does it mean we r going to go back to dat person? they r things we all remember and laff about

chamotex:

Okay thanks.

I think the keyword here is "THINK". Maybe she is insecure or she just doesn't trust him.
Why should she leave just because she thinks her bf will leave her?
I don't believe that's emough reason tho but maybe I'm wrong.

chamotex:

For your mind, you have said something wise abi?

Why won't your husband tell you? She's too good for him or didn't he have feelings for her?

My ex's name still pop up in my mind and there is no love ringing o. . . .and I was in "true" love back then. atleast I thought so

amebo no1.:

more like her bf once had a lover,they r no more togeda,he claims he still has feelings for her but loves his present girl more,he gives his present babe attention and she said hes caring and loving,now d poster is confused,she wants to know if she will run or stay ind relationship.

now ebony is telling her to dump his ass,danke is tellin her to talk to the guy first about it

amebo no1.:

his feelings for me is all dat matters

thats is why pple get confused at times,they think its love but its not,u cant intimately love to pple at d same time,its either u r infatuated or inlove,and dats why i said the poster needs to talk things out with him,if shes smart enoff she will know who he loves

finito

chamotex:

For your mind, you have said something wise abi?

True talk sha.

Okay thanks.

I think the keyword here is "THINK". Maybe she is insecure or she just doesn't trust him.
Why should she leave just because she thinks her bf will leave her?
I don't believe that's emough reason tho but maybe I'm wrong.

davidylan:

most of my exes are my friends and we still talk regularly . . . i have no interest in going back to any . . . i only support them in prayer.  
some women are just too paranoid. I dated a chic once who nearly had a heart attack because an ex sent me a text just to say hello . . .